Is this actually a thing? Graduation ceremonies being really strict? We don't have them in UK high schools and if we had I probably wouldn't have went but who gives a shit? It seems so obviously a ridiculous thing to be strict about I can't really believe it's a common thing. I can understand a couple of crazy principals getting all wild over it but is it common place to have a diploma snatched out your hand? I mean it's not as if it's the best soup place in New York City, it's just a graduation ceremony.
They make the rules to keep things from getting out of hand, which is perfectly understandable. But in this case, the rules got out of hand because there was no reason to punish a student for acknowledging his family in a polite manner.
I keep hearing the argument "THIS IS WHAT THE STUDENTS AGREED TO" but we don't know what exactly was in the 'contract.' If it was something like "don't act up" then it depends on what the administrators perceive as "acting up," in which case this entire thing would be bullshit because blowing a kiss to your family is pretty much never considered that.
But even if the agreement specifically stated something like that, withholding the diploma couldn't be worth it for the administration having to deal with this controversy.
For those of you who seem to absolutely hate this kid, and take the side of the authority, would it make a difference to you if he was denied his diploma completely? Or do you think that this INSANELY HORRIBLE TOMFOOLERY of blowing a kiss would be enough to rid him of four years of hard work completely?
If you're just arguing that he should have been punished by having his diploma withheld until afterward, I can kind of see your point, but I think this was a pretty clear case of overreaction.