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General Category => General Talk => Topic started by: Madolah on October 11, 2008, 03:41:26 pm
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So, Last night is a night to remember for me. I did something
horrid Awesome, I had sex with someone who's engaged to someone and her fiance is currently in another continent. I feel great cause shes amazing, beautiful and all the such, but I also feel half guilty. I dunno its early and I'm tired from being up all night, But I guess the topic was made for this.
Have you ever had an intimate relationship with someone who was/is in a relationship/engagement/marriage with someone other than yourself? Did you keep it secret or did people know? As of now her Best friend, and my best friend (whom are brother and sister) know about what we did. Both are turning a blind eye, but we still need to keep it away from a good few people, her fiance being one. :fogetshrug:
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wow...no I've never done that. Is her fiancé your friend?
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However bad you feel, she should feel about ten times worse.
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<se x with mom joke>
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Don't feel guilty she's a slut and her fiancee probably knows that.
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Don't feel guilty because your a guy and guys like to fuck.
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Sleeping with someone else doesn't automatically make her a slut. She really shouldn't be cheating, but cheating once with one person is different from being a slut. People get tempted and some people are worse at dealing with it than others. (this isn't meant to sound harsh, just trying to point it out)
Feelings of guilt are natural, and if I were a daytime TV show I'd say tell the truth about it.
But since it's not FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T TELL HIM.
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No, that was pretty slutty of her. Sorry!
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Don't feel guilty she's a slut and her fiancee probably knows that.
Actually I've only been her second, and her first being her fiance.
@Dulcinea: No. She is best friends with my Best friends sister, and aside from meeting him a handful of times there me and him don't talk, but Me and her have a lot.
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Is the Fiancee
a) a large, muscular guy who could rip you apart if he found out
b) a scrawny dude who would yell at you and throw a coffee cup at you if he found out
if you answered "b" you have nothing to worry about. continue on with your relationship-ruining ways
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Is the Fiancee
a) a large, muscular guy who could rip you apart if he found out
b) a scrawny dude who would yell at you and throw a coffee cup at you if he found out
if you answered "b" you have nothing to worry about. continue on with your relationship-ruining ways
LOL
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B) except he is Asian so he might know kung-fu!
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Yeah that seems like a pretty bad thing to do, to be honest!
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B) except he is Asian so he might know kung-fu!
thats the thing with asian guys, sometimes they're so busy that they neglect their ladies and they become lonely. and of course you were there to satisfy her so.. you really cant blame yourself. You were just at the right place at the right time.
off topic question, is the girl asian?
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My friend Drew has a thing for girls in relationships. He slept with a co-worker who was engaged for several months before kicking her to the curb, made out with another friend in a relationship, and also had a huge crush on me develop when I was engaged to my ex, but we never acted on it because... why would I fool around with someone if I was planning to commit to someone else for life? But yeah, evidently as soon as the girl Drew was sleeping with got married, she lost all appeal to him and he doesn't pick up the phone when she calls all lonely (Read: horny) while her husband is busy at work.
Anyway, not sure why you think what you did was awesome... Think about how you'd feel if she was YOUR fiancee and she slept with another guy while you were out of town. She must be feeling very confused right now as well. Are they pretty recently engaged/close to the wedding date? That's a very vulnerable time for a person who has made the decision to be with ONE person for the rest of their lives. It doesn't make her a slut, but she really doesn't seem ready for such a huge commitment at this stage in her life.
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Yeah that's a pretty shit thing to do.
Worse for her though. Hopefully he'll find out because he doesnt really deserve that. I mean he might, but he probably doesnt.
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I hope for your sake she doesn't conceive a white baby or you've got some explaining to do...
PS I'm under the presumption that you're white since this is a very black thing to do and you're trying to be black...
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I hope for your sake she doesn't conceive a white baby or you've got some explaining to do...
PS I'm under the presumption that you're white since this is a very black thing to do and you're trying to be black...
spike lee just started to experience the stigmata.
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thats the thing with asian guys, sometimes they're so busy that they neglect their ladies and they become lonely. and of course you were there to satisfy her so.. you really cant blame yourself. You were just at the right place at the right time.
off topic question, is the girl asian?
Shes' White.
And Carius, Yes I am white!
Another note, They've been together 5years, and engaged for 3. With no date set its more of a promise ring, but there was a proposal thus there engaged. Also he has been away for the last year and a half only being home for like 2 weeks in that time frame. He's over there another 2-3 years longer for school.
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Maaaaan
If you knew she was engaged you did something really rotten dude! It isn't like . . . profoundly evil or anything but it's just sort of scummy. However it is hard to keep a relationship going strong when one person is away for a year so I don't blame her really.
I have never done this myself!
EDIT: Has anyone noticed that ATARI is basically the official publisher of PC rpgs? Basically every PC RPG I buy (The Witcher, this, Neverwinter Nights, etc) is published by them. It is sad to hear that they are having financial trouble because they are actually one of my favorite publishers now. :-\
EDIT 2: Hahahahah wrong topic.
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If he's been away for a year and a half she should talk to him instead of cheating! There's very few excuses for cheating on someone, I think. I find it a pretty despicable act.
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how would you like it if someone fucked your fiancee?
i know it would be so hot
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I'd be pissed.
At my fiancee.
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as long as you don't post a picture of your penis on her myspace their marriage should be fine
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You're both bad people fyi and you shouldn't feel half guilty but all guilty because you contributed to ruining a relationship of several years.
I mean she's worse because she was the one in it but damn son why you have to do such a thing.
seriously wyrm you continue on this path and you'll be 30 waking up next to chicks named India that sell phone cards at Walgreens and have areola scars and hair so dry it crackles when she turns around in her sleep.
wyrm.
WYRM.
THIS SEX JAUNT DETERMINES YOUR ENTIRE LIFE WYRM.
YOU ARE A GUY THAT WOULD FUCK A DUDE'S GIRL.
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THis is a PRIME example of why dipshit kids shouldn't get married and then go to the military
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well, I think the one who did something wrong was her, I mean she's the one engaged, not you, so it's not really YOUR problem.
if my bf was cheating on me with someone, depending on the situation, it it's only sex I could care less, but if there's a romantic relationship with someone else, it's bye-bye.
I've done it a few times, some of them I didn't know the other person was engaged/married/whatever, but other times I did know, but I don't think my job as a person is to watch for morals of others. (I've never had a romantic relationship with someone who has a partner though)
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'OH NO I DONT HAVE ENOUGH MATURITY AND SELF RESTRAINT TO UPHOLD AN OATH I SWORE TO MY HUSBAND WHATEVER WILL I DO
*sit on friend's dick
OH NO I JUST FUCKED SOMEONE ELS E HO NO WHAT WILL I DO
although I think the marriage system is stupid as shit in the first place, its like buying a car and then after a few weeks selling the car because you can't pay for it and weren't intelligent enough to plan out what might happen in the future and how to handle it.
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the closest thing similar to this i have done is making out with a girl that was married to a marine................................................................................................. she lives in cali so i dont have to worry about muscular marines snapping my neck
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B) except he is Asian so he might know kung-fu!
fuck you stereotyping racist motherfucker
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It takes two to tango.
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Shes' White.
And Carius, Yes I am white!
Another note, They've been together 5years, and engaged for 3. With no date set its more of a promise ring, but there was a proposal thus there engaged. Also he has been away for the last year and a half only being home for like 2 weeks in that time frame. He's over there another 2-3 years longer for school.
You sure?
White girls don't go for asians unless they like being jabbed by a thimble...
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You sure?
White girls don't go for asians unless they like being jabbed by a thimble...
fuck you racist motherfucker
you're breaking all my hopes and dreams
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well, I think the one who did something wrong was her, I mean she's the one engaged, not you, so it's not really YOUR problem.
if my bf was cheating on me with someone, depending on the situation, it it's only sex I could care less, but if there's a romantic relationship with someone else, it's bye-bye.
I've done it a few times, some of them I didn't know the other person was engaged/married/whatever, but other times I did know, but I don't think my job as a person is to watch for morals of others. (I've never had a romantic relationship with someone who has a partner though)
so as a person you don't watch for morals of others but in that vein you also have the moral turpitude to aid them in breaking their vows of fealty and see no problem because, hey I GOT LAID.
idk some of us don't feel comfortable helping people who they are supposed to be friends with break their committed relationships just to get a dicktouch.
fuck you stereotyping racist motherfucker
its pretty clearly a joke. I would think your reply was too but PSYBURN so.
You sure?
White girls don't go for asians unless they like being jabbed by a thimble...
carius you are australian and have made two racist jokes in the thread so far, I don't think you realize the thin ice you're currently jumping up and down on.
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Also he has been away for the last year and a half only being home for like 2 weeks in that time frame. He's over there another 2-3 years longer for school.
what??? thats not a relationship, do whatever you want
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so as a person you don't watch for morals of others but in that vein you also have the moral turpitude to aid them in breaking their vows of fealty and see no problem because, hey I GOT LAID.
idk some of us don't feel comfortable helping people who they are supposed to be friends with break their committed relationships just to get a dicktouch.
Well, I don't see having sex with someone else than your partner as a bad thing at all, I think it's their decision, so it they want to do it, and I don't ahve any personal problems with it, I don't see what's wrong. However I never take the initiative in such a case, I don't go arund flirting with engaged people, but if they do it to me, I guess they don't have a problem with it.
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Well, I don't see having sex with someone else than your partner as a bad thing at all, I think it's their decision, so it they want to do it, and I don't ahve any personal problems with it, I don't see what's wrong. However I never take the initiative in such a case, I don't go arund flirting with engaged people, but if they do it to me, I guess they don't have a problem with it.
you wouldn't feel the least bit slimy? like I know the feeling of " : ) someone pretty likes me : ( noooo they're unavailable DONT BE SICK " (http://achewood.com/index.php?date=06032008) but usually the sad smiley wins because otherwise I feel like a slug.
what??? thats not a relationship, do whatever you want
my dad did the same thing for like two years in puerto rico dogg its called long distance and while it usually doesn't work it still exists until it doesn't.
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The morality of sex always concerns two things, consent and reciprocity. Like I said before, you have' to put yourself in the shoes of this girl, her fiancee, and ask yourself how you would see yourself in the act if you were outside the situation. I would have a big problem with doing the horizontal monster mash with someone who belonged to someone else, because I know how I would feel if someone did that to me, and I would want to do the right thing and keep the general in the barracks.
