Ah boy. Sex advice from GW of all places.

If you feel fine about that then whatever, but I think life is more productive when you take active control over those impulses. Not just sexuality, but other things in general, like getting unreasonably pissed off and drinking too much. Doing the 'right thing' tends to be less troublesome (huh who'da thought), and I think you'd feel better about yourself afterwards. I think that if you decided not to screw around with her, you'd be a little more grateful to yourself...at least you wouldn't have made this topic. Thanks to you, now GW's going to explode.

How is she? Do you think she'll rat you out? Why aren't you worrying about stuff like that.

And seriously, what if she gets pregnant.

But if one holds that there is a maxim that one can judge the morality of an action by (like the golden rule or the more self serving raking in of benjamins) it upholds the idea that morality can be judged conclusively. If morality can be judged, then there must be applicable judgements (right or wrong) to apply to it. Therefore the idea that there is no right or wrong is negated if one as a moral agent believes that a maxim can determine right from wrong.

but like I said it depends on your philosophy also i don't want to keep this up all night so yawn ttyl

I agree with what you've been saying. It makes me tihnk a bit of (was it Kant? I can't remember). The idea that if you are all right with the entire population doing your action to you, then you should feel okay with what you're doing. Ie: If you are all right with the entire population sleeping with your fiance, then by all means...


To people who are saying that she's a slut and to people who are saying that he was wrong...we can't really make an objective statement another way unless we were there. I mean...on the one hand:

There's a girl whose made a commitment to a man who is now very far away and has been for a long time. She's obviously feeling very lonley and uncertain right now, and is in a very vulnerable state. If a good friend makes a move on her in this case then the friend is just as to blame.

Alternatively, she is supposed to be committed to this man and if she cannot resist temptation even before tying the knot, is she really in a place to marry this guy?

Then again, we might also look at the fact that we're all human, and people make mistakes and learn from them. One mistake doesn't mean you're eternally damned. If she cheats this once before she gets married, feels guilty and never does it again, is it as bad as if she does it, likes it and continues doing it behind his back?

all girls are sluts, so it's okay to feel absolutely no emotion. you can't complain when it happens to you though, brah.

That's not a fair statement at all. I've never cheated on anyone, and I always keep to my boyfriend (of which I've only had two). There are plenty of girls who are exactly the same way, including one of my friends whose been with the same guy since she was 14, goes to a different university and has never cheated on him. Compare that to my sisters whose every boyfriend they've had (excluding one for my second oldest sister that she's now going to marry) has cheated on them.

We all have different experiences but it's not fair either way to say that all girls are sluts or all boys are manwhores.

TLDR

Also THAT WAS A JOKE

you should answer with: shut up asshole

and everyone will understand don't type so much my fucking eyes hurt

shut up asshole :P


And no I didn't take him seriously. But there ARE people out there who have that opinion so I thought I'd comment anyway. And honestly 5 lines is tldr? There are lots of posts in this thread about the same length.

It happens all the time unfortunately, and when you think about it, when a person is gone for like a year you can't help but meet new people and things happen. I'm not trying to justify it because I don't think it was the right thing at all to do, but sadly it does happen. I wouldn't call her a slut, but I think if she really was sure about this guy, she would not have slept with you.
I know it probably doesn't sound like a good idea, but if I had my conscience in a knot, I would have atleast liked for him to hear it from me or her, before anyone else. If there is a 0% chance of him not finding out, you should pretty much try to keep it quiet.