I'm probably the only person to suggest playing FFXI, but you might want to find people to play with first, though in the last year or so they've made it a lot easier to level up and such, so while you may have trouble finding a party(until you find a decent LS anyways), you shouldn't have too much trouble actually leveling solo(compared to how it use to be back when I started).
As for FFXIV, though I haven't had a chance to play it myself, they've been making a lot of changes to it, with much more to come, including a battle system revamp(auto-attack is being added I believe) and the addition of Jobs on top of there Class system(basically after leveling a Marauder you can quest to become a Dark Knight). And until they are sure the players are completely satisfied with the game, there will be no monthly fees.
Also Star Wars: The Old Republic game is not canceled though it has been pushed back once or twice.