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Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Jayce on November 11, 2008, 02:34:26 pm
Okay, so here I am just browsing away as I do, when all of a sudden I get this phone call...
I think to myself "Hmmm, this is a little odd, who would be calling me at 11:30pm on a tuesday night?"
Nonetheless, I took the call and said Hello as one usually would...

There was no reply.

All of a sudden I start to hear some music in the background, the weird part about this is that it isn't a commercial song, but is in fact a piece of music I used in one of my games recently.
Pantomime: Rapunzel (http://games.divinelegy.com/pantomime.html), a game I released for GW's 24-Hour Game Design Competition has a minigame called JAN KEN PON (direct rip from Alex Kidd's Jan Ken Pon or Rock Paper Scissors game), where the music plays before the results are shown.

Now the first thing hit me, I was shocked that someone was actually playing the game, it is pretty bad after all.
Secondly though, their number was set private so I have no idea who this was, all I know is that they have my game and have my phone number (what else could they have? :crazy: ), I ask the people I know but either half of them don't know what the hell my game is or they just plain don't know what I'm talking about.

Anyway, this has been like the first person in like 2 years to phone-stalk me but either way I'm not really fussed because they just get bored.
Just thought I'd share that, and while I'm here, speak of your stalking experiences:
Have you stalked anyone?
Have you been stalked?
What methods have been taken to stalk/get rid of someone?

 :fogetshifty:
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Vellfire on November 11, 2008, 02:43:58 pm
Let's just say that that's why my name is Dur Tahar right now.



No seriously that is why.  But I'm just being e-followed, this guy isn't following me around in real life as far as I can tell.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Luvdisc on November 11, 2008, 02:49:46 pm
Will posting here reveal the identity of your stalker???

Actually, I was stalked for about 2 months by an ex.

Most people actually stop and laugh at this point, but it really is quite bothersome on a daily, and nightly basis. I'd go for days on lack of sleep because I'd open my eyes and see her peering at me from the bedroom window. Chick had somehow skinnied up a tree or some shit and would sit on the roof for hours just to "watch me sleep" as she said in court. It even came down to the point where she tried to "kill" my (then) fiance, and I say "kill" in quotations because, as much as it scared the hell outta us, I really don't think she would've done me any emotional or physical harm. It's wierd, but I think it was some last ploy for attention.

I had to get her phone numbers banned, as well as block collect calling (which was horrible idea at the time, with my mother not having a cell phone, she'd call collect from payphones if she got stuck or needed help), and issue a restraining order. With the restraining order in place, everytime she called, knocked, or showed up, all I had to do was call my lawyer, and She (my lawyer) would notify to police or judge or whoever. Eventually, after about two months, she gave up. Court, and jail were beginning to be something she couldn't deal with, even to be a "part of my life".

But see, I knew who I was dealing with. You, Jay, you have no idea who was on the other line. Most you can hope for:

If it's a continual problem, contact your local authorities, as well as your operator. You can attempt to block the last caller, but filing a police report is defiantely needed. You'll have official paperwork, which will help you prove that it's been a repeat, and bothersome occurance in your daily life.

Dont hide, or close yourself off. I became close to paranoid, trying to watch behind my back, look in cars next to us, or just lock myself up at home, in an attempt to "no deal with it." You'll have to deal with it, face first, and hope for the best.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Boulvae on November 11, 2008, 04:20:49 pm
I was stalked for two years, i'm probably still being stalked now but who knows. It happened after one of my more stupider cousins came to visit suddenly things were being moved in odd places and i'd see the occasional green light in the bathroom completely disappear. Thing is though they never seemed to do anything, they just watched.

I didn't realise this until one day my dad was half drunk and angry yelling at me to go to the attic door, bang on it as hard as I could and scream at the top of my lungs that whoever was up there had 10 seconds to get the hell out (or else we'd beat the shit out of em'). So I did, and when I went downstairs to face him with a sarcastic grin I heard tons of sudden hurried crawling sounds from upstairs, and when we were checking out the house upstairs the front door slammed. Eventually the side door slammed and I heard running upstairs. Our windows were reversed so people could get in outside easily, our door locks (those chain ones) were busted off, and i've been coming across some key placed cameras. It helped when we got an alarm system and our sister stayed over, when she was alone once it went off and nobody was there. The same alarm was busted off with the rim around the door. I once saw a windows loading screen on my television, and I was not ever on drugs or drunk when any of this happened (I also didn't have anything hooked up to it).