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well, I think the one who did something wrong was her, I mean she's the one engaged, not you, so it's not really YOUR problem.
if my bf was cheating on me with someone, depending on the situation, it it's only sex I could care less, but if there's a romantic relationship with someone else, it's bye-bye.
I've done it a few times, some of them I didn't know the other person was engaged/married/whatever, but other times I did know, but I don't think my job as a person is to watch for morals of others. (I've never had a romantic relationship with someone who has a partner though)
It wasn't a relationship, it was a fuck. It was us talking, her wanting to cuddle. Next time it was talk cuddle, kiss and BAM sex started (and lasted for like, EVER (1h 46-48m) )
Depending on how awkward it may be, It may or may not happen again.
After a nap and a shower I don't really feel guilty or any different. It is likely not to change round her, but its gonna be a tough act when ever he's around for his week every 6months...
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I would only feel bad, if I thought I was doing something wrong, but I don't think that. Now I have to agree with you on something, if the person who was engaged was actually my friend or something and I KNEW he thinks having sex with others is wrong, and is doing it merely because he's horny/drunk/whatever, then I wouldn't do it, but the times I've done it, it has been with people I don't really know their moral code, so I just ASSUME the have no problem with it either.
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enjoy a future full of postmenopausal women with scoliosis wyrm...i tried to save you...
*straps a fifteen year old girl to his face, rides off on a horse drawn carriage. the carriage is named The Whispering Drapes.*
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I would only feel bad, if I thought I was doing something wrong, but I don't think that. Now I have to agree with you on something, if the person who was engaged was actually my friend or something and I KNEW he thinks having sex with others is wrong, and is doing it merely because he's horny/drunk/whatever, then I wouldn't do it, but the times I've done it, it has been with people I don't really know their moral code, so I just ASSUME the have no problem with it either.
But its not about everyone having a different relativeistic moral code. Its about testing the maxim that you should treat others with the consideration and compassion that you want to be treated with. I don't think that if you go and have sex with someone's girlfriend or wife, that consideration of or compassion for that someone is the foremost thing on your mind.
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uhhhh HELLO morals are relative there's nothing wrong with extramarital affairs. humans are the only animals with the 'institution' of marriage and i think in this case you need to look no further than the old maxim "finders keepers, losers weepers"
the only one who should feel bad is the woman for selling herself to a man before trying out the buffet
edit: Warning! While you were making this post...
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but morals are not relative they are absolute by maxims of reciprocity and intent. ethics and customs are relative, and its true that different cultures have different ideas about sex and gender and relationships, but that doesn't deny the fact that you should treat others how you want to be treated
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morals are relative and always will be but certain aspects of morality have to be in place for society to hold together.
in my own relativist decency standards, I would never break up a relationship just to get my fuck on and can't really fathom a good reason as to why you would.
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well we are straying into the objectivist/subjectivist thing which philosophers have not answered for thousands of years but I think we can all agree that boning for the sake of boning with someone who is off the market is generally not a good idea
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As I said already, if my bf had sex with someone else, I could care less, so I DO treat others the same way I would want they to treat me, I don't do stuff I consider bad to other people, but if I don't find it's wrong, there's no problem, there are loads of people who think extramarital SEX is allright, and I think we're all grownups and have to take care of ourselves.
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steel you say that as if having sex with someone in a relationship would automatically dissolve the relationship. what if they are in an open relationship of sorts, or it is made very clear that there will never be a relationship between you two beyond sex and only under certain circumstances (like the other person is away for months/years and they just want to get a laid)
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Marriage has become a financial institution.
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I am pro you fucking her mainly because she needs to realise that marrying that guy is not for her if she wants to do that!
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steel you say that as if having sex with someone in a relationship would automatically dissolve the relationship. what if they are in an open relationship of sorts, or it is made very clear that there will never be a relationship between you two beyond sex and only under certain circumstances (like the other person is away for months/years and they just want to get a laid)
i didn't say automatically, but it's pretty likely that fucking around isn't cool with your partner especially if you haven't discussed it. if you have an open relationship, mazel tov although I've never met one of those where it wasn't a guy dragging around a desperate girl who hopes one day...they'll be together... but saying ITS JUST SEX and not having discussed that with your partner? not cool. sexuality still has a degree of intimacy for most people and betraying that tends to upset most folks.
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yeah obviously in this case she never talked it over with her fiancee and thats not the case here at all, im just saying in general if it has been discussed and agreed that it's ok to have casual sex but not any other form of relationship would you do her then??
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You sir, are a home wrecker in the making, adding to the spiraling abysmal of a thing we can call society today.
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she's only ever had sex with her fiance and now wyrm
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All I have to say is, if you're going to do it again, do it on her wedding day. You would be the coolest guy ever if you could say that you had sex with a girl on her wedding day.
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but morals are not relative they are absolute by maxims of reciprocity and intent. ethics and customs are relative, and its true that different cultures have different ideas about sex and gender and relationships, but that doesn't deny the fact that you should treat others how you want to be treated
what?? treating others the way you want to be treated is a moral, so yeah moral relativism does change that!
made absolute by maxims of reciprocity and intent <- this is garbage what do you even mean, if morals were the best thing to do for the individual then we wouldn't need them because everyone would behave that way anyway
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yeah obviously in this case she never talked it over with her fiancee and thats not the case here at all, im just saying in general if it has been discussed and agreed that it's ok to have casual sex but not any other form of relationship would you do her then??
well I'm not a big fan of the casual sex. lord save me from the casual sex. I know myself well enough to know that if I want to have sex with someone chances are it's because of something beyond their looks so if I knew there was no chance of a relationship I don't know if I'd bother to put both her and I through that because I'm relatively charming and if someone wanted to fuck me it certainly wouldn't be because of my looks.
so basically every casual sex situation I've been in was resultant from my having a non-casual sex appeal! ask bort hes quite the handsome devil.
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Holy shit has this conversation gotten convoluted and pretentious or what?
Fucking people in relationships is fucked up and people fucking people when they're in a committed relationship is also fucked up. End of story!
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what?? treating others the way you want to be treated is a moral, so yeah moral relativism does change that!
made absolute by maxims of reciprocity and intent <- this is garbage what do you even mean, if morals were the best thing to do for the individual then we wouldn't need them because everyone would behave that way anyway
The idea that there is a maxim of morality (for example, do unto others) negates the idea of moral relativism, if you agree with it, which I do. Like I said, while ethics continue to be relativistic (based on circumstance) intent and accountable judgement of reciprocity (both of which transcend circumstance but still apply to the individual) are clearer indicators of the morality of an action.
But if you're a relativist by philosophy you are also equally entitled to that opinion.
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Holy shit has this conversation gotten convoluted and pretentious or what?
Fucking people in relationships is fucked up and people fucking people when they're in a committed relationship is also fucked up. End of story!
I'm glad we can have an adult debate in here. =)
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maxims like the golden rule don't make morals absolute because Jimbo Jobs might have the silver rule: cash rules everything around me, C.R.E.A.M get the money, dollar dollar bill yall
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Ah boy. Sex advice from GW of all places.
If you feel fine about that then whatever, but I think life is more productive when you take active control over those impulses. Not just sexuality, but other things in general, like getting unreasonably pissed off and drinking too much. Doing the 'right thing' tends to be less troublesome (huh who'da thought), and I think you'd feel better about yourself afterwards. I think that if you decided not to screw around with her, you'd be a little more grateful to yourself...at least you wouldn't have made this topic. Thanks to you, now GW's going to explode.
How is she? Do you think she'll rat you out? Why aren't you worrying about stuff like that.
And seriously, what if she gets pregnant.
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i had sex with a girl who had a fiancee while i was at the beach. i totally didn't care though, her fiancee was some representative for the hotel chain we were staying at and was like 20 years older than she was. plus she was the one who approached me.
she was puerto rican and fine as hell, too. she also claimed to be a nymphomaniac but idk if she actually was or if she was just using that as an excuse to cheat on her fiancee.
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maxims like the golden rule don't make morals absolute because Jimbo Jobs might have the silver rule: cash rules everything around me, C.R.E.A.M get the money, dollar dollar bill yall
But if one holds that there is a maxim that one can judge the morality of an action by (like the golden rule or the more self serving raking in of benjamins) it upholds the idea that morality can be judged conclusively. If morality can be judged, then there must be applicable judgements (right or wrong) to apply to it. Therefore the idea that there is no right or wrong is negated if one as a moral agent believes that a maxim can determine right from wrong.
but like I said it depends on your philosophy also i don't want to keep this up all night so yawn ttyl
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Ah boy. Sex advice from GW of all places.
If you feel fine about that then whatever, but I think life is more productive when you take active control over those impulses. Not just sexuality, but other things in general, like getting unreasonably pissed off and drinking too much. Doing the 'right thing' tends to be less troublesome (huh who'da thought), and I think you'd feel better about yourself afterwards. I think that if you decided not to screw around with her, you'd be a little more grateful to yourself...at least you wouldn't have made this topic. Thanks to you, now GW's going to explode.
How is she? Do you think she'll rat you out? Why aren't you worrying about stuff like that.
And seriously, what if she gets pregnant.
Well
1) we talked about it after the first cuddle and she said if it could be kept secret from him and a handful of friends then shes ok
2) Ratting me out, will only end in a dissolve of there engagement most likely
3) Protection, and shes on the pill.
Also to Juris, This is one of few communities I'm active in that doesn't have a population (or like one a full population) of people from where I live. I strangely have a trust for a few people here and I thought it would be a good debate. There's always a "other man/woman" topic in other communities so yeah.
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steel you have a golden opportunity to be having "i have cancer my dying wish is to fuck you" sex WHY DONT YOU TAKE IT
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(https://legacy.gamingw.net/etc/www.wyrm.leafo.net/uploads/scout.gif) fuck yeah super sneaky scout op sneakin' around in your girl's vag bag. shoop shoop. (https://legacy.gamingw.net/etc/www.wyrm.leafo.net/uploads/scout.gif)
I do not see any way that this is not a completely horrible thing to do. Have fun rationalising it.
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But if one holds that there is a maxim that one can judge the morality of an action by (like the golden rule or the more self serving raking in of benjamins) it upholds the idea that morality can be judged conclusively. If morality can be judged, then there must be applicable judgements (right or wrong) to apply to it. Therefore the idea that there is no right or wrong is negated if one as a moral agent believes that a maxim can determine right from wrong.
but like I said it depends on your philosophy also i don't want to keep this up all night so yawn ttyl
I agree with what you've been saying. It makes me tihnk a bit of (was it Kant? I can't remember). The idea that if you are all right with the entire population doing your action to you, then you should feel okay with what you're doing. Ie: If you are all right with the entire population sleeping with your fiance, then by all means...
