Probably getting kicked out... need some help.

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Barack Obama

#21 November 16, 2009, 10:52:46 pm

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~everyone's got a story to tell~ :*

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bible_basher

#22 November 16, 2009, 11:10:30 pm

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just steal some plasma tvs and you'll be sorted

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FrostyPink

#23 November 16, 2009, 11:26:32 pm

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thanks for the advice peeps (i've read it all and took it all onboard)

btw coke and bible basher those are really good ideas but i think they are more for people like minorities

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Seawed

#24 November 17, 2009, 12:48:01 am

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make sure to bring your bone density scanner

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Farren

#25 November 17, 2009, 01:04:26 am

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what happened? Does your dad just hate you for no reason or are you a deadbeat and or piss him off all the time? I'd say do some shit around the house maybe and show him you're trying to get a job? Tuck your pride in and see what you can do to buy some time, get a job and a place as fast as you can then move out and try to keep it that way.

I'm lucky I'm never home because I'm a real dick to my dad sometimes because he's a drunk and getting dumber as he gets older and I kind of provoke him alot but its like prodding an angry monkey with a stick I can't help it, its funny.

My parents would virtually never kick me out though cus I'm one of the few people in my family thats actually trying to make something of themselves and they don't want to fuck that up. I still wanna move out real bad so I just keep sailing and hope I'll save enough to buy a house soon.

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FrostyPink

#26 November 17, 2009, 02:09:36 am

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Quote from: Yugoslavian Ghoul on November 17, 2009, 01:04:26 am

what happened? Does your dad just hate you for no reason or are you a deadbeat and or piss him off all the time? I'd say do some shit around the house maybe and show him you're trying to get a job? Tuck your pride in and see what you can do to buy some time, get a job and a place as fast as you can then move out and try to keep it that way.

I'm lucky I'm never home because I'm a real dick to my dad sometimes because he's a drunk and getting dumber as he gets older and I kind of provoke him alot but its like prodding an angry monkey with a stick I can't help it, its funny.

My parents would virtually never kick me out though cus I'm one of the few people in my family thats actually trying to make something of themselves and they don't want to fuck that up. I still wanna move out real bad so I just keep sailing and hope I'll save enough to buy a house soon.

My Dad seems to hate me because I have no real DRIVE towards money. I often finding myself doing things that make me no money, but are things like creating art in one form or another, or watching film and listening to music... he seems to have the impression I should be spending EVERY minute I have looking for a job. I'm never a dick to him either, I always respect the guy as much as I can, but he seems to bring up massive arguements over tiny things. He also can't seem to understand I haven't focused on exactly what I want to do yet (but I'm hoping to aim for getting into film or another media for a living).

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Mince Wobley

#27 November 17, 2009, 02:20:07 am

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I often finding myself doing things that make me no money, but are things like creating art in one form or another, or watching film and listening to music...

So you're just freeloading don't do that. I don't like doing it.

Play Raimond Ex (if you haven't already)

I'll not TAKE ANYTHING you write like this seriously because it looks dumb

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Shadow Kirby

#28 November 17, 2009, 02:25:29 am

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Quote from: FrostyPink on November 17, 2009, 02:09:36 am

My Dad seems to hate me because I have no real DRIVE towards money. I often finding myself doing things that make me no money, but are things like creating art in one form or another, or watching film and listening to music... he seems to have the impression I should be spending EVERY minute I have looking for a job. I'm never a dick to him either, I always respect the guy as much as I can, but he seems to bring up massive arguements over tiny things. He also can't seem to understand I haven't focused on exactly what I want to do yet (but I'm hoping to aim for getting into film or another media for a living).

Just get a minimum wage shitty job. That should calm him down.

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FrostyPink

#29 November 17, 2009, 02:33:43 am

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Quote from: Mince Wobley on November 17, 2009, 02:20:07 am

So you're just freeloading don't do that. I don't like doing it.

Sorry, I forgot to mention I AM spending a LOT of time looking for a job or else I wouldn't be able to get my benefits as it is...

