Would you still consider it objectifying women or pathetic with there were sex bots/matrix style virtual reality where they perfectly replicated how a girl acts in a sexual situation? Just curious would like to get some opinions...
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I'm pretty sure it's because you have a goal to bang a hooker and you are deeply disappointed in your virginity
No. I'm not really disappointed in my virginity as some sort of failure(EDIT: I don't view sex as some sort of achievement, but as a thing to be enjoyed I want to enjoy it) because I don't try because I see getting into a monogamous relationship is to much work and time for little reward.
And my goal isn't to "bang a hooker" its to merely 'bang' a girl that is exceedingly attractive to me. I view just paying for it as more convenient, easier, etc. rather than to search for a girl that I find attractive and that finds me attractive, then likely date her for a extended period.
I'm OK with a emotional aspect, but only if its a "friend" connection. Not romantic. Basically I want a fuck buddy that I can also have a enjoyable conversation with. Few girls are interested in this because they instinctively want commitment. so this further reduces the number of girls that can work for this and extends the wait. I'm not that patient.
I genuinely think that too many people view 'love' as some sort of mystical unexplainable thing. Romance is a big part of this delusion and I sort of find it dumb/creepy/pointless.