Thing is though these guys were pros, whomever they were, and didn't act anything like your typical stalker. They could've killed me whenever they wanted, but they never did. One thing I figured out though is they get really angry when you thwart one of their atempts to bug the house, or don't answer the phone alot. They'll phone you and make sure your there sometimes, so be weary when you answer the phone cause if theres no answer then he/she/they are phoning you to make sure your there.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: UPRC on November 11, 2008, 04:25:51 pm
Yes. All the ladies love to stalk the fat, unattractive security guard. My life is just... so hectic with all these stalkers!


(Never had this problem.)
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Farren on November 11, 2008, 05:02:57 pm
Boulve are you saying someone was living in your attic and you didn't do anything about it for two years? What the fuck?

No and I don't understand how any other guy could be stalked unless it was from a jealous ex girlfriend or something but if it ever happened to me I would probably be the last person you would want to stalk. I could see how weird phone calls could get pretty annoying though because there is pretty much nothing you could do except yell into the phone at someone who you would hope is even listening.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: something bizarre and impractical on November 11, 2008, 05:06:54 pm
Boulvae... oh man... haha

what are you even talking about man? aha

No, I've never been stalked and I don't think I've ever actually stalked anyone beyond like creeping a girl I liked's facebook waayy too much.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Boulvae on November 11, 2008, 05:19:26 pm
I couldn't of done anything if I wanted too, my house was a maze (and the the person(s) was really fast) and there was five ways into the attic. Over 50 ways inside the house if your determined, hell you could walk in take the first thing you see and walk out and no one would be the wiser if they were in the next room if you were quiet enough. I hated that house, but my new mobile home has no attic, very small, and out in the country.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 11, 2008, 05:22:36 pm
Yes. All the ladies love to stalk the fat, unattractive security guard. My life is just... so hectic with all these stalkers!

I like how you look!

Also no I've been stalked once by some weird girl. But there's nothing else interesting to say about that.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Stormi on November 11, 2008, 05:23:37 pm
I don't know if this is stalking, or just a case of a guy being extremely annoying...

This guy I went to high school with decided he had been in love with me since we were in school, even after over a year without contact.  He claimed he'd been having trouble starting relationships with other girls, and finally realized the reason was because he was comparing all other girls to me.  He coincidentally(?) had a psychological breakdown and was discharged from the Air Force to come back home within a couple weeks of me breaking up with my boyfriend.  He knew full well I didn't return his feelings.  He asked me out pretty much immediately, and I told him that A: I still didn't feel the same way about him, and B: it was too soon after my last relationship to even consider a new one.  About a month later, we decided to hang out with mutual friends and he tried to kiss me, and even arranged for one of his friends to get me alone and question me as to why I didn't want to date him.

I told him the next day he'd made me extremely uncomfortable, and told him to leave me the hell alone.  He started calling several times a day, usually leaving messages, and also showed up at my door without notice.  I didn't realize what he was doing was grounds for a restraining order, and found him mostly harmless at first... I just thought he was annoying.  This went on for another month or two.

One night he showed up at around 9:30 pounding on the door.  He called my cell and home phones while standing outside for roughly 15 minutes, then left.  Half an hour later he came back and knocked for another 5 minutes.  He left one final message to tell me he was going to leave me alone, but had left something on my front doorstep.  I checked after about an hour, and it turned out to be a DVD set he knew I'd been wanting.  He called a couple times after that, then stopped completely.  

