FIRST OFF: This is not a troll topic. I have no gay friends or else I would simply ask them. Please take these questions completely serious as I need real answers.

What I wanted to ask was before you accepted the fact you were gay, did you constantly question yourself and tell yourself that no matter what it couldnt possibly be true? I have been struggling with a lot of complicated feelings lately and I am confused as fuck. There are a lot of things turning me on that... should not... or maybe I dont know how I am supposed to feel. I know that I find myself much happier when I am accompanied by friends, rather than girlfriends, how often it disgusts me to even be in the presence of women is astounding. I know for a fact that I like women, and sex is like a drug for me. I dont know I feel stupid even posting this but this is the only place I could think of where I know gay people who could give me a mature outlook on some of these feelings I am confused about. Is it possible that I might be bi-sexual, or do you think this is something else?

i think the first question would be to ask yourself this: Do you get a boner lookin at naked guys? if so, you're prolly gay.

Whats the second question Ryan?

do you listen to the beatles

Whats the second question Ryan?

i meant he should ask himself that question before asking the other questions
 

@Ryan: Does the fact I focus on the penis during porn count?

@dragonx: Actually yes, but this would mean my granparents were gay too.

I have to do a 40 minute presentation on homosexuality nature vs nurture for school, so hopefully yall give nackster some useful info.

i think the first question would be to ask yourself this: Do you get a boner lookin at naked guys? if so, you're prolly gay.

Seriously if you aren't sexually attracted to guys then that means you aren't gay.  All you've said is "I hate being around women but I like to fuck them, also I like hanging out with my buddies" which doesn't imply you're gay at all.

you're probably gay have a nice day

did you get out of a bad relationship with a woman recently? That might be the reason you're so put off by them for the time being.

I don't know if its because you're scared of finding out you're gay or what but you should definitely know by now, I think. 

did you get out of a bad relationship with a woman recently? That might be the reason you're so put off by them for the time being.

I don't know if its because you're scared of finding out you're gay or what but you should definitely know by now, I think. 

I did get out of a horrible relationship actually. Two in one year. I know this contributes a lot to my feelings on this situation, but it goes beyond bitterness, into the realm of actual disgust.

@alec: As in I cant really get off unless there is one in the scene.

I think you're just really bitter, not gay (unless you're bitter AND gay, but so far yeah it just sounds like you have other problems).

Day 1: Watch heterosexual porn. Ejaculate in a cup.

Day 2: Watch gay porn. Ejaculate in a cup.

Measure and compare semen volumes.

I've been talking to a gay guy on the phone lately, nackster. I'll ask him and get back to you on what he says.

i too have been talking to [name ][/name] lol.

I've been talking to a gay guy on the phone lately, nackster. I'll ask him and get back to you on what he says.

Haha He is going to think it's about you and there is no "friend of yours"

Believe it or not, partly why I have been talking to him is kind of for the same reason nackster made this thread!

But personally, uh, I'm in the same boat as nackster. Not disgusted by guy-on-guy stuff, able to watch gay pornography, could imagine myself with another dude without feeling appalled, but just never the desire to actually do it. I guess you'll never really know until you actually do it (if you do it) to know if the experience is different from just imagining it. As for watching dicks in porn, I don't think that's really an indicator. Everyone love to a great big old dick having a good time

But personally, uh, I'm in the same boat as nackster.

My verdict: confused.

TBH it sounds like those relationships have kinda messed you up a bit, and once you start believe in something, its hard NOT to believe it. You start giving yourself reasons why its true.

I think it'll pass. I THINK! i'm not an expert on this subject.

Dunno why I quoted you, sluv but I'd say the same thing to you, although I dunno whats happened to you recently so I can't say if its the same or not.

@Strangluv: Yes! Thats exactly what I was trying to say but just didnt know how to word it!

@Jmickle: But as you put it, it is very confusing. How do i know that getting over it is the right thing to do, maybe im not supposed to?