I'm trying to build up a new character, and I just cannot do it, so I'm gonna cancel. Everyone's at endgame now so there are like nine people in the Dunes on my server, usually. People who play know that Valkurm Dunes is usually packed. Like I said, everyone's at endgame, so you open up the server search list and all you see is:
75WHM/37BLM
75RNG/37NIN
75WAR/37PLD
...
i think you should try another server then. while not as pack as it was in the old days i still find plenty of people to party with(and i'm leveling DRK right now(also i play mostly at midnight when all the japanese players are on)) and its not just people trying to level the new expansion jobs. So i usually just solo until i get an invite.
Speaking of soloing, BST sub is you best friend for soloing since its Charm skill actually works beyond the level 37 sub limit(if you have 75 bst, subing it will allow charm to work as if your main job was bst) and dancer is damn good with melee classes, basicly making you unkillable and removing the need to rest, at the cost of killing enemies a bit slower(since you mostly likely won't be using any weapon skills). And of course there's the Adventuring Fellow NPC who you can make DD, Heal or Tank for you.
As for the new SE MMO, the mentioned last November that they haven't even decided weather or not the game will be FF related, so any official trailers(and the actual game) are probably still far off. And yes, even SE isn't stupid enough to ignore the new ideas other MMO's have come up with(even if it will piss of their hardcore fan base).
EDIT: I just remembered something that I thought sounded really awesome and I think many people may be interested in around here(what with this supposably being a game making site). One of the other thing mention in November was that the creators are looking into adding the ability for players to create their own dungeons in the game, though at this point they are only looking to see if it will be possible so and may not even be in and if it is, it probably won't show up till this time next year(I'm still hyped though).