To people who are saying that she's a slut and to people who are saying that he was wrong...we can't really make an objective statement another way unless we were there. I mean...on the one hand:
There's a girl whose made a commitment to a man who is now very far away and has been for a long time. She's obviously feeling very lonley and uncertain right now, and is in a very vulnerable state. If a good friend makes a move on her in this case then the friend is just as to blame.
Alternatively, she is supposed to be committed to this man and if she cannot resist temptation even before tying the knot, is she really in a place to marry this guy?
Then again, we might also look at the fact that we're all human, and people make mistakes and learn from them. One mistake doesn't mean you're eternally damned. If she cheats this once before she gets married, feels guilty and never does it again, is it as bad as if she does it, likes it and continues doing it behind his back?
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Alternatively, she is supposed to be committed to this man and if she cannot resist temptation even before tying the knot, is she really in a place to marry this guy?
Yes think about it, if she really cared about engagement relationships etc she wouldn't have done it so no reason to feel guilty at all. It would happen anyway with other person(s).
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all girls are sluts, so it's okay to feel absolutely no emotion. you can't complain when it happens to you though, brah.
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all girls are sluts, so it's okay to feel absolutely no emotion. you can't complain when it happens to you though, brah.
That's not a fair statement at all. I've never cheated on anyone, and I always keep to my boyfriend (of which I've only had two). There are plenty of girls who are exactly the same way, including one of my friends whose been with the same guy since she was 14, goes to a different university and has never cheated on him. Compare that to my sisters whose every boyfriend they've had (excluding one for my second oldest sister that she's now going to marry) has cheated on them.
We all have different experiences but it's not fair either way to say that all girls are sluts or all boys are manwhores.
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But if one holds that there is a maxim that one can judge the morality of an action by (like the golden rule or the more self serving raking in of benjamins) it upholds the idea that morality can be judged conclusively. If morality can be judged, then there must be applicable judgements (right or wrong) to apply to it. Therefore the idea that there is no right or wrong is negated if one as a moral agent believes that a maxim can determine right from wrong.
but like I said it depends on your philosophy also i don't want to keep this up all night so yawn ttyl
there's absolute morality because people can make judgements on relative morals.
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jesus christ someone took tft at face value.
this topic is like a rollercoaster of weird shit.
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TLDR
Also THAT WAS A JOKE
you should answer with: shut up asshole
and everyone will understand don't type so much my fucking eyes hurt
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I really wouldn't take TFT seriously...
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TLDR
Also THAT WAS A JOKE
you should answer with: shut up asshole
and everyone will understand don't type so much my fucking eyes hurt
shut up asshole :P
And no I didn't take him seriously. But there ARE people out there who have that opinion so I thought I'd comment anyway. And honestly 5 lines is tldr? There are lots of posts in this thread about the same length.
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Then again, we might also look at the fact that we're all human, and people make mistakes and learn from them. One mistake doesn't mean you're eternally damned. If she cheats this once before she gets married, feels guilty and never does it again, is it as bad as if she does it, likes it and continues doing it behind his back?
I wouldn't marry the girl in either scenario.
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So, were you interested in a serious relationship or just sex?
You probably should have kept your pants on either way.
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I can't believe how many people are trying to justify this.
I agree with majority of what Steel has said so far in this topic.
This was a really shitty thing to do. If you really don't feel any kind of remorse, then fuck, -1 on my hope for humanity.
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It happens all the time unfortunately, and when you think about it, when a person is gone for like a year you can't help but meet new people and things happen. I'm not trying to justify it because I don't think it was the right thing at all to do, but sadly it does happen. I wouldn't call her a slut, but I think if she really was sure about this guy, she would not have slept with you.
I know it probably doesn't sound like a good idea, but if I had my conscience in a knot, I would have atleast liked for him to hear it from me or her, before anyone else. If there is a 0% chance of him not finding out, you should pretty much try to keep it quiet.
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I'd normally totally disagree with this but he's been away for a year, she'd be lonely, she obviously digs you a bit and if it just happened you wouldn't really be thinking of the repercussions while it was happening. I can't get up on a high horse here because I'd probably have done the same thing myself.
I've had sex with a girl in a relationship and I'm not really proud of it but I can understand that sometimes it just happens. It's not a good thing and not something you should ever try to do but there are situations where it happens and you don't have time to properly consider it and that's that.
I really don't like cheating and I'd never do it to a girl I was dating, but I understand your situation and although it was a SHITTY THING I think you should just come to terms with the fact that it happened and leave it at that. I probably wouldn't do it again unless she was really unhappy with the relationship, and in that case she should break it off before you continue.
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Your all talking as if every relationship was done out of choice by the individuals engaging in the relationship or by choice with the intent of commiting themselves to the other with no other reasons. What about arranged marriages? Or people who marry/stay together for the sake of their children/ money? Those are relationships, ones that will probably almost always end badly but those are still relationships.
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what ABOUT those, we're talking about a dude who couldn't keep his dick in his pants and fucked another dude's girl.
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People on GamingW have sex?
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Yeah I've actually done this twice... But both times with the same girl, she just had diff BFs one time and the other. I didn't feel bad at all because I'm twice the man either of them are. And she's MY bitch. Anyways, I know you don't know the guy, but whatever. If she's engaged and has sex with someone else, I'd be more worried about the girl you slept with rather than how guilty you feel... you should be more scared than anything.
This is a crazy bitch. Fuck it, and don't give out any personal information. If she knows where you live already, like, you fucked her at your place... Shit son, you shoulda really thought twice about it. Shoulda fucked her in your car. If she doesn't know shit about you though already, keep it that way until she either breaks up with the guy or marries him and still wants to talk to ya. Then you can ruin the marriage and reap half of what the other guy earns through her.
Dude, gotta give you props though. Fucking engaged chicks is pretty up there on the pedestal of sexual conquest.
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high five. fuck anything that moves.
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I'd say... good for you.
It seems like her relationship isn't going anywhere--however she should end it sometime soon.
Judging by what you said about her, you're a lucky guy and shouldn't feel guilty at all. It's the asian dude's fault.
No really. And sorry for making fun of asians. :fogetshrug:
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I don't know man, it really depends on the scenario. If some girl has her legs open with a lit up run way in front of her then why should you care? She's obviously down for it so it's not really your fault. Just remember, she probably would have screwed someone else. I'll admit it'll probably get awkward if you actually KNEW the guy but yeah, whatever. I wouldn't mess around with my boy's girl though because that's kind of fucked up. The only way I would even consider that is if I wanted to do it or I just didn't give a fuck about my boy anymore.
Some girls are just like that though. I can recall a few girls I messed around with that were in a relationship already. It's not like I woke up and decided that I would do this, it was more HER coming onto ME. I even brush them off a few times too. But eventually, when the time's right, it'll happen. You have your whip, a place to do your thang, etc... Shit happens bro so just take it in.
I'm sorry but I'm not really into commited relationships. I've gave it a swing a few times (twice) and I never wanted to try that crap anymore. I'm sure if I find Mrs. right I'll be down though since it gets depressing being player all your life.
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how would you like it if someone fucked your fiancee?
i know it would be so hot
I'd join in.
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just hey, if you get caught just say something like "i can't help she stumbled onto my dick"
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This is a crazy bitch. Fuck it, and don't give out any personal information. If she knows where you live already, like, you fucked her at your place... Shit son, you shoulda really thought twice about it. Shoulda fucked her in your car. If she doesn't know shit about you though already, keep it that way until she either breaks up with the guy or marries him and still wants to talk to ya. Then you can ruin the marriage and reap half of what the other guy earns through her.
AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
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Sex topics always get ten million replies. This is stupid and you are stupid.
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I don't know man, it really depends on the scenario. If some girl has her legs open with a lit up run way in front of her then why should you care?
dignity.
self respect.
sexually transmitted diseases.
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So, Last night is a night to remember for me. I did something horrid Awesome, I had sex with someone who's engaged to someone and her fiance is currently in another continent. I feel great cause shes amazing, beautiful and all the such, but I also feel half guilty. I dunno its early and I'm tired from being up all night, But I guess the topic was made for this.
Have you ever had an intimate relationship with someone who was/is in a relationship/engagement/marriage with someone other than yourself? Did you keep it secret or did people know? As of now her Best friend, and my best friend (whom are brother and sister) know about what we did. Both are turning a blind eye, but we still need to keep it away from a good few people, her fiance being one. :fogetshrug:
lol great I HAD SEX post. Seriously though, I would pistol whip and scare the piss out of anyone who fucked around with my wife while I was away. You've got to be careful doing shit like that because there's people like me out there who drink away their sorrows and then get violent.
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lol great I HAD SEX post. Seriously though, I would pistol whip and scare the piss out of anyone who fucked around with my wife while I was away. You've got to be careful doing shit like that because there's people like me out there who drink away their sorrows and then get violent.
heh iam a male..........................i shall defend my property
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btw anyone who gets violent because someone hit on their partner and/or had sex with her is backwards as hell
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I don't blame him any otherdude mark my womans they're gettin a hatchet to the faec
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thats MY BITCH You 'dont DTUOCH MY BTICH THATS THE ULITGMATE PARTY FOUL
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I don't blame him any otherdude mark my womans they're gettin a hatchet to the faec
its a stupid reaction. ffffffff porcelaine women need their stud thats the gender roles arent they
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I was joking but yeah I'd hope I wouldn't resort to violence because I'm not naturally a violent person and I'd probably just say:
FUCK YOU IM LEAVIN AND IM TAKIN THIS DICK WITH ME
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yeah. i mean i grew in this type of enviroment where this kind of shit was encouraged. i.e. i would get drunk in seedy mexican pubs. still, its pretty nasty and somewhat sexist to be fair (i.e. it obviously is her choice if she wants to open her vagina to foreign dicks and you cant do anything about it.) of course, if someone forced my girlfriend into sex (rape) that is a different can of worms and i would murder the fucker
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heh iam a male..........................i shall defend my property
it was a joke/warning dogg
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btw anyone who gets violent because someone hit on their partner and/or had sex with her is backwards as hell
is it backwards to be upset or to get violent?