Since then, the only times I've heard from him were a message on my cell phone from some crazy chick calling me a bitch for not returning his feelings, and then later a message on MySpace to tell me he'd moved to Connecticut to live with said crazy chick, whom he'd met online.  He told me via MySpace that he was extremely depressed and suicidal after my rejection, and she flew down to see him.  They ended up dating, and he knocked her up and married her within a year.  I told him if he contacted me again, I'd tell her about it, then blocked his account from contacting me.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Seawed on November 11, 2008, 05:25:28 pm
Damn, I'd be fucking paranoid as hell if that happened to me Boulvae. I mean, shit, dude o.o

However, I don't get stalked in the EYES IN MY WINDOW sense however I do get followed around a bit at my school which is really more annoying than anything.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: crone_lover720 on November 11, 2008, 06:40:13 pm
ahaha Boulvae rules! if you skipped over his post go back and read it.

also idk I think a lot of people have been e-stalked at one point or another. when I was like 15-17 I posted my pic on a forum and this 14yo girl with life-size cardboard cutout of the Rock in her room went nuts over it, she got into a 2-page argument with some of the other members and ended up admitting she saved & edited it on her computer and some other shit like trying to find out where I'm from etc. despite being WEIRDED OUT I still kinda got a big head from this so I changed the picture to something else and took a screenshot for THE LULZ or w/e. I probably still have it somewhere, but idk if I'd post it with all the.....netsleuths....around here
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: UPRC on November 11, 2008, 07:30:59 pm
I like how you look!

Let's have sex.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: crone_lover720 on November 11, 2008, 07:51:32 pm
idk if I'd post it
the reason I'm serious about this because it was the worst time of my life, I had lyme disease and as a result severe chronic depression. going through the archive this was in was pretty difficult, I had actually blocked out or forgotten about a lot of stuff that happened back then. dunno why I care tho, you'd have to be really bad to netsleuth someone in a thread about stalking lmao

anyway im gonna post it because I really like the dudes that replied:
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: esiann on November 11, 2008, 08:17:59 pm
a guy on ventrilo showed me a picture of his penis when i was 14 but that's just strange, not stalking behavior

seems pretty normal now so that's good

boulvae i can't believe that you could not do anything about that. get five or ten people to watch the entrances/exits and just bang on the door or something. how can someone live in your attic for years without you doing anything about it? i can't tell if that's a real story or not
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Bled on November 11, 2008, 08:23:31 pm
I followed my ex-girlfriend around at the JC Penny where she worked, ducking behind racks of clothes and jewelry displays whenever she happened to make any sudden movements.  When she got off I jumped out from behind the bench I had been hiding under and beat her mercilessly with a tire iron.

At least, that's what she would have you believe.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Death Gulp on November 11, 2008, 08:29:54 pm
i havent been stalked but some of these stories are fucked. i.e Boulvae
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Carrion Crow on November 11, 2008, 08:42:34 pm
There was a kid who was a closet gay in my school in year 9 and he used to come around to my house and play command and conquer on my PC and he took a dump on my toilet seat and missed the bit where you're supposed to poop so my mum said he couldn't come over again so after that he used to follow me home every day at a distance of about 20m and then stand outside my house. This got quite annoying so I ended up fighting him and he always used to try and cup my balls.

For some odd reason he dropped out of school and he and his family disappeared off the face of the earth.

The end.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Alec on November 11, 2008, 08:46:56 pm
last year this weird freshman girl stalked me for a little while but it was pretty docile and i pretty much treated her like shit until she lost interest.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Massy2k6 on November 11, 2008, 09:02:58 pm
For 3 years I stalked this hot chick, it started when..... wait, this is a thread for people who have been stalked not for the stalkers?

nvm then!
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Boulvae on November 11, 2008, 09:06:27 pm
boulvae i can't believe that you could not do anything about that. get five or ten people to watch the entrances/exits and just bang on the door or something. how can someone live in your attic for years without you doing anything about it? i can't tell if that's a real story or not

Have you ever lived in a big house before? Especially one thats like a maze? I am never living in a big house again, trust me man it's not worth it the risks are extremely high for theft alone.

The attic is the third floor, upstairs are the bedrooms which is the second floor, and the main floor is really big, then we had a basement. Me and dad hung out on the main floor, and i'd be downstairs other times because it was where the only computer was at. And the walls were sound proofed because we jam alot.

