So my girlfriend of 3 years out of nowhere broke up with me last Wednesday. Over the phone. I haven't talked to her for a little over a week until yesterday. I went snooping online and found her old blog that I thought she never used (completely public) and was shocked when I found she was actively talking about the problems with our relationship and taking advice/support from strangers.
Basically we are in a very short long distance relationship (2 1/2 hr drive) and were pretty happy. She has never brought up any problems with our relationship other than the occasional mistake I make. On this blog she mentioned how "he's not putting enough into this relationship" (??) and, "I don't see us having a future together", etc. I had no idea she had any of these thoughts and completely hid her emotions from me on this blog. Hell, I thought I was going to marry this girl. If I had known the extent of those feelings I would have obviously tried my best to fix it... but she made this decision on her own and didn't let me have a chance.
I was pretty shocked and immediately messaged her (she is visiting her parents so I didn't want to call her). Unfortunately they were all self deprecating things about how sorry I am that I didn't pick up on her feelings and how I would do anything for her. I asked her to forgive me and she did. Then I sent another long series of messages that she hasn't responded to yet.
She's going to be back home tomorrow afternoon, at least I think that's what she told me two weekends ago.
Now, here's the question: should I drive up and see her tomorrow? If so, should I tell her I'm coming beforehand?
Basically we are in a very short long distance relationship (2 1/2 hr drive) and were pretty happy. She has never brought up any problems with our relationship other than the occasional mistake I make. On this blog she mentioned how "he's not putting enough into this relationship" (??) and, "I don't see us having a future together", etc. I had no idea she had any of these thoughts and completely hid her emotions from me on this blog. Hell, I thought I was going to marry this girl. If I had known the extent of those feelings I would have obviously tried my best to fix it... but she made this decision on her own and didn't let me have a chance.
I was pretty shocked and immediately messaged her (she is visiting her parents so I didn't want to call her). Unfortunately they were all self deprecating things about how sorry I am that I didn't pick up on her feelings and how I would do anything for her. I asked her to forgive me and she did. Then I sent another long series of messages that she hasn't responded to yet.
She's going to be back home tomorrow afternoon, at least I think that's what she told me two weekends ago.
Now, here's the question: should I drive up and see her tomorrow? If so, should I tell her I'm coming beforehand?
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