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yeah. i mean i grew in this type of enviroment where this kind of shit was encouraged. i.e. i would get drunk in seedy mexican pubs. still, its pretty nasty and somewhat sexist to be fair (i.e. it obviously is her choice if she wants to open her vagina to foreign dicks and you cant do anything about it.) of course, if someone forced my girlfriend into sex (rape) that is a different can of worms and i would murder the fucker
It's a complete betrayal of trust. I really shouldn't have to explain this but, when you enter into a relationship there's a mutual trust that either of you aren't going to fuck around on each other. That's how a monogamous relationship works. I think anger/violence is a completely justified reaction if some slimy asshole comes around and knowingly has sex with someone's partner. Obviously people shouldn't go hitting their spouse and the relationship should be ended based on a demonstrated inability for one party to uphold their end of the bargain, but the man/woman outside of the relationship is fair game for a beatdown.
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its a stupid reaction. ffffffff porcelaine women need their stud thats the gender roles arent they
women who beat the shit out of women that fuck around with their husband are pretty justified too. fyi
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i don't really think you did anything wrong. cheating has been kind of stigmatized as ALWAYS ALWAYS WRONG but i think there are a wide variety of extenuating circumstances that justify it, or at least make it understandable. if it was just her being kind of trampy and blowing off her boyfriend's trust then that's pretty shitty and indicative of her character, but if the relationship is in the pits and he is gone the large majority of the time, and you two have ACTUAL CHEMISTRY and are maybe kind of in the process of forming a relationship then i think that's pretty alright. like it still kind of sucks to cheap but if you're really trying to start something and she's into you more than he is her actual boyfriend, i don't think it's so bad.
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btw anyone who gets violent because someone hit on their partner and/or had sex with her is backwards as hell
hehe look who's caught up in gender roles, you automatically assume the person cheating or being hit on is a WOMAN
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It's a complete betrayal of trust. I really shouldn't have to explain this but, when you enter into a relationship there's a mutual trust that either of you aren't going to fuck around on each other. That's how a monogamous relationship works. I think anger/violence is a completely justified reaction if some slimy asshole comes around and knowingly has sex with someone's partner. Obviously people shouldn't go hitting their spouse and the relationship should be ended based on a demonstrated inability for one party to uphold their end of the bargain, but the man/woman outside of the relationship is fair game for a beatdown.
explain why the girl who fucks a dude in a relationship (maybe even out of ACTUAL AFFECTION) is somehow more deserving of violence than the guy who completely betrayed his spouse's trust
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bitch i fuck you up for fucking wit my man
but guy who fucked me over hardcore your alright PEACE
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I can't believe you guys are OK with this kind of slimy shit. It is NOT OK to have sex with someone in a serious relationship, just tell them to end their relationship before you get involved and exercise a little respect and self-control!
explain why the girl who fucks a dude in a relationship (maybe even out of ACTUAL AFFECTION) is somehow more deserving of violence than the guy who completely betrayed his spouse's trust
depends on circumstances. if the woman he cheated with did so knowingly, then she is an outside element that is knowingly being a piece of shit.
Inter-relationship violence just isn't acceptable on my own arbitrary terms.
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oh thats cool
i mean its pretty lame but man it just seems kind of childish to be like noooo never do this!!! IDEALLY it would not happen and they would just wait but idk sex is kind of a big part of a relationship and i think it'd be weird to leave a serious relationship for someone you haven't even been physically intimate with! people cheat all the time and it's shitty but yeah i think there are times when it is pretty understandable not necessarily a huge, negative reflection on the person's values. like it's one of the more understandable mistakes a person can make i think
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oh thats cool
i mean its pretty lame but man it just seems kind of childish to be like noooo never do this!!! IDEALLY it would not happen and they would just wait but idk sex is kind of a big part of a relationship and i think it'd be weird to leave a serious relationship for someone you haven't even been physically intimate with! people cheat all the time and it's shitty but yeah i think there are times when it is pretty understandable not necessarily a huge, negative reflection on the person's values. like it's one of the more understandable mistakes a person can make i think
how is exercising respect for others and self-control childish???
no matter how you slice it: it's fucked up, don't do it, handle the situation like a mature adult and wait for them to be outside of a relationship before you get involved.
people who can't manage to do that are fucking assholes and slimy pieces of shit, trust me I'm good friends with a lot of them!
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nah i didn't mean that was childish, i mean like this kind of insane reactionary attitude most people have to cheating seems kind of childish and naive to me. like WHAT NO WHAT KIND OF PERSON WOULD DO THIS???? it's kind of ridiculous!
i mean i really just do not care that much about cheating and i think that is the direction some others are moving in as well! if your relationship is sexually unsatisfying i don't really think it should be a breach of trust to fuck someone else (most monogamous relationships are too possessive i think) just for some type of sexual gratification. and the alternative is that you're actually involved with another person and not just fucking them in which case why even bother waiting when it's clear the relationship you're in is basically already over to begin with and you're essentially involved in another one while your current one is in its death throes? why does it make it better that the girl who ditched you for another guy didn't have sex until after she told you he was ditching you? i mean we clearly have different views on monogamous relationships and that's alright but i don't think you should impose your perspective on HOW RELATIONSHIPS NEED TO BE (ALWAYS!!) on other people who don't agree, especially when the current setup is actually kind of unideal.
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but if you look at it from another viewpoint (which might not be relevant to this topic) if its just a one night/quick sling and you don't know her too well
WHY would you give a shit. THEN, I think its her bad not the dude boning her. Because he doesn't know her and he couldn't care less so I think all of the blame would fall on her.
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I wonder how much experience with relationships the posters in this topic have? Of course this is just curiosity speaking.
I better not ask that however or everyone will get mad.
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And of course if there's a problem in the relationship that warrants one to consider cheating, one would think the logical thing to do would be to get together with your partner and talk about it, and if it's impossible to fix said problem, end the relationship like mature adults.
But I guess that's asking too much! I'm going to sleep with my neighbor in my girlfriends soft bed.
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yo sometimes SITTING DOWN AND CHATTING is not realistically an option when one party is unwilling and also some relationships are pretty messy to get out of and it is kind of something you have to work towards and i actually think that CONNECTING WITH SOMEONE ELSE is what pushes a person to be able to see that something they have is over, not the other way around. like even if the relationship is not working, people form attachments and i don't really think it should be any surprise that it's easier to move away from someone a little bit by cheating than it is to move away from them completely by just breaking it off. when you are that close with a person i think it's a multiple-step process and i think perhaps that being close with someone else is one of the steps towards actually ending a relationship for real.
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hehe look who's caught up in gender roles, you automatically assume the person cheating or being hit on is a WOMAN
:shrugs: in my experience, it is more of a tendency of males to beat the fuck out each other when this kind of things happen. maybe its because i grew up in ..............beanerland where things from politics to trivial disagreements are solved by males in the streets with closed fists. its like saying that i am caught in gender roles for claiming that most rapists are male.
tbh i dont really mind having sex/making out with someone engaged if i dont know the dude. if he is my friend things are different.
It's a complete betrayal of trust. I really shouldn't have to explain this but, when you enter into a relationship there's a mutual trust that either of you aren't going to fuck around on each other. That's how a monogamous relationship works. I think anger/violence is a completely justified reaction if some slimy asshole comes around and knowingly has sex with someone's partner. Obviously people shouldn't go hitting their spouse and the relationship should be ended based on a demonstrated inability for one party to uphold their end of the bargain, but the man/woman outside of the relationship is fair game for a beatdown.
i am not saying cheating on your partner is not bad. i am saying that anyone who wants to beat other person for doing this is backwards. just be a real adult and LEAVE WOMAN rather than being a huge manchild about it.
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why does it make it better that the girl who ditched you for another guy didn't have sex until after she told you he was ditching you?
Really!? You can't see a difference in the two situations?
Case one: She's honest with me and lets me know that she'd like to end the relationship so she could go on and have a relationship with someone else.
Case two: She's dishonest with me and doesn't have enough respect for me to let me know that she does not want to be in a relationship with me anymore while going out and having sex with another guy
you REALLY can't see why one would be worse than the other?????
Feldschlacht IV I'm starting to wonder the same thing.
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"posts about lack of experience in relationships because this is a videogame forum*
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yo sometimes SITTING DOWN AND CHATTING is not realistically an option when one party is unwilling and also some relationships are pretty messy to get out of and it is kind of something you have to work towards and i actually think that CONNECTING WITH SOMEONE ELSE is what pushes a person to be able to see that something they have is over, not the other way around.
Okay, first of all, if the relationship has degenerated to the point where I can't have a chat with my significant other over a major fundamental problem in the relationship in any capacity or medium, then the relationship is pretty much over because if that's the case I guess that would mean that said partner is dead or something.
And unless it's an abusive relationship, there's no such thing as 'messy to get out of'. And yeah, the thought occurs as if what if you're living with said partner and you can't just break up and leave because you share the rent or something, then yeah, that's the only messy scenario I can think of, but considering all of this, it's relatively rare.
And yeah, connecting with someone else takes time, enough time for me to call the partner up and tell them "Hey look..." before I just go out and bang someone.
Seriously.
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yeah see i think you're putting your ideas of WHAT WARRANTS A LACK OF RESPECT into a situation where it is not actually the case. like confusion//conflicted feelings/general unsureness of what the fuck she should or wants to do somehow equals THIS BICH DONT RESPECT ME i guess?
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tbh i dont really mind having sex/making out with someone engaged if i dont know the dude.
well then we have some pretty big differences in how we behave and respect others.
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yeah see i think you're putting your ideas of WHAT WARRANTS A LACK OF RESPECT into a situation where it is not actually the case. like confusion//conflicted feelings/general unsureness of what the fuck she should or wants to do somehow equals THIS BICH DONT RESPECT ME i guess?
are you saying that it's not disrespectful to betray someone's trust in you?
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tbh i dont really mind having sex/making out with someone engaged if i dont know the dude.
Wow, you're pretty fucked up!
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yeah see i think you're putting your ideas of WHAT WARRANTS A LACK OF RESPECT into a situation where it is not actually the case. like confusion//conflicted feelings/general unsureness of what the fuck she should or wants to do somehow equals THIS BICH DONT RESPECT ME i guess?
You're giving bitches way too much credit.
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well then we have some pretty big differences in how we behave and respect others.
of course. i wouldnt pistolwhip a guy if he inserted his dick in my gf. i would just get really mad about it and stop talking to her
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I think we've moved beyond that point, Marmot.