I couldn't ask anyone to help out in my neighborhood because everyone was like a bad neighbor douche except one who was right beside us. He would casually look out cause I asked but he never believed us and everyone else (our friends) lived too deep inside the city, I was on the north end right at the edge. While mostly everyone else lived in the south. I couldn't get the police involved or get some lawsuits/restraining orders happening cause A) I needed atleast a face which I could never get and B) I need definite evidence which would take time to collect before getting some lawsuits/restraining orders down.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Wash Cycle on November 11, 2008, 09:08:47 pm
heh I keep logs of all my conversations on trillian and sometimes use them against people when they try to bullshit me

people think that is really creepy for some reason I dont know why. I just dont like being lied to heh
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Massy2k6 on November 11, 2008, 09:09:26 pm
Have you ever lived in a big house before? Especially one thats like a maze? I am never living in a big house again, trust me man it's not worth it the risks are extremely high for theft alone.

The attic is the third floor, upstairs are the bedrooms which is the second floor, and the main floor is really big, then we had a basement. Me and dad hung out on the main floor, and i'd be downstairs other times because it was where the only computer was at. And the walls were sound proofed because we jam alot.

I couldn't ask anyone to help out in my neighborhood because everyone was like a bad neighbor douche except one who was right beside us. He would casually look out cause I asked but he never believed us and everyone else (our friends) lived too deep inside the city, I was on the north end right at the edge. While mostly everyone else lived in the south. I couldn't get the police involved or get some lawsuits/restraining orders happening cause A) I needed atleast a face which I could never get and B) I need definite evidence which would take time to collect before getting some lawsuits/restraining orders down.

My solution..... Collect a bunch of bags full of dog s*** and fill your attic up with em, if they dissapear then you have prove but if not then it would prevent anyone wanting to stick around in your attic for very long.

Your welcome
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: pburn on November 11, 2008, 09:12:25 pm
My solution..... Collect a bunch of bags full of dog s*** and fill your attic up with em, if they dissapear then you have prove but if not then it would prevent anyone wanting to stick around in your attic for very long.

Your welcome
Dude none of your posts in this topic have been funny.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Boulvae on November 11, 2008, 09:17:15 pm
Right well, I moved back and into a trailer park, it's pretty much ended for all I am willing to care at this point.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Carrion Crow on November 11, 2008, 09:44:11 pm
I will draw a portrait of the admin or moderator who bans massy2k6 and post it to them.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: TFT on November 11, 2008, 10:08:51 pm
carius have you ever considered it to be like, a prank phone call? like, really dumb joke? like, if you posted your phone number on facebook or gave it to an rm nerd friend then yeah it's probably just a bad joke. i've been stalked a few times. like, this girl would come to my job everyday, haunt the places where i hung out, the whole thing. it was pretty flattering because she wasn't AWFUL looking, just insane.

it's kind of interesting to just go "yeah, that's my stalker".
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Farren on November 11, 2008, 10:32:37 pm
HEY HONEY COME OVER HERE AND SAY HI!

Yeah, she follows me everywhere like a sick puppy dog lo;l
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: dragonx on November 11, 2008, 10:50:27 pm
psyburn called me once

i was pretty fucking freaked out
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: ThugTears666 on November 11, 2008, 10:54:12 pm
This got quite annoying so I ended up fighting him and he always used to try and cup my balls.


hahahah what!!!!

Boulvae that is actually a fucking cool story and I am really intrigued by it. It totally deserves its own topic where you tell us EVERYTHING about it.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Cheesy Doritos on November 11, 2008, 11:36:24 pm
psyburn called me once

i was pretty fucking freaked out

...Yeah.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Jayce on November 11, 2008, 11:41:09 pm
carius have you ever considered it to be like, a prank phone call? like, really dumb joke? like, if you posted your phone number on facebook or gave it to an rm nerd friend then yeah it's probably just a bad joke. i've been stalked a few times. like, this girl would come to my job everyday, haunt the places where i hung out, the whole thing. it was pretty flattering because she wasn't AWFUL looking, just insane.

it's kind of interesting to just go "yeah, that's my stalker".

There's more to it than that, like I've had a letter appear in my letterbox that just said "Whahay!" on it and a couple of other minor things, but hey it's generated discussion so the topic's still a success in my books.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 11, 2008, 11:46:36 pm
Psyburn called me at my home once and he shouted "CHEE BURGERS"
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: fatty on November 11, 2008, 11:53:30 pm
I actually look a lot like what a stalker would look like. But that's only because I look like a homeless guy in his late 20's.




