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Elighja

#21 January 02, 2008, 10:10:37 pm

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Yea imma try to hold it together. We were so close...Me and my family are planning out his funeral. Its going to be the first the whole family is together but not exactly since were going to be missing one. So im not going to be around for a while. This is my last post for a few weeks. Hope you all understand and thank you for your time along with your comments they did help a little. Support is something thats needed at times like these.

Edit:// the article isnt 100% cause the media put it out onto the net when the investigation has only just began. But thats an idea of what happened.

Last Edit: January 02, 2008, 10:12:15 pm by Elighja

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Doktormartini

#22 January 02, 2008, 10:44:18 pm

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I'm sorry to hear that. Best wishes to you and your family.

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dada

#23 January 02, 2008, 10:47:47 pm

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So he actually also shot someone else before shooting himself?

I can't imagine even for a minute what kind of news this must be for you.

What can I say? Just remember that whatever happens, it's the future that matters. Maybe you'll doubt yourself, and maybe you'll put some blame onto yourself for what has happened. I can't very easily say anything about the way you view the situation. But no matter what you think of yourself or your brother now, you need to keep doing that which made you happy before. You can't sink into a depression or quit college or otherwise stop endeavoring yourself; not now, not at any other time.

In any case, I wish you the best.

EDIT: and hey, I'm just hoping to make you laugh here for a second, but maybe you can find solace in knowing that even Google has offered its condolences.

Last Edit: January 02, 2008, 10:51:08 pm by Dada

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GirlBones

#24 January 03, 2008, 12:14:35 am

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That sucks man. RCMP ain't got shit fuck them.

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Ryan

#25 January 03, 2008, 12:30:21 am

thx ds k?
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Damn man, this is horrible news. I experienced something similar awhile back (father overdosed on drugs) and just wanted to tell you that things do get better.

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Drule

#26 January 03, 2008, 12:46:18 am

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God, that's horrible. I'm really sorry to hear.

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TFT

#27 January 03, 2008, 02:55:18 am

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sorry to hear about that bro. drugs are a heavy thing sometimes.

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BlindMind

#28 January 03, 2008, 03:00:33 am

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You have my condolences.
There truly are no words to rationalize the death of a loved one, so I shall make no such attempt.

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Sarah

#29 January 03, 2008, 03:01:47 am

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Whoa. Sorry to hear that man. That's a pretty serious thing to go through.

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Frankie

#30 January 03, 2008, 03:26:28 am

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woah, and right during the holidays... man... Im really sorry for you, hope you can recover from it fast.

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Lord Kamina

#31 January 03, 2008, 04:49:02 am

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Sucks balls. I haven't had a relative close to me die, thank to God... But it's been close, and even that sucks balls like one wouldn't imagine. I can tell you only one thing. Mourn him and cry all you have to. But then? Move on. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

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headphonics

#32 January 03, 2008, 05:36:15 am

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well this is awful and i'm sorry but

really dude why are you on the internet posting articles about it and changing your member title and stuff? you should go GRIEVE or spend time with your family or something that doesn't involve chatting with random internet people about it. i don't know, i guess you can do whatever you want, but if my brother died i feel like the last thing i would want to do is get on the internet and chat about it with strangers. you should take some time for yourself.

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Drule

#33 January 03, 2008, 06:00:56 am

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He just took a few minutes to share something?

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Xeno|Soft

#34 January 03, 2008, 06:05:00 am

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your brother rests within the bonds you made with him and the memories you hold of him. Take care, and best of luck.

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dada

#35 January 03, 2008, 07:02:10 am

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Quote from: bazookatooth on January 03, 2008, 05:36:15 am

really dude why are you on the internet posting articles about it and changing your member title and stuff? you should go GRIEVE or spend time with your family or something that doesn't involve chatting with random internet people about it. i don't know, i guess you can do whatever you want, but if my brother died i feel like the last thing i would want to do is get on the internet and chat about it with strangers.

