Dude, a candle is no threat- you could simply kick it over and proceed. If you're going to have an obstacle, make it something that would really be a problem, like a rock, or a ravine, or rabid grizzly bears. For example, you're taking your badly injured brother to the hospital but you must avoid the hostile organ thieves who want to dismember him and sell his parts on the black market.
Everyone has the right to be himself; wise men know how to,when, and whether to navigate the boundary between their rights and those of others when they collide.