EDIT: I know nobody with an obsessive personality in real life so it would really be a new experience for me to actually see someone stalking me or somebody else for that matter. Yep. I am weird.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: AznChipmunk on November 12, 2008, 12:34:02 am
I'm being stalked by some kid who found my YouTube account. He created an account called [My ][/My]Sucks. He left me a bunch of dumb comments. On the first day of school I was talking to some friends who I hadn't seen in a while, and this kid comes up to me and says in a really creepy whisper, "i know your youtube account..." (I didn't know these were the same person until later.) Anyways he keeps following me around, and he walks the same route to and from school as me now. Every time I walk by him in the hallway he stares at me. He almost pushed me down a set of stairs too. He keeps following me around and he tries to talk to me too. (I always ignore him since I usually have my headphones in and I pretend not to hear.)
One time he told me he ate in the restaurant that I ate in China, which is INCREDIBLY doubtable since it's some random Chinese restaurant, but he said it because I uploaded a video of it to YouTube.

One time I was talking to a group of friends and he came up and tapped me on the shoulder. I tried to absorb myself into my friends' conversation but he kept tapping me on the shoulder and I was about to turn around and beat the shit out of him, but I just said, "DUDE. WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT?" And he stands there, staring off into the distance with this creepy blank look, mouth half open. He doesn't respond and I say, "fuck off, dude" and turn back around.

He still follows me around and it's really creepy. I need to get a restraining order or something.

I also have some Korean kid who wants to shoot up the school because of me, but that's not really so much stalking so I won't get into it here.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Rage on November 12, 2008, 01:18:07 am
I haven't been stalked, but I know people who have done it and who have been a victom of it.

The closest I ever get, was when a transvestite was walking really fast towards me.  I did what any person would do at 5:45 am.  I ran.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Frisky SKeleton on November 12, 2008, 01:28:37 am
oh actually! i thought i didn't have any stories but!

my university is really really quiet. like classes are dead silent and it's unusual for people to talk. anyway i was on the bus once and this guy from my class came on and i gave him a glance of recognition and he sat down and struck up a conversation, he was an exchange student, and we talked about the class and his exchange stuff and i brought up the fact that over half the class was from the states, and told him that i was from the states originally and he said "yeah we were talking in the halls and someone said you had been here for like 17 years or something" and i just said "yeah"

i don't think i had told anyone how long i had been here because it was my first year and like i said, no-one talks. it was a little spooky.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Brent Murray on November 12, 2008, 02:03:55 am
Lol, why would anyone wanna stalk me? Unless Parker Bros are getting ready to make their move and stuff me in a duffel bag.  :shady:

(Nah, never ever WILL this happen, EVER!)
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: The Dude on November 12, 2008, 05:11:39 am
I was stalked for awhile in the last year of highschool by this girl who I pointedly had no interest in. We were friends through necessity (I was new to the school during the last term of the final year, and kinda on the outside as far as making new friends went). Eventually I caught a whiff of her attachment to me, and I tried to ignore it. At one point I had to basically tell her to get lost while I walked home (didn't want her knowing where I lived) and later found out via my sister that she had asked (aformentioned sister) for my photograph. Later still, found out via my step-mother that she indeed had found out where I lived and called on me when I was hanging out with my bros.
At that point I just told her off for good. It was creeping me out.

Years later she found me on facebook. She's married and living with some douchebag (from the sounds of him). I wonder still if I did the right thing. Oh well.
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Post by: Sludgelord on November 12, 2008, 05:14:52 am
commiecatgirl e-stalked me earlier this year. no idea if she still does.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Dulcinea on November 12, 2008, 05:32:29 am
One guy who asked me out several times...I turned him down and then he'd leave repetetive messages on my phone, show up "accidentally" at random times, phone my frienda talk to them about me, send numerous text messages.

Another guy looked up everyone in the phonebook with the same last name as I until he found my house. And my last name is Chinese so it has like ten million people in the phonebook.