Maybe. It's hard to tell what you'd do. I'd reckon I would not even be able to comprehend what has happened for some time. It doesn't seem very off to me that he's just doing everything he was doing before, such as browsing this forum. Maybe what happened will hit him much later, and I can't blame him.

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Iaman

#36 January 03, 2008, 09:17:13 am

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Hahahaha owned [/obligatory dick comment]

Really though, I wish I could say that I feel bad for you, but I don't. I mean, it's nothing personal or anything, I just don't seem to be able to feel bad about this kind of shit anymore. Maybe it's just because you are FROM THE INTERBUTTS to me or something, but I don't think it's that.

I mean it's tragic and all and I know you must feel bad and stuff, but I won't lie and say I feel for you, because I don't. I've had family members and friends die before (though never a suicide) (actually okay one may have been, but that was never substantiated) but I mean you get over it, life goes on. It'll probably feel like there's a hole somewhere for a while, but (and this probably sounds really bad, but I'll say it anyway) you learn to not care about it anymore.

So I guess what I'm saying is that I hope that you come to that point soon or something and I hope that the funeral and whatnot go well or something.

I dunno.

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Sredni Vashtar

#37 January 03, 2008, 09:26:51 am

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the [/obligatory dick comment] should be at the end of your post.

if i'm the only one that thinks that was totally un-fucking-called for i'll apologize.

Elighja I'm really sorry to hear about your loss man. You have my deepest condolences.

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headphonics

#38 January 03, 2008, 09:33:10 am

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Quote from: Iaman on January 03, 2008, 09:17:13 am

Hahahaha owned [/obligatory dick comment]

Really though, I wish I could say that I feel bad for you, but I don't. I mean, it's nothing personal or anything, I just don't seem to be able to feel bad about this kind of shit anymore. Maybe it's just because you are FROM THE INTERBUTTS to me or something, but I don't think it's that.

I mean it's tragic and all and I know you must feel bad and stuff, but I won't lie and say I feel for you, because I don't. I've had family members and friends die before (though never a suicide) (actually okay one may have been, but that was never substantiated) but I mean you get over it, life goes on. It'll probably feel like there's a hole somewhere for a while, but (and this probably sounds really bad, but I'll say it anyway) you learn to not care about it anymore.

So I guess what I'm saying is that I hope that you come to that point soon or something and I hope that the funeral and whatnot go well or something.

I dunno.

usually you just don't post dawgg. do you attend peoples' funerals in life and go YEAH ACTUALLY TBH I DON'T FEEL A GODDAMN THING WHY AM I EVEN HERE, too?

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fatty

#39 January 03, 2008, 09:33:41 am

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That's awful, man. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

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Sarah

#40 January 03, 2008, 09:42:41 am

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Quote from: Iaman on January 03, 2008, 09:17:13 am

Hahahaha owned [/obligatory dick comment]

Really though, I wish I could say that I feel bad for you, but I don't. I mean, it's nothing personal or anything, I just don't seem to be able to feel bad about this kind of shit anymore. Maybe it's just because you are FROM THE INTERBUTTS to me or something, but I don't think it's that.

I mean it's tragic and all and I know you must feel bad and stuff, but I won't lie and say I feel for you, because I don't. I've had family members and friends die before (though never a suicide) (actually okay one may have been, but that was never substantiated) but I mean you get over it, life goes on. It'll probably feel like there's a hole somewhere for a while, but (and this probably sounds really bad, but I'll say it anyway) you learn to not care about it anymore.

So I guess what I'm saying is that I hope that you come to that point soon or something and I hope that the funeral and whatnot go well or something.

I dunno.

Dude, the other day you were like

I FEEL BAD ABOUT SEEING AN OLD WOMAN BUY THREE NEXT GEN CONSOLES BECAUSE THE PEOPLE AROUND HERE CAN'T AFFORD THAT MANY. IT MADE ME FEEL TERRIBLE

but you laugh at this? Are you serious?

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