Yeah.. So my friends have tried to convince me to go to a strip club for the last few weeks and every single time I tell them "I'm out of money," or "I'm too tired." But tonight, they all pooled their money together for me to go to a strip club with. (I really haven't much money this month.) So I agree to go with them this one time, you know, just to see what all the hype is about. I mean, my friends gf loves to go with him so it can't be too bad right? I'll just go check it out and see how I feel about it.

Wow, I don't think I've had a less pleasurable experience in my life when it comes to dealing with women. I like conversing with women who actually have an emotional connection to me. Regardless of what happened I couldn't shake off the knowledge that all of the girls who were there were concerned with one specific thing; the money in my pocket. I felt so out of place. The entire time I was there I just knew that it wasn't my place to be. I didn't even get an erection. This strip club is an all-nude and it involves quite a bit of contact. As these girls were grinding all over my shit I just felt empty. No human connection whatsoever it was the strangest feeling I've ever had.

I kept trying to talk to the girls working, but none of them were very talkative, except for one, but her breath just reeked of hard liquor and cigarettes so badly I wanted to vomit. I suppose I'm attracted more to the way women act and knowing that they have feelings for me rather than just seeing some girl dry humping the shit out of me for a couple dollars. One of my friends is so convinced that this one girl is coming over to his house later that he's still awake waiting for her to call him. It's 4:50 AM where I am btw. On top of all of this, I just felt generally bad. I felt bad for even being there let alone supporting what's happening. My friend's gf used to work there and she told me specifically which of the girls would have sex with me during a private dance. I didn't know what to say about it, and I have no intention of paying for sex. Ever.

So generally not a good time. I felt like I was simply objectifying the women there, and did not have fun. Anyone else have different opinions on strip clubs, stories, etc.? Hahahaha I don't want people who I know in person to know that I went to a strip club so I changed my mind about talking to people about it on Facebook, MySpace, etc. I just really needed to get other perspectives on the subject than the sex-driven opinions of my other male friends.

Also, I'm not gay.

I would personally never go, so I guess I can understand the way you feel. Only difference that I would not let anyone talk me into it.

I don't know about you guys, but I usually visit strip clubs to seek out a deep, meaningful conversation to have with one of the big-busted women walking around.

With a more serious tone, what exactly where you expecting to get into before you went? Strip clubs are usually just breeding grounds for over hedonistic morons who don't mind viewing women as sex objects, and the female workers don't seem to have any self-respect, either. But yeah, like you, my ideal way of interacting with women in person would be along the lines of having an actual emotional connection. I guess you can at least take this as a learning experience, and deny your friends' requests any other time they want you to tag along.

I've never been to one since the ones here are in some baaadddd places in town, and attract the kind of people I try to avoid for personal safety ​.

But, I don't really get what you mean. I suppose I understand that it wouldn't rock as much as it would if the woman actually liked you but... I figured it would be fun to go there with friends and just enjoy some female rubbin'? I just see it as mindless fun.

yeah i've never been because it seems like it would be really depressing.

Stripclubs are like the Maxim magazine of real life. I think they have the exact same appeal.

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