This isn't long term stalking, but the creepiest thing was when I was at frosh, and I heard someone calling my name. So I turned around to see who it was and it was someone I didn't evne know. He said he'd been browsing through facebook, came across my profile, looked through my photo albums and wanted to meet me cause he "loved" freckles (Did I mention I live in a city of millions of people, so I don't know how the hell he knew where I'd be)...so he walked with me toward the movie theatre I was going to, and I tried to be somewhat polite and make conversation, somehow it got about religion. He asked me what I believed, and then said in a judgemental tone "You seem very opinionated."
Then the next day, we were loading up on buses to go to the beach. There were possibly a thousand people there. He came and sat on some stones about 4 inches from where I was standing and just sat there and watched me without smiling or saying anything. Then when we got on the bus, he sat directly in front of me. Then he messaged me on facebook. The weird thing is...this guy's face was deadpan all the time. He never smiled. He jsut stared really seriously, and said things like "You seem very opinionated" and "I like that picture of you where ______" and honestly he just gave me the cereps.

Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: blood hell on November 12, 2008, 06:38:51 am
give me his name ill beat him up
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 12, 2008, 06:45:33 am
I gotta protect Dulcinea.

EDIT - PM me their name. I'll add them on Facebook. I don't know what else I'll do after that though... but it won't be pretty...

Me, esiann and Rajew? Urban Caveman, Margaret Thatcher and the Regginator at your service. We're the Book Squad, the Facebook Squad. And we're at your service.
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Post by: ThugTears666 on November 12, 2008, 06:49:11 am
PM strangeluv and he'll be under their bed with shaved eyebrows and a knife in no time at all. 0800-strangeluv
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 12, 2008, 06:50:08 am
Seriously, esiann pwned some dougla bitch on my Wall just tonight.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Farren on November 12, 2008, 06:52:09 am
No one fucks with my supuko


Also, I want to see...
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 12, 2008, 06:53:17 am
esiann was like, "Shut up you fatty"

And the girl was like, "Don't be trippin'. I ain't fat"

esiann was like, "Don't let me be startin' comparin' some BMI's up in here"

Then esiann hit her again with, "i don't know who you are but if i did i'd tell you to go to a bar with me, and maybe we could talk about how you say stupid things sometimes." and that was the K.O.
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Post by: Rajew on November 12, 2008, 07:04:30 am
S'true story. I seen it. The fight all started with me.
Women were fighting over me I guess that counts as e-stalking.

Well actually I have a real tale to tell. When I was like 13 I played FFXI and had a female character.  I decided to let people form their own opinions of what gender i was (being a girl meant i got gil) and never stated what my gender was. ANyways, this one dude was like 17 and kept messaging me like "Can't wait till you're 18 we will make a porn site together!!". I was cool with this, because i was 13 and he was giving me e-cash. Then his friends started hitting on me, and they'd message me every time I signed on. For some reason one got pissed and some random girl started messaging me "STAY AWAY FROM MY MEN YOU CARPET MUNCHING WHORE!! I HATE YOU DIE IN A FIRE!!! KILL YOURSELF!"

and then i quit playing the game :)

(my brother kept recieving messages from them until he quit the game himself like a year and a half ago!)

EDIT: Also this one time some girl from california sent me a link to google maps centered directly on top of my house. She's in california tho so I'm not worried.
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Post by: The Dude on November 12, 2008, 10:07:05 am
that's hilarious Rajew, I almost did that but couldn't handle it.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: fatty on November 12, 2008, 10:38:49 am
I haven't been stalked, but I know people who have done it and who have been a victom of it.

The closest I ever get, was when a transvestite was walking really fast towards me.  I did what any person would do at 5:45 am.  I ran.
the correct direction would be towards her
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Yeaster on November 12, 2008, 03:28:06 pm
I've been E-stalked plenty of times. It's why I got rid of my myspace.

Facebook's almost the perfect place for E-Stalking.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: maladroithim on November 12, 2008, 05:06:23 pm
Well there was this one time I caught the eye of a lovely girl in a university cafeteria.  I approached her, but things didn't go too well.  I decided I would try again.

The next day I waited in the cafeteria all day.  She came in for dinner, but I was unable to catch her eye and was afraid of approaching her and getting shot down again.  I went home lonely and frustrated. 

The third day, I waited at the cafeteria again, and she came in for dinner.  Again, she neglected to look at me, and again I was afraid to approach her. This happened the fourth day, the fifth day, and so on.  Eventually I had figured out her schedule and could time my cafeteria visits to coincide with hers.  I would sit and stare, waiting for her to look my way.  She never did.