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of course. i wouldnt pistolwhip a guy if he inserted his dick in my gf. i would just get really mad about it and stop talking to her
it was a joke it was a joke it was a joke i don't even own a gun
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Okay, first of all, if the relationship has degenerated to the point where I can't have a chat with my significant other over a major fundamental problem in the relationship in any capacity or medium, then the relationship is pretty much over because if that's the case I guess that would mean that said partner is dead or something.
man they are called communication problems and no i do not think it means the RELATIONSHIP IS DEAD. people are unwilling to talk about that kind of stuff for a lot of reasons! maybe they are dumb or maybe they are uncomfortable or maybe they know on some level that there are problems but think that by refusing to acknowledge them they are not real. none of these things necessarily mean that the relationship is "pretty much over" dude but they are all very frequently reasons why people do not just sit down and talk shit out.
And unless it's an abusive relationship, there's no such thing as 'messy to get out of'.
what??? yes there is what are you even talking about man. serious relationships, especially ones where people live together, are kind of a pain in the ass to break up! i don't mean messy like OH GOD WHYYY although i think that's a part of it, too; i mean that really it's kind of a lot of trouble to deal with putting a complete end to a long-standing, serious relationship, especially a marriage (and especially one with kids) and a lot of people do not do it based on that. i have known people PERSONALLY who have said they would have gotten divorced (or gotten divorced sooner, usually) if it wasn't so goddamn stressful and ugly to end things. it's a real deterrent! you just kind of let it continue because yeah, it seems harder to stop it
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anyway, i have different moral priorities to be fair. i dont think its a horrible thing to do. i guess its an arbitrary sentiment
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are you saying that it's not disrespectful to betray someone's trust in you?
only to an extent! i'm saying i think you should be more understanding and less black and white THIS MAKES YOU A BADR PERSON about the reasons why people cheat on their partners. i don't think a violation of trust is necessarily indicative of a person not respecting someone else, no.
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man they are called communication problems and no i do not think it means the RELATIONSHIP IS DEAD. people are unwilling to talk about that kind of stuff for a lot of reasons! maybe they are dumb or maybe they are uncomfortable or maybe they know on some level that there are problems but think that by refusing to acknowledge them they are not real. none of these things necessarily mean that the relationship is "pretty much over" dude but they are all very frequently reasons why people do not just sit down and talk shit out.
what??? yes there is what are you even talking about man. serious relationships, especially ones where people live together, are kind of a pain in the ass to break up! i don't mean messy like OH GOD WHYYY although i think that's a part of it, too; i mean that really it's kind of a lot of trouble to deal with putting a complete end to a long-standing, serious relationship, especially a marriage (and especially one with kids) and a lot of people do not do it based on that. i have known people PERSONALLY who have said they would have gotten divorced (or gotten divorced sooner, usually) if it wasn't so goddamn stressful and ugly to end things. it's a real deterrent! you just kind of let it continue because yeah, it seems harder to stop it
you're kind of making excuses for people who aren't mature enough to end a relationship when they should
this comes back to a lack of respect
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the internet is fullof................amoral nihilists. what will god say???????????????????
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i suppose i am but i think in practice there are a lot of things that impede the kind of "maturity" you're talking about that would dictate a person instead of being emotionally confused like PEOPLE TEND TO BE over things as hazy and complicated as going from one serious relationship to something new, would be totally 100% clear-headed and go HEY, HUSBAND--ITS OVER BYE and deal with the shitstorm that would cause. i'm making excuses because people are flawed and i think you're holding them up to unrealistically high standards and ignoring actual circumstances where it's understandable and excusable to cheat. i am willing to bet you do not do what you, as an intelligent, mature adult should do all the time either. like i already said i didn't think it was ideal but i try to cut people a break when it comes to things like this that can be hard and confusing!
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man they are called communication problems and no i do not think it means the RELATIONSHIP IS DEAD. people are unwilling to talk about that kind of stuff for a lot of reasons! maybe they are dumb or maybe they are uncomfortable or maybe they know on some level that there are problems but think that by refusing to acknowledge them they are not real. none of these things necessarily mean that the relationship is "pretty much over" dude but they are all very frequently reasons why people do not just sit down and talk shit out.
I guess this is where our own prorities differ, because if I was in a relationship where communication problems got in the way of bigger problems to the point where I'd fuck another chick, then yeah, the relationship is effectively over.
The day I (literally or figuratively) sit down with my girlfriend and say something like "Listen, I really don't feel like my needs are being met, etc" and she runs off covering her ears and screaming (or otherwise WILL NOT LISTEN TO ME), then yeah, I'm ending that shit. Easier said than done, but I will either ATTEMPT to solve the issue or end it before I fuck some other girl.
Like I see what you're saying but I do not tolerate that shit.
what??? yes there is what are you even talking about man. serious relationships, especially ones where people live together, are kind of a pain in the ass to break up! i don't mean messy like OH GOD WHYYY although i think that's a part of it, too; i mean that really it's kind of a lot of trouble to deal with putting a complete end to a long-standing, serious relationship, especially a marriage (and especially one with kids) and a lot of people do not do it based on that. i have known people PERSONALLY who have said they would have gotten divorced (or gotten divorced sooner, usually) if it wasn't so goddamn stressful and ugly to end things. it's a real deterrent! you just kind of let it continue because yeah, it seems harder to stop it
I just said that relationships where the couples live together is a notable exception. And yes, marriages are a big one as well.
you're kind of making excuses for people who aren't mature enough to end a relationship when they should
this comes back to a lack of respect
Yeah this.
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oh did you? sorry if i missed it but yeah i dunno we're talking about serious relationships here which generally imply cohabitation (at least here they do) so i agree with you for the most part in ones not serious enough for them to not even have moved in together but then those aren't the type i'm really talking about
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dont do this NOTORIOUSMOG
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oh did you? sorry if i missed it but yeah i dunno we're talking about serious relationships here which generally imply cohabitation (at least here they do) so i agree with you for the most part in ones not serious enough for them to not even have moved in together but then those aren't the type i'm really talking about
Well yes, I'll agree with you that in serious, serious relationships, shit can get hazy, but even then, it rarely has to come down to cheating. Like if the situation is so bad that you'll cheat and there's no way to sit down and discuss whatever issue(s) with your partner at all, then things have gotten REALLY REALLY REALLY bad and that raises an entire other set of questions (what the fuck were you two doing to get shit this bad).
And even then I don't agree or justify the whole "I got lonely/horny one night" shit. Fuck that noise.
I mean I'm not saying that cheaters are TERRIBLE, TERRIBLE people but they fucked up pretty bad!
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i dont like the accepted american relationship structure i hope my wife is cool with me swinging
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I just want to clarify that if your partner isn't fucking there there isn't anything to clarify.
thats how this work
young couple gets married, young male leaves, young female can't handle it and gets involved with someone else.
young male comes back from service to find out that young female doesn't want him anymore.
I've seen it too many goddamn times and it is so infuriating I've just had two cousins that did this and it really pisses me off because they don't know what they've gotten themselves into. I think you guys are forgetting that GUY BEING AWAY FOR SERVICE is a big part of this discussion!
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harry manback you really keep in contact with your cousins huh
i guess your black after all... on the inside..
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extended family is family brotha
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I want to fuck my cousin SO bad. We used to fool around all the time when I was in high school.... wait this isnt about that.
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He's over there another 2-3 years longer for school.
my advice:
keep hitting it.
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What? wrym you are not in the wrong, you have no obligations to anyone, SHE is in the wrong. However....I wouldn't say you are a nice guy, but you never claimed to be in the first place.
Another point, this wouldn't be bad at all if you didn't know the girl, but you do... so this is why it's a problem because now you are going to have to enter this "web of lies" to keep something a secret, and that makes you a bad person. I would never fuck a girl if I knew the guy to be a cool dude or if he was my friend.
but don't beat yourself up over it, be man about it...if it's bothering you sit down and talk to her about what you guys want to do about it. BUT LET ME WARN YOU...sitting down and letting a girl think about it probably means no future pussy access :\
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Man what happened... a month or so ago, this girl that I know got with a guy who had a girlfriend and me and my friends were talking about it. I remember not really having an opinion but they said something like... it's the girl's fault, I think. If a girl comes onto a guy he's naturally gonna respond but girls have more sexual self control or some shit so if they seduce a guy and he has a girlfriend it's not his fault 'cause she did it to him or some shit. I can't really remember, but I don't think either way it's a great idea.
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man this topic is a real killer for me seeings how the only woman I've had any semblence of a serious sexual relationship with was married for pretty much all of it
and thanks to her and the other girls I messed around with in high school now all I am about is instant gratification and I chase the first thing that comes along. this is not a good way to build healthy relationships and its causing me a lot of problems right now heh
but yeah basically I dont know what its like to be a one woman man cause I've never been given the opportunity to be one. I'd imagine it probably sucks.
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but yeah basically I dont know what its like to be a one woman man cause I've never been given the opportunity to be one. I'd imagine it probably sucks.
No, it's pretty nice, man.
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I've done something similar to this, but with someone who was going out with someone else for many a year. The relationship wasn't great at that point since the guy was a dick. I still felt pretty bad from it (mainly because a relationship stemmed from it) but yeah. There you go.
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No, it's pretty nice, man.
I just think I've never met the right girl honestly because I couldnt imagine spending as much time together with another person as my friends that are in relationships do. I havent met someone whose bullshit I can put up with for that long even among guys heh. maybe I am just a misanthropist and I dont know it.
which would be weird given what I am studying lol
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Hmm, in this situation I think you both have the same amount of guilt. Think about it. In my opinion there are some several situations and the amount of guilt that goes with it. I didn't read all posts (only page 1), so keep that in mind please. But I believed you said this girl has a BF that is/was away for a long time. Naturaly she has some needs that can't be satisfied at the moment, because her BF is gone and yes, this makes here furnable (or whatever you spell that word).
Situation A: The girl has a BF she practicly sees every day and you know each other well:
A1: She fancy's you, which results in sex: Both the blame, but you should know better.
A2: You fancy her, which results in sex: Her blame, but you are a dick.
A3: You fancy each other, which results in sex: Both the blame, she should end her relation ship.
Situation B: Situation A, but there is alcohol in the game:
B1: You both are drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: You both have the same amount of guilt (she only has more explaining).
B2: She's drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: You have the guilt, taking advantage of the situation.
B3: You are drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: She has the guilt and should end her relationship.
B4: She's drunk and you fancy her, which results in sex: You have the blame here, using the advantage, you are a dick.
