Story So my first job interview......... (Read 2951 times)

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obama did it and he became president. why can't I?

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I don't like this new racism thing, I wish we could go back to the old one.
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yes, more persecution and less humour plese
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Last Edit: September 05, 2009, 10:42:41 am by DietCoke
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What the hell happened here? You people keep insisting on handshakes, yelling how trivial it is. It was just an example of stuff like body language, manners and appearance, and some of you seriously underestimate that side. Some interviewers are better at their job than others, can see through appearances and make objective evaluations, but they're all humans and for all humans appearances play a huge part in forming an opinion about other people, especially if you only meet briefly. Some people appear to be stern and strong-willed, others obnoxious and some weasels, and it's little things like a handshake that create that image, not some magical aura. I don't care if you're trying to be coxswain and not care about anything "insignificant", but you always form that image when you meet someone. Some people make decisions based almost solely on that, others less so, but claiming it's trivial is ridiculous.

And it's not only a burden of human nature to try to shake off when you're interviewing. Like several people have said, when you get to an interview you probably have the history and merits for the job. Of course giving additional detail your resume and application don't have is important, but at that point personal appearance is already a valid reason as well to make even a conscious decision about someone. If someone appears annoyingly extroverted and overly sure about himself I wouldn't hire him to a design team of any sort no matter the qualifications if I've got other options. Having good social skills really is an asset in many jobs, and that includes more than being a salesman. It's part of the interviewers job to not only to count years of experience + degrees you have, but also figure out things like is this guy just shy person and nervous because of the interview or so scared of people he really can't express his ideas properly.

Fun fact I heard from the telly sometime ago: if you take people of the same job and position, tall people earn significantly more than short ones. (Sorry can't remember figures)
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The thing about interviewers being human is a really, really important thing.  You could possibly not get a job just because the interviewer is having a bad day and is more focused on that than the interview.  Maybe they had a fight with their wife that morning.  You could back to that exact same place with the exact same interviewer and exact same everything else on a different day and get the job right away.  Nobody can be 100% objective, and that's why you can't just walk in with the perfect qualifications and get the job right off the bat every time--it's not a perfect system.  It's just regular people like you and me and everyone else trying to come to a decision.
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objective about what? Who cares if you're pissed off or had a bad day? And what kind of fucking asshole would take that out subconsciously or not on anyone trying to just GET A JOB AND SIT THROUGH INTERVIEW?? Its not called being objective its called not being a complete douche bag.

Do you know that when a business is trying to get hired on they NEED someone to fill a spot and make them money? Its not about being picky and sifting through possible applicants because they look dirty and sound mean its about filling the position and moving the fuck on. If you didn't get the job you wanted it wasn't because you don't know how to shake hands right, its because your timing was bad or you were missing something. You're picking someone to work for a company you're not picking a fucking life partner I seriously don't know where you people are getting this shit.

The last job I just got I drove to new orleans for an interview. I was wearing shorts and a t-shirt, looked like I just woke up (was driving all morning), didn't brush my hair or anything, didn't say much and I'm pretty sure looked like I was pissed off. The guy interviewing me was from HR and was wearing dress clothes and a tie. He asked me a few questions about my experience and I had the job, no gazing into my eyes to see if I was a crooked guy or whatever you're talking about.

Edit: also bring dc back thats bullshit
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ahahaha did this hurt your feelings drule
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No but we don't need people who whine about warns, and stop making public callouts for the last time.
Last Edit: September 05, 2009, 05:20:16 pm by Drule
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ouch..guess i've been astrojoned..

nothing you warned him for was "bitchiness" (whatever that is)

why do you warn people for the most trivial shit jesus christ you're like a kid who got his first job as the hall monitor in school.

THERE .. WILL BE NO SHENANIGANS IN MY ASTROJONE!!!
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Well, he complained about the warn he got for sextuple posting, and he was banned because his warn meter was maxed out (and so is yours I see).
Last Edit: September 05, 2009, 05:23:53 pm by Drule
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man gaming world is falling apart. what the heck guys? two people in a row getting banned?

anyways, you don't have to give them a perfect handshake. Just communicate them that you are a self-confident and able individual.
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what

objective about what? Who cares if you're pissed off or had a bad day? And what kind of fucking asshole would take that out subconsciously or not on anyone trying to just GET A JOB AND SIT THROUGH INTERVIEW?? Its not called being objective its called not being a complete douche bag.

Do you know that when a business is trying to get hired on they NEED someone to fill a spot and make them money? Its not about being picky and sifting through possible applicants because they look dirty and sound mean its about filling the position and moving the fuck on. If you didn't get the job you wanted it wasn't because you don't know how to shake hands right, its because your timing was bad or you were missing something. You're picking someone to work for a company you're not picking a fucking life partner I seriously don't know where you people are getting this shit.

The last job I just got I drove to new orleans for an interview. I was wearing shorts and a t-shirt, looked like I just woke up (was driving all morning), didn't brush my hair or anything, didn't say much and I'm pretty sure looked like I was pissed off. The guy interviewing me was from HR and was wearing dress clothes and a tie. He asked me a few questions about my experience and I had the job, no gazing into my eyes to see if I was a crooked guy or whatever you're talking about.

Edit: also bring dc back thats bullshit

you are blowing what i said way out of proportion chill out, i just mean that nobody is going to judge you 100% based on your own merits because they are human beings with their own situations, maybe that just means they're judging you 80% or w/e that doesn't mean they're ABSOLUTELY HAVING IT IN FOR YOU, also no they aren't just filling the position if they were the first qualified person that walked in would have the job and this is not true and never has been, your experiences also aren't the be all end all because DIFFERENT PEOPLE DIFFERENT INTERVIEWS some interviewers WOULD judge you based on looking so sloppy that's just human nature sorry

this topic is about how to do your BEST at an interview and it doesn't hurt to take this into account and give a good handshake and wear nice clothes and make eye contact there is no reason for anyone to be so up in arms over whether it's important because JUST DO IT IT MIGHT HELP

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want to know this too, sorry if this gets me warned i got two before i get banned anyway, there is no reason dc and ryan should be banned over this of all things let's just ban everybody
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i think he got warned for making like twenty useless posts in a row?? and then they both just started being huge trolls for no reason and they got warned to max meterage

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they are both cool dudes in the gw community and don't deserve to be banned from it over dumb little shit like this, i know it was based on warns but w/e it's not cool
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they arent cool enough to BREAK THE RULES, velfarre. not break the rules. also they werent that cool. also they'll be back in like a week (well maybe not dietcoke, he got like 12 warns rofl)

but yeah i am done with this......... if you want to discuss this further i suggest pming a mod or asking one on irc........
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woah velfarre if you start calling out youre gona get banned next


an i want to get banend next
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