After a couple of weeks I started to follow her around, and took note of all the places she went to.  I would always hang out at those places, hoping to meet her glance.  I never did.

I wanted to gaze into this girl's eyes.  Just once more, I thought, and I would finally be happy. 

One night several weeks in, I waited outside of her dormitory at 7:53 PM.  I sat on a bench, trying to look as inconspicuous as possible.  Punctual as ever, she arrived at 7:54.  I stared at her as she approached, full of hope and anticipation.  I felt like I was about to burst into tears.  Then - just then - she stole a glance in my direction.  It was only a split second, but I saw her expression.  And I didn't understand.  What was it on her face?  Terror?  Fear?  It was certainly not longing.  I didn't really understand what the expression was.

She hurried around me in as wide an arc as possible.  She slammed the door shut behind her.

I thought perhaps she was confused, and had mistaken me for someone else.  Someone that meant her harm, maybe?  The following night I thought I might wait on the bench again.  It was a Tuesday.  She had evening classes on Tuesday, and came home late, so I planned accordingly.

Again, she glanced in my direction, and hurried along the longest path possible to get into her dormitory.

Starting the following day, she always went places with friends.  She had always spent time with friends, but not usually every day, and never all day.  Was she suddenly more popular?  I didn't understand why her friends would go grocery shopping with her, or join her at the laundromat, or even attend classes with her they were not signed up for.  While the girl would not look at me, her friends would.  Their angry scowls were full of malice.  They did not understand, and thought I meant her harm.

It had been months by now.  I was frustrated and humiliated.  Her friends looked at me as if they might attack me.  She was never alone and it was hard to follow her.  Worst yet, she had not so much as looked in my direction since the second time on the bench.  I deserved to meet eyes with her again.  I needed it.  She just didn't understand that this was true.

If she would not give me her attention, I decided, I would take it.

I waited for the second Friday of the month.  Her suite mate was in an intramural badminton league, and they played every other Friday until late.  The girl would be alone this night, as she always was on the second Friday night of the month.  She worked early every Saturday, so she never went out on Friday.  Armed with a spoon, dish rag, several plastic ties, and a plastic bag, I stole to her dormitory.

I was able to get into her building without much trouble as students often propped the door open.  I knew where her room was located because I was accustomed to staring into her window (although she had kept the curtains closed for many weeks now).  I waited in the men's toilet on her floor, pressing my ear to the door, listening for her footsteps.  She arrived right on time, at 7:54 PM.

I heard the familiar beep of her suite's card reader, and slide of a magnetic lock, and the creaking of her door hinges.  Earnestly, but silently, I hurried out of the men's toilet and caught her suite door with my foot.  I slithered inside.

She was facing away from the door, so I was immediately in control from the start.  I stuffed the dish rag into her mouth to muffle her screams, tying it in a tight not around the back of her head.  I forced her to the floor, face-down.  I secured her wrists and ankles with the plastic ties.  I cinched them tight. 

I turned her around, onto her back.  I was straddling her chest, and she was looking up at me.  Was she crying?  She was kicking, but her legs were tied.  She still did not understand: she was probably afraid I meant her harm.  I soothed her, reassuring her that everything would be okay.  I stroked her hair, and shushed into her ear.  She struggled more, trying to squirm away.  Her eyes were unfortunately closed tight, so she was not looking at me.  I told her that I wasn't going to hurt her; I was just going to make sure that she would look at me. 

I took the spoon out of my pocket.  I assured her that I had thoroughly cleaned it, so there was no infection to worry about.

Carefully, I worked the spoon into her left eye socket.  She tried to scream, but thankfully, the gag silenced her so nobody would hear her misunderstood protests.  Just as I had thought, the spoon fit neatly behind her eye.  Once I had worked it in, I gave the spoon a firm tug.  The eyeball slipped out neatly.

I repeated the process on her other eye.  I sealed both inside the plastic bag.

I never saw her again after that.  Then again, I did not need to follow her any more: I could gaze into her eyes to my heart's content.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Strangeluv on November 12, 2008, 05:08:41 pm
Brandon..................
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Stormi on November 12, 2008, 07:06:56 pm
Yeah, that wasn't disturbing at all. o.o
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Rajew on November 12, 2008, 07:23:34 pm
Shit.