B5: You are drunk and you fancy her, which results in sex: Her blame and she should end the relationship.
Situation C: The girl has a BF who's gone for a long time, which gives and advantage.
C1: An occasion results in sex: You are always to blame, you take an advantage of her biological needs.
C2: An occasion results in sex, but you DO remind her of her relationship: Her blame all the way, but still....
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I just want to know what kind of relationship has a couple seeing each other for only two weeks out of a 2/3 year span. The GF must've been incredibly optimistic or dumb.
I Some people can't go two weeks without sex. I like being single because I can do what I want to whoever and I don't have to explain or justify shit. I let everyone I talk to know from the start my intentions, so I can avoid problems like this.
Sleeping with a girl already in a relationship is wrong, but sometimes...you gotta do what you gotta do. The girl could've stopped it once she realized where it was heading, but she didn't. I wouldn't feel bad. That "relationship" was doomed to fail from the start.
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I love how some people in the forums still see everything in black and white. "she's a horrible horrible person, what kind of asshole would do something like that to her partner". you should really look into relationship cheating statistics, because it seems MOST of the people are HORRIBLE HORIBLE ASSHOLES.
besides it's not always easy to talk to your partner, if he/she is out of the country, specially if you want to tell him/her "hey, I don't like you anymore, bye"
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Just because a lot of people do it, doesn't mean it's right...?
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yeah, but it's funny to point fingers at someone for doing something, when in reality most people have done it.
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I think 'most' is too strong a word.
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well, it's not easy to get statistic on a topic that is normally seen as bad by many people, but ask friends around, who has NEVER ever cheated on a partner.
EDIT: here some statistics I just googled around, haven't read all of them but it shows a bit what I was talking about.
http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html
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I think 'most' is too strong a word.
nah most people have probably cheated at least a little bit on someone during their lives i think, even as teens! that is my experience anyway
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I THINK ALL OF YOU GUYS ARE WATCHING TOO MANY MOVIES
there's no big deal in this
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you and drevean make me xenophobic. i've made prejudice statements about south americans thanks to you two
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This topic got all mushy and stuff. Let's have commercial slogans battle the rest of this out.
The Bad:
"Bag em and trash em." - Myself
"Just do it" - Nike
"Wassup" - Budweiser
"LIKE A ROCK" - Chevy
"Live richly." - Citi
"Cotton. The fabric of our lives." - Cotton Incorporated
"We’re cooking now." - Denny's
"Put a tiger in your tank." - Esso
"The best a man can get." - Gillette
"Never let ‘em see you sweat." - Gillette
"57 varieties" - Heinz
"Where’s the cream filling?" - Hostess
"Manly yes, but I like it, too." - Irish Spring Soaps
"Don’t dream it. Drive it" - Jaguar
"America’s most famous dessert." - Jell-O
"When it absolutely, positively has to be there overnight." - Fedex
The Good:
"I’ve fallen and I can’t get up."
Between love and madness lies obsession" (lol Calvin Klien)
"Where do you want to go today?" - Microsoft
"When it rains, it pours." - Morton Salt
"Turning partnership into energy: - ChevronTexaco
"Nothing comes between me and my Calvins" - Calvin Klein
"Love it for life" - Dannon Yogurt
"Love it for life" - Dunkin' Doughnuts
"The power of all of us" - Ebay
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its kind of depressing that you were able to think of all of those slogans off the top of your head man
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Hey Wyrm, both you and that chick are disgusting human beings. There is no real excuse for this, if she doesn't like her fiance anymore she should leave him before fucking around and you are just a major asshole for doing that so..... i don't know maybe go suck a dick to cleanse the guilt or whatever but can you give me her fiance's contact details because I want to make sure he beats the shit out of you.
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You know I'm starting to think some people's "passion" derives from relativeness if you catch my drift. Like, I don't see how people can get so worked up about this. As I said it's pretty messed up man, ESPECIALLY if you know the dude. Honestly, even though I may seem like an asshole, I probablly wouldn't do something like this. It's just this PARTICULAR scenario is kind of cheesy and shit.
It's pretty naive to think a girl will smell your left over draws in your absents. A women has needs too. It's not like she said "Go join the army, I'll hold down the fort". Before you left, she probablly thought you were her world... After 2-3 years, what do you expect man? Besides this is just a gf and bf thing, it's not like they're even married. If I had a girl that I knew for a short-time do something like this to me I wouldn't even get mad for real. I may not like the fact that a girl I once put on a pedestal is screwing around with another guy but I'm just a realistic dude. If the guy was married to her that's something completely different.
Just my two cents
its kind of depressing that you were able to think of all of those slogan's off the top of your head man
Lol, I just copied them from some site I googled.
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i still fuck my fuckbuddy even though she's been in multiple relationships in the mean time.
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I THINK ALL OF YOU GUYS ARE WATCHING TOO MANY MOVIES
there's no big deal in this
Fuck hes spreading to other forums now.
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funny how all the latinos are a little...passionate...
dont fuck people in relationships the end! hooray! im always right.
well true the basis of our relationship is we fucked and he cheated on his girlfriend but he wont cheat on me!
HE LOVES ME.
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funny how all the latinos are a little...passionate...
dont fuck people in relationships the end! hooray! im always right.
well true the basis of our relationship is we fucked and he cheated on his girlfriend but he wont cheat on me!
HE LOVES ME.
:rolleyes:
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yo just because all y'all dicks look like a slab of panchetta got thrown in a laundry mangle dont mean the rest of us are so eager to get laid we forget what Bill Cosby taught us in a very special episode.
the episode was about respect and feat. a poorly aging Aretha Franklin as Auntie Aretha.
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im a sexy dude when i walk down the boardwalk its like DAMN and i dont even care and thats what makes it so sexy
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R.E.S.P.E.C.T. your folks as well, Theo! Look! Dad made his famous chili. Thanks Dr. Huxtable.
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you and drevean make me xenophobic. i've made prejudice statements about south americans thanks to you two
well excuse me princess
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We aren't ALL that bad fyi
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We aren't ALL that bad fyi
just me ;)
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you and drevean make me xenophobic. i've made prejudice statements about south americans thanks to you two
Mark you calendars, climbtree might actually feel me on sumthin.
CraaaaiZEE Bitch!
On another note, why is it wrong for guys to get violent over girls? Do you think it's uncivilized or barbaric? I look out for my dick and he looks out for me. We know what each other want. We got eachotha's backs! Another dude fucks my girl and he's gettin dropped faster than his pants did.
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because the GIRL is the one that made the decision to fuck someone else, its not like she was raped. She did it WILLINGLY.
and that is a horrid fucking song
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because the GIRL is the one that made the decision to fuck someone else, its not like she was raped. She did it WILLINGLY.
and that is a horrid fucking song
I can't hit my girlfriend. That makes the other guy the perfect target for my anger. And if he knew she was already in a relationship, he took that risk the second he got physical with her, on any sort of level. He knew what might happen. You've either never been in love, never had a girl cheat on you, or you're just a fag. Take your pick, only the last one is insulting.
EDIT: OH! Or you're the guy who's gotten his ass beat before for touching another guys woman. I overlooked that one.
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I can't hit my girlfriend. That makes the other guy the perfect target for my anger. And if he knew she was already in a relationship, he took that risk the second he got physical with her, on any sort of level. He knew what might happen. You've either never been in love, never had a girl cheat on you, or you're just a fag. Take your pick, only the last one is insulting.
EDIT: OH! Or you're the guy who's gotten his ass beat before for touching another guys woman. I overlooked that one.
*posts about how he can beat up everybody else in a videogameforum*
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i;ve been coming up with conservative shirt slogans you might not be sure are real.
ITS CALLED WAR AND PEACE YOU COMMIE
I LIKE MY MINORITIES *pic of Dr. Hibbert* WITH A SIDE OF DECENCY
*picture of a gun and a knife* WHICH OF THESE DO YOU TRUST WITH YOUR CHILDREN'S LIVES?
adding to this:
I BEAT MY WIFE; IT'S HER RIGHT
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I can't hit my girlfriend. That makes the other guy the perfect target for my anger. And if he knew she was already in a relationship, he took that risk the second he got physical with her, on any sort of level. He knew what might happen. You've either never been in love, never had a girl cheat on you, or you're just a fag. Take your pick, only the last one is insulting.
EDIT: OH! Or you're the guy who's gotten his ass beat before for touching another guys woman. I overlooked that one.
Or I understand that some stupid dipshit that couldn't keep his dick in his pants or whom didn't even know I was in a relationship with said girl is not a proper conduit for my anger. I've also got enough self restraint to DEAL with my problems and the flawed relationship that caused it, rather than beat the shit out of some random guy whom isn't even worth my time.
but you're probably right....I'm a fag.
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So Wyrm, how did all this play out? If it's played out yet.
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man thats not a good quote its so obviously sarcastic!
get dat out yo sig. nigga.can.i.smell.yo.dick.
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oh no please leave it, as a reminder to myself that I love cock. Just incase I forget anytime soon
quote this one too
"Aztec, you are a fucking twat. I know I said it before, but I feel it hasn't warn out just yet. You are a fucking twat"
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Mark you calendars, climbtree might actually feel me on sumthin.
CraaaaiZEE Bitch!
On another note, why is it wrong for guys to get violent over girls? Do you think it's uncivilized or barbaric? I look out for my dick and he looks out for me. We know what each other want. We got eachotha's backs! Another dude fucks my girl and he's gettin dropped faster than his pants did.
im glad that in between reading and writing rpg maker tutorials youve found time to still be an internet badass
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ill show you niggaz how to..............dance...........on the streets GET IT. dance with our fists..............
heh drevean wanna piece of me???????????????????????????? i would fuck your girlfriend and then spit on her cunt. then i d feel bad because them that would mean i have touched with my dick something that had semen of a ...........faggot like ytou. so why dont you come and show me how are u made of huh?
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ill come with my bro headphonics and smother her forehead with my genitals
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C'mon guys you can do better than that. This is the weakest set of remarks from the traveling pack fagots I've heard yet.
Get into the right relationship and tell me if that happened to you, you wouldn't want to crack some shithead's dome who was with your girl. All I'm hearing is this self-righteous moral lecture about what's right and wrong, and it's getting old out of you guys. Talk from experience, actually THINK about how you'd feel instead of just how you WANT to feel. You don't always get what you want. Sometimes thinking with your heart is a lot easier than with your head. And sometimes a thousand times more rewarding. And if you think my reaction would be "wrong" then so be it, you're not gonna change it. Maybe I think you guys are just a bunch of pussies who'd be too afraid to fight a guy your woman has been with, because you know he's more of a man than you to have gotten with your girl in the first place. He'd beat your ass instead and then you're REALLY feelin like shit.