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Barack Obama

#30 November 17, 2009, 02:47:49 am

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Quote from: FrostyPink on November 16, 2009, 11:26:32 pm

thanks for the advice peeps (i've read it all and took it all onboard)

btw coke and bible basher those are really good ideas but i think they are more for people like minorities

this is pretty much all you need to know about how to get by in the world

bang on the system and show that u ready to ride

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Evangel

#31 November 17, 2009, 03:15:46 am

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It sounds like your father expects you to contribute and obviously RM2K games or whatever you do are not the answer. I know a job can be difficult to find right now, but if you really put yourself out there, you can make it happen. I've seen a few people in your situation, and they were not working as hard as they could to find a job. You should devote a good portion of your day to turning in applications and following up on employers you've already spoken with. Following up is very important. Almost every job I've landed was because I called back every couple of days. Show that initiative and make yourself more than just another person among a whole stack of applications.

Your pops will probably not kick you out if you just make a genuine effort to land a job.

keep posting...

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dark_james_griffin

#32 November 17, 2009, 05:55:56 am

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fags getting kicked out of their houses lmao

how about

stop being fags that people don't want to live with

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Robbie

#33 November 17, 2009, 07:14:00 am

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You should be eligible for housing benefit, but because you're under 25, you'll only be able to get the rate for a shared room. Your best bet would probably be to try to find a room in a shared house as the deposit will be a lot lower than for a flat. Saying that, though, it's possible to get flats for £250 a month, but I suspect not around London. I rented a flat in a town called Dunstable for £395 a month. Sometimes a landlord will accept a 'deposit bond' from the council in lieu of you paying a lump sum which is really hard to find. The moving in costs for my flat in Dunstable came to like £900.

Have you tried the council? The waiting lists for council flats are very long, but if you're homeless (but not intentionally homeless - your dad needs to have kicked you out, and you need to have no other place to go), it's considered an emergency and they'll probably put you in a bed and breakfast for a few days until you can sort yourself out a place.

Hope things work out!

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Massy2k6

#34 November 17, 2009, 08:15:29 am

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Yeah, councils will normally have someone you can speak too about this sort of thing. Let them know you might soon be homeless and what your options are. They may also direct you to a few cheap hostels in the area, which is what my little brother lived in for a while.

The link is for housing benefits in medway but I am positive every local council does the same thing, so if you really are as desperate as you say then your first stop should be your local council and making sure you speak to the right person there.

http://www.medway.gov.uk/index/housing/housebenefit/73203/91707.htm

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Barack Obama

#35 November 17, 2009, 08:42:27 am

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LOL u fucking Europeans. Ur government wont even let u pull urself up by ur own bootstraps

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Massy2k6

#36 November 17, 2009, 11:26:46 am

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Quote from: DietCoke on November 17, 2009, 08:42:27 am

LOL u fucking Europeans. Ur government wont even let u pull urself up by ur own bootstraps

This is why you have so many bums lurking around your streets and people struggling to pay their medical bills. As fuc*ed up as our government may be, we get a lot of support and don't rely on suing our family members for a few hundred bucks... yeah we europeans watch Judge Judy and we laugh our asses off.

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big ass skelly

#37 November 17, 2009, 11:57:29 am

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Quote from: Massy2k6 on November 17, 2009, 11:26:46 am

This is why you have so many bums lurking around your streets and people struggling to pay their medical bills.

The system is perfect, those are just lazy people or people who don't have strong enough bootstraps. I'ts evolution bitch

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Alec

#38 November 17, 2009, 02:47:55 pm

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hahaha judge judy. Massy quick question does everybody in europe act like they do in monty python?

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Alec

#39 November 17, 2009, 03:04:46 pm

Watch out Kitty! The room turned sideways!
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The best part is most Americans don't even watch shows like judge judy. They come on while we're either supposed to be working or when we're asleep or drunk.

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Barack Obama

#40 November 17, 2009, 03:36:01 pm

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yeah but it's on right before(or after, idk) the best block of television ever: COPS, Springer, and Maury

big ol' slice of americana right there

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