Best post this year (assuming it wasnt copy pasted)
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: SupremeWarrior on November 12, 2008, 07:35:57 pm
HOLY SHIT, maladroithim please tell me that is just a story from a book or something?
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Massy2k6 on November 12, 2008, 08:03:05 pm
Dude none of your posts in this topic have been funny.

Actually I was being serious, the smell wouldnt effect his home because its above him in the attic. It would definitly keep people out.. dude!
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Kaempfer on November 12, 2008, 08:08:18 pm
Hey Him remember that weird clown guy at FryingBear? Talk about e-stalking!
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Seawed on November 12, 2008, 09:26:19 pm
HOLY SHIT, maladroithim please tell me that is just a story from a book or something?


No man, he definitely did it.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Killer Wolf on November 13, 2008, 02:23:13 am
Serious half - I was stalked once, that I know of. A girl found a picture of me online and decided to stalk me. Ironically, we happened to live in the same city, so she eventually ran into me. I started to notice this girl popping up a lot when I would go to my usual places, I saw her so much she became familiar. Since she was fairly cute, I went to talk to her and we hung out a couple of times after that. She disclosed that she had been stalking me because she wanted to go out with me. I said "what the hell, I'm not used to that kind of dedication in my prospective partners" so I started dating her.

Joking half - And two weeks later she took out a restraining order against me.

But really, in my case - the best way to cure a stalker problem is to start a relationship with them, but that might just be me.

EDIT - @ Maladroithim - for some reason your story there reminds me of the song "Twisted Soul" by Son of Sam
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: the bloddy ghost on November 13, 2008, 03:21:23 am
not such a good idea when the girl who's stalking you has children fathered by two seperate dads.

yeah she was like.... 18 and i was sixteen. for some reason when I was younger all the older girls really were into me. maybbe its because i had a baby face.

btw she was my sisters friend. and she didn't have kids because she had good looks lets just say........ :(
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Dulcinea on November 13, 2008, 03:21:51 am
aw thanks strangeluv and tophue ^^
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: ThugTears666 on November 13, 2008, 04:48:25 am
You forgot to thank Brandon, I think you had better....
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Dulcinea on November 13, 2008, 04:54:50 am
Thanks Brandon ^^
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: kermit the toad on November 14, 2008, 03:33:41 am
I sort of had a stalker a few years ago. It may have been just a friend playing a prank, but to this day none of my friends will admit that it was them, so maybe it really was a stalker.

This person called my work all the time, pretending to be my girlfriend (I didn't even have a girlfriend at the time) and asking if I was working that day.

By some weird coincidence, the person only called on days that I wasn't working, so I never actually spoke to them on the phone or saw them in person (as far as I know). It went on for a few weeks, just long enough for me to start getting a little worried, and then it stopped as mysteriously as it had started.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: fatty on November 14, 2008, 06:25:41 pm
A guy from my school keeps sending me sport statistics even though I have asked him countless of times to stop and telling him to fuck off once. Don't know if that counts as stalking, it is very annoying nonetheless!
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Noz on November 15, 2008, 08:47:41 am
there used to be this weird burnout/homeless guy that would wait at the bus stop after school for me and my friends so he could tell us about all of his crazy drug adventures. He also started following me home. I guess I was the "pick of the litter" as it were.


also: malahawhatever: that is an incredible story +600 icepoints
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Erave on November 15, 2008, 09:09:39 am
I am a professional facebook stalker.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Barack Obama on November 15, 2008, 09:33:25 am
I'm not sure, but if I have, they were pretty good at it!
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Kaworu on November 15, 2008, 09:57:24 am
I am a professional facebook stalker.
since facebook tells you all this useless shit as notifications isn't everyone basically a facebook stalker?
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Sarevok on November 15, 2008, 09:41:32 pm
I've had an ex idling in chatrooms I go on and reading online logs and shit to find out everything I was saying and doing for like half a year. She never really made any attempt to contact me though, and I haven't heard from her since we broke up really. Maybe she's still doing it?

Also Carius that doesn't sound like a stalker at all.
Title: Have any of you ever been stalked?
Post by: Boulvae on November 15, 2008, 11:24:28 pm
I feel it neccesary to check out Facebook because you never know what information about yourself is up there.