What would you do? Break up with her and never talk to her again? And somehow delude yourself into thinking you're the bigger person and did the right thing? Sorry, not my style. That's TV show shit. If you really care about a girl and she messes up like that, you're gonna set her and said dude straight. At least get your head out of your ass and get the makeup sex THEN dump her. Play the playa. Damn...
But hey, go ahead and approach that kinda thing however you want. I'm doin just fine.
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ill show you niggaz how to..............dance...........on the streets GET IT. dance with our fists..............
heh drevean wanna piece of me???????????????????????????? i would fuck your girlfriend and then spit on her cunt. then i d feel bad because them that would mean i have touched with my dick something that had semen of a ...........faggot like ytou. so why dont you come and show me how are u made of huh?
why do you get so angry about someone's opinion on chivalry. why do you get offended enough to write a huge post. you see, you are gw's angriest man.
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Man sometimes you come across as such an ignorant person.
YES I would be UPSET AS FUCK but ALL THE TIME thinking with your brain is alot smarter then thinking with your heart. If I ran into the dude and he came across as a total asshole and said something to me then maybe I'd punch his fucking teeth out but not because my gf wanted his dick into her but because he was a fucking prick.
I choose my fights carefully and I'm not going to drive around town looking for some punk that fucked someone I was in love with. No, I'd rather deal with it in another fashion then starting another problem.
I'm beginning to think that YOU'RE the internet dork! You'd think that anyone with a fair bit of intelligence and self consciousness wouldn't need to prove his manhood by beating another dude's ass over a broken heart. All I've seen you do is spout this chauvinistic bullshit about how TUFF you are.
WHY do you feel the need to do that? WHY? You're boasting on the INTERNET about what a badass you think you are, its incredibly sad.
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not that I agree with dreveans "you made your bed now severely beat someone in it" philosophy but you a rey kiko pretty hardcore.
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what the fuck is a rey kiko
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But hey, go ahead and approach that kinda thing however you want. I'm doin just fine.
You're so right, because I bet with all of the MAD ASS KICKIN you do you said "guy you beat the shit out of" would be much too scared to gang up on you in a mcdonalds parking lot with three of his friends and kick you until you stopped breathing.
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drevean man quit digging the hole and really think about what you're saying.
look if my girl cheated on me, I'd be fucking hurt. nah fuck it, I'd be devestated. everyone thinks LMAO ANGRY STEEL but when someone really gets close to me and then pulls shit, it destroys me. and yeah, I'd be angry. and yeah, I'd be angry at both people involved if the guy knew my girl was in a relationship and pulled that shit anyways (if not, he's just some bystander who got dragged into this). and yes if I saw him and he pulled more asshole shit I'd lay him out, pro-ice style (it'd have to be really asshole stuff though, he'd pretty much have to throw the first punch).
but in what possible universe is the moral thing to do beating anyone up? it's not even an eye for an eye; if you fucked his sister and sent him pics I guess that'd be closer but this shit? escalating an already horrible situation with A FIGHT? look, there are two types of people in the world; those who secretly ache to have a fight and beat someone up and those who know they don't need to because no matter what in the end they still win. she's not your property; you don't have a right to get angry at someone and beat the hell out of them because he took her up on an offer.
do you not see who did the less moral action to begin with? the person in the relationship who chooses to violate that is the worse of the two. and yet you seek to physically injure someone who was just ignorant or reckless as opposed to deceitful.
and so yes are you going to hit your girlfriend? fuck no. ignoring feminism, that's just wrong. if you're angry enough to hit someone else, you probably loved the girl and probably still do if it's so soon after. so you do take the high road. most of us do. we avoid her favorite place, we go the gym and punch the bags, we sometimes do petty shit and try and hook up with someone soon after. but we don't fight a guy who took an offer, even if we wouldn't have done the same.
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Steel sensei. Words of wisdom.
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Look, I'm really not trying to sound like a badass. But I'm not really trying to sound fair or equal either. Love is a pretty complicated thing, which doesn't really need to be mentioned but whatever. Yeah, takin up an offer for some pussy, single or not, is usually pretty sweet. And an engaged one? Damn, you're a slick sumbitch. Or she's just a nasty ass slut, but ... yeah... anyways, I guess I'm one of those douches you'd like to punch after I nailed your girlfriend.
But I'm loyal when I'm not single, and I've never cheated on a girl. And when I'm not single, my approach to all this changes. Currently, I'm the one who'd bounce your head off my knee a couple of times if I caught you with my girl.
Coxswain, thanks for saying you'd punch a guy. That's all I wanted to hear.
Steel, you'd lay a guy out, nice, I like hearing that too.
Sorry, just the whole thought out moral high-road approach just irritates me. Again, not my style. Just don't be so afraid to satisfy your feelings. Also, assuming a guy is innocent at all irritates me too... I usually ask a girl when I meet her if she's single or not. If she's in a relationship, I still act myself and play my cards. You never know what could happen. And I'd like to think most guys ask, and know, before anything happens. And when we strike we're instant douche bags, and if I got my ass beat over it, I'd prolly feel like a big bitch, and that I deserved it. And that's the natural justice of it my friends. I think it's pretty alright to go after someone who your girl cheated on you with. :domo:
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hey drevean lemme know if your girlfriend's a squirter, OK? i'd hate to ruin your linens ;))
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hey drevean lemme know if your girlfriend's a squirter, OK? i'd hate to ruin your linens ;))
Also, comments like these are pretty rude, and disrespectful. I'm sure you all know this though. The reason I mention it is because you're not going to get much of a rise out of me this way, aaand... it's not even really funny dude. Did you really think it was when you typed it?
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No I think he just expected you to respond with:
OOHHHHHHHHH IM GONNA FUCK YOu UP WHATS YOUR REAL NAME PUSSY IM GONNA LOOK U UP AND RIP YOURFINGER NAILS OFF WITH A PAIR OF PLIERS YOU COCKSTIAN OSN OF A BITCH!!!
I'm glad you didn't give in though
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nah it was actually a reference lets play the HEH HOW UP ON GWSHIT AM I game (i win)
im prolly not the only one who is noticing the parallel though *geta blowjob in his mercedes and still makes it to photoshoot were he leans on his mom's miata in time*
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Sorry, just the whole thought out moral high-road approach just irritates me. Again, not my style.
lol
its not even the high road approach. its the fact that you are boasting you are tough shit in gamingworlds at the same time you do rpg maker tutorials. i wager you have never beat up someone in your life since at most junior high.
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why do you get so angry about someone's opinion on chivalry. why do you get offended enough to write a huge post. you see, you are gw's angriest man.
that wasnt a big post and cmon this is about people punching other people. you get pissed off at amazon book reviews and peoples disdain for cellphone. who is angrier?????????????????????????
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sheesh marmot..take a chillpill
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I got the magic stick homies. It would be an honor for your bitch to sleep me like those celebrities one-night stand. The only difference is that I'm not a celebrity. I just got the magic stick man.
Drevean I would make your girl scream my name in five languages and then I would make her read your tutorials to me... Also in five languages.
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Naw Marmot, I'm just that lean, good looking, in shape gamer that's hard to find these days. Kinda like Carius. Carius looks like he could beat an ass or two, and he loves the rpg maker. I'm not saying I'm at all like Carius, he seems a lot cooler than I'd ever be, but you get the idea. It's not so wild for a hard ass to have a soft spot for things like the rmaker.
Anyways, sorry for being so much more fantastic than you? I decked my roommate last week because he was talkin that shit as usual. No, I didn't beat his ass but when was the last time any of you landed a punch? Never? Sorry for being such a badass o_o omg he posted about violence he must think he's the shit! Well he can't beat me up with words so poop on you mister! Violence isn't cool!
Seriously though everyone needs to take a chillax pill. Between here and the cell phone topic there's just too much optimalism blowin my mind. Steel, you've typed a lot tonight, you'd better give that bum body of yours a rest.
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now if youll excuse me fellas i got a hot date tonight... heh yea thats right a hot date. do any of you know what that is???? (prolly not cause youve never had one)
you see... im kinda like the total package, and i *know* it to boot. i got brains, brawn, looks, AND i can game. believe me, i can game. in between writing tutorials and editing spritesets i like to deck a few guys here and there for talkin' shit, so what? just because none of *you* know how to lay a guy out doesn't mean *i* can't. i'd like to meet any of you nerds on the street and show ya that not every gamer has to be a pasty, out of shape nerd like most of you guys. some of us are lean mean [in ][/in] fightin machines who kick ass and take names all while playin our nintendo ds ;)
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Hey everyone post about fucking my girlfriend cuz I SWEAR IM GONNA COME AND MURDER YOU IN YOUR SLEEP YOU LITTLE FUCKING HOMOS! GRARG!!!
:fogetfu:
Are you seriously trying to get me to threatin you online? No don't worry champs, I get it. But I never did that in the first place and I'm still somehow getting shit for "trying to look like badass" or something like that... Some of you guys really must be the most disagreeable persons irl, I can only imagine.
Oh yeah, and lets cut it out with the girlfriend comments. Did I insult any of you like that? I haven't tried busting anyone's balls once in this topic, just giving my opinion. Just go ahead and say it, you don't like me. None of you do.
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now if youll excuse me fellas i got a hot date tonight... heh yea thats right a hot date. do any of you know what that is???? (prolly not cause youve never had one)
you see... im kinda like the total package, and i *know* it to boot. i got brains, brawn, looks, AND i can game. believe me, i can game. in between writing tutorials and editing spritesets i like to deck a few guys here and there for talkin' shit, so what? just because none of *you* know how to lay a guy out doesn't mean *i* can't. i'd like to meet any of you nerds on the street and show ya that not every gamer has to be a pasty, out of shape nerd like most of you guys. some of us are lean mean [in shape good looking] fightin machines who kick ass and take names all while playin our nintendo ds ;)
This is actually an awesome post, and it'd go in my sig if it wasn't already big enough.
No but really, on my most arrogant of days, this is exactly what I think of myself. I'll admit it, not even being sarcastic. I'm totally full of myself sometimes, but, alas, I really am just a totally awesome guy.
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why dont you talk a little bit more about what an awesome guy you are on an rpg maker forum maybe that'll make people less disagreeable (hint: if you make internet posts saying IM AWESOME youre not awesome anymore its the law)
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Whatever you say. I still think I'm pretty gosh-darned cool though. Me and my DS.
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Anyways, sorry for being so much more fantastic than you? I decked my roommate last week because he was talkin that shit as usual. No, I didn't beat his ass but when was the last time any of you landed a punch? Never? Sorry for being such a badass o_o omg he posted about violence he must think he's the shit! Well he can't beat me up with words so poop on you mister! Violence isn't cool!
yep the other day this schmuk came and was talpñkin shit about my dog and my girlfriend so i just decked him.......you see, HELLO sorry for being a basdass!
honestly, do you think people are writing this because "you cant beat up us" in words? i dont think péople are scared of you. i am 6ft and 200 pounds, why do i need to be scared of you?????????????????
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6ft 200lbs of pure babyfat lol
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6ft 200lbs of pure babyfat lol
so its headphones talkin shit again like always. wanna destroy me with words schmuck. perhaps a few friendly duels.........never have you had fitghts justy for the kick of it?¡ the other da<y i was in a partry you know (yes one of the few gamers that are partiers......heh you wished that headphones) and i told my brah if he wanted to have a friendly fight. Well you see.....he shouldnt have agreed because I.......punched his nose IN lol
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Oh man, 6ft and 200 lbs... Now who's trying to sound like the big badass? I wasn't even going to go there, but whatever champ.
And yeah you're right I'm trying to scare everyone here. What started off as me simply giving my opinion on how I'd deal with a girl cheating on me turned into me trying to take on everyone in GW all at once. And how I'd kick every one of you in the teeth. I really want you guys to think I'm the muthafuckin' Hulk when I'm pissed. Bes not be messin!
Anyways, you're an idiot Marmot.
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Oh man, 6ft and 200 lbs... Now who's trying to sound like the big badass? I wasn't even going to go there, but whatever champ.
Well he can't beat me up with words so poop on you mister!
Well he can't beat me up with words so poop on you mister!
Well he can't beat me up with words so poop on you mister!
heh you coward nerds........using your BRAINS instead of your BRAWLS you know
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*roundhouse kicks marmot through a four story window
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*Smokes a cigarette
*then puts it out in left bicep
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Dreavan you just don't understand man. I think I'm NICE myself, but posting or trying to prove it is the most retard shit ever. People aren't going to see you in the same way as people irl would. It's pretty much your character and your posting style that determines everything. Why? Because it's the internet, get over it. If you honestly think everyone fits that stereotypical scaley profile then your fucked bro, I don't know what else to say.
I would say I think on the same wavelength as you but I'm better then you.
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*Drinks entire gallon of Jack Daniel's whiskey and smashes empty bottle over own head and leaves broken shards of glass for bitch to clean up
*urinates through four story window onto marmot's twitching corpse
*turns on Korn's "freak on a leash" and punches holes in concrete wall
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Sex is just an expression of Freedom man, you have to embrace the inner you and me and let the good times roll. Don't be governed by the Man. Let the spirits move you, man, it's all so natural and real, you know? The Ether binds us man. :ganja: :ganja: :ganja: :ganja:
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Guys I'm a whore :/
End of story!
I Did her on after friday night party, and Ended up Doing someone else The next night, Just the 2nd chick, Is single.... well Was, She kinda wanted to start dating!
Anyway Yeah She Is scared as fuck about the vows and truth stuff, but we came to the conclusion that she didn't feel that bad as well It is only every 8 1/2 months he gets home :/ So as long as he doesn't find out its best kind!
Now I just gotta stop it on my behalf as I just started dating someone :/
Yes I know I can't get made If I get cheated on! I know I know!
- Wyrm the Whore
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Wyrm, do you... purposefully ignore any form of grammar and/or punctuation in your posts? Your random capital letters remind me of DDay.
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shit dont get killed
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Guys I'm a whore :/
End of story!
I Did her on after friday night party, and Ended up Doing someone else The next night
My man!
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Can you please post pics of the girl.
That's the only way we can truly tell if your actions were justified or not.
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(http://photos-b.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-snc1/v345/200/61/624320248/n624320248_4465369_9558.jpg)
This is Me and Chick I be dating. Why would I be so stupid as to post the engaged chick now...
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wait wait.
so you cheated on your girlfriend...with a woman cheatin on her fiancee.
dude.
dude.
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Made for each other.
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wait wait.
so you cheated on your girlfriend...with a woman cheatin on her fiancee.
dude.
dude.
no steel ifyou would have read his posts, he started dating this girl AFTERWARDS.
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ooooh yeah sorry I skip over posts written like Y2Dazz chewed on a bunch of x and got exposed to...radantion.
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wait wait.
so you cheated on your girlfriend...with a woman cheatin on her fiancee.
dude.
dude.
Like HL stated I started dating her 2 days after the engaged encounter. Didn't even know she liked me till the day before we started dating (ie: Day I fucked her )
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hasn't anyone else picked up that wyrm just made this topic to go "hey guys i got laid edit: laid again"
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whoa
you had sex??????????? damn
how did u do tha please tlel me more about sex. did you really have sex omg,
plz ttell me how
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*picture*
Speaking of 6ft 200lbs....
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if i was 5ft 200lbs id still look better than you
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Seriously though everyone needs to take a chillax pill. Between here and the cell phone topic there's just too much optimalism blowin my mind. Steel, you've typed a lot tonight, you'd better give that bum body of yours a rest.
hahahaha just saw this shit.
dude I could have one hand behind my back and be blindfolded and have a constant IV of cisplatin draining into me and still no one on this entire site would bet against me in the STEEL VS DREVEAN FISTICUFF BATTLE, who you trying to kid.
YOU KNOW THE ONE THING ABOUT THAT STEEL HE SURE QUITS A LOT.
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what is with all the worst members just dancing around the cancer thing like it's going to hurt me? drevean with his YOUR GONNA GET SLEEPY PAL WITH YOUR...CANCER..., bled throwing IN THE HOSPITAL in a terrible madlib insult, bloodyasura saying I should be writing a will.
any chucklefuck can lie about beating up some dude in a bar online but I had my bloodstream injected with poison that caused lance fucking armstrong to crawl around on the floor and I was back to regular posting and exercise within a week, but yea drevean you keep talking about how you can exhaust me by being deliberately ignorant.
seriously I went through a chemotherapy regime that would break any of you three in half, and you think any of you little fucks are going to cause me to say "NOOOOOOO YOU POINTED OUT THAT I HAD CANCER ARGH A RIPOSTE"? just go ahead and say WHY DIDNT YOU DIE OF CANCER and stop beating around the bush.
edit I hate non-joke "im badass" posts but seriously you don't go through screaming in pain from advanced cell death just to break down when bled says "heh i fuckr you gf in the hospital over a coke machine", quit being so fucking stupid.
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Are you SURE you wouldn't like a chillax pill mr. paladine?
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what about a chillpository
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Sorry, just the whole thought out moral high-road approach just irritates me. Again, not my style.
This in addition to everything else you have posted in this thread proves that you are a barbarian.
Seriously man what kind of douchebag posts something like Yeah I'd bounce that faggot's head off my knee a few times! And if I was that faggot then I'd know I was a bitch that deserved it!
Next you will tell us about your new fucking haircut :(
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i like that drevean isnt a joke account and he sounds like baker. great stuff clearly the highlight of this topic.
can an admin please lock this?
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I like drevean and he reminds me of my cousin a little bit because he told me today that because I voted to against stopping gay marriage if I ever brought a guy home he would beat the shit out of me. Yes he thought because I said gays should have rights, that I am also a homosexual.
I mean its funny as fuck but if he really believes some of the stuff he says its pretty sad.
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Since you screwed his fiancee it's only fair that you feel the shit end side of the stick. I will personally bang your next girlfriend. In every hole in her body. Yes that includes the nostrils. Then once she limps back to your place, after I've left her a wreck, I'll ask you how it feels.
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man you guys are so angry... I hope to never run into any of you on a street.
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If you didn't know she was engaged before you had sex, you don't need to feel guilty.
If you did know, you're scum, but she's far worse than you are.
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Ah well Wyrm, at least you can't do it again. Put it in the past.
U GOT LAID SON
GET MONEY
GET PIAD
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If you didn't know she was engaged before you had sex, you don't need to feel guilty.
If you did know, you're scum, but she's far worse than you are.
heh... sounds like ya got a lil....PERSONAL experience on the subject
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conclusion = the angry guys are only mad because their girlfriends in the past cheated on them.
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Any Sex Period= AWSOME
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conclusion = the angry guys are only mad because their girlfriends in the past cheated on them.
your point?
it's a shitty practice. Especially if you know the dude, or the dude is your friend (i don't care how close you are you don't do it anyways)
bros before hos. if your dudes girl is a ho, don't exacerbate things. you only hurt yourself, and your dude. and seriously fuck the slut for coming on to her boyfriends friend.
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Such an epic sin. Shame on you.
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heh... sounds like ya got a lil....PERSONAL experience on the subject
You found me out. :fogetcry:
Seriously, though, no, this has never happened to me. I just think it's a low thing to do.
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So why doesn't Steelio get shit for posting the biggest most badass "I'll fuck you up" post ever?
Just wonderin...
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because we know he's joking, and you very clearly aren't.
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Oh...
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Man, I didn't read the whole topic but Wyrm, what the fuck. Someone should thump you for this. Bad Wyrm!
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strangeluv didnt you just cheat on your last girlfriend or something?
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No. I broke up with her for someone else. That's bad too and I felt pretty bad about it and couldn't tell anyone about it because she's a n-e-g-r-o. My last relationship was in trouble, hanging by a thread, and even then I felt guilty as shit breaking it off. But even then man, I wouldn't go around sneak-fucking or messing with someone else's girlfriend or fiance, man. That shit is not awesome at all, not cool at all. Why would you do something deplorable like that
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your point?
it's a shitty practice. Especially if you know the dude, or the dude is your friend (i don't care how close you are you don't do it anyways)
bros before hos. if your dudes girl is a ho, don't exacerbate things. you only hurt yourself, and your dude. and seriously fuck the slut for coming on to her boyfriends friend.
i wasn't defending the act, merely stating that it seemed like people could only speak out against this from first hand experience. which is true really.
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Women be crazy. They will eventually deserve to be cheated on. I see it as a preemptive strike. Good work and Godspeed!