Sex Is this gay? (Read 2907 times)

  • Avatar of Barack Obama
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Jun 16, 2008
  • Posts: 5244
And this is why I'd sell my soul to have been born female...
lol
  • Avatar of Vellfire
  • TV people want to leave
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Feb 13, 2004
  • Posts: 9602
And this is why I'd sell my soul to have been born female...

so that you could whip your dick out in public without being chastised?  i'm getting mixed messages here
I love this hobby - stealing your mother's diary
BRRING! BRRING!
Hello!  It's me, Vellfire!  FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER! ... Bye!  CLICK!  @gidgetnomates
  • aye ess dee eff el cay jay ache
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Jun 24, 2005
  • Posts: 5149
And this is why I'd sell my soul to have been born female...

cool dude
I USE Q'S INSTEQD OF Q'S
  • Avatar of the_bub_from_the_pit
  • Power to the flowers
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Dec 17, 2005
  • Posts: 1608
so he could suck the dick instead
  • aye ess dee eff el cay jay ache
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Jun 24, 2005
  • Posts: 5149
you should know more than anyone that guys can suck dick
I USE Q'S INSTEQD OF Q'S
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Aug 2, 2004
  • Posts: 54
I USE Q'S INSTEQD OF Q'S
~*FARTMASTER*~
I AM THE BUTTLORD

D O N G
  • Avatar of Terrorantula
  • It's Me, Picasso
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Jul 7, 2009
  • Posts: 1083
Just for the record, I wasn't saying being gay was a bad thing in my original post, or any of my posts really. I really just want to know if I should consider what he did gay or not; I'm not trying to insult him.
No, what you asked is if it should be considered a sign that  he's gay.  If you really wanna know so bad, ask him!
Everyone has the right to be himself; wise men know how to,when, and whether to navigate the boundary between their rights and those of others when they collide.
  • Avatar of malaperi
  • ␏␎
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Mar 24, 2010
  • Posts: 22
something uncomfortable really
maybe for attention

though lets not jump to conclusions shall we?

i remember one of my friends pulled out his ballsack during a game
of beer pong to distract the thrower. it wasnt all men in the room-
though slight of a sausage fest - he was happy with his girlfriend
(sleeping in the next room).

they made the shot coincidentally. ballsacks not as distracting as thought to be.

i wonder if you are questioning us as you are uncertain of your own sexuality
& are looking for support in 'what it means to be straight'
Last Edit: March 24, 2010, 06:47:09 am by malaperi
  • Avatar of Corfaisus
  • Cold-Souled Sovereign of the Night Blades
  • PipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Oct 24, 2008
  • Posts: 463
I don't believe it's gay for him to have done it, so much as you for having thought so much of it, letting it swirl around in your mind, to post it here.
  • Avatar of Yeaster
  • Boy Next Door
  • PipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Oct 19, 2002
  • Posts: 842
There's a chance he could be straight. He could just be really proud and confident about his anatomy.

Complete Chaos [Full Game available!][/url] (No RTP required)
Also try out my demo: A Nightmare in Sunnydale, California
http://gamingw.net/forums/index.php?topic=81758.0
---
MMZ [Short Demo Available][/url]
VANITY[demo version][/url]
  • Avatar of Faust
  • Comedy Bronze
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Global Moderator
  • Joined: Nov 27, 2001
  • Posts: 1018
Addressing an earlier post about gay being used as a derogatory term: You should hang around in schools over here hermano. The word 'gay' means 'lame', and kids use it every second sentence to describe something. If I give out a detention it is 'gay' and I'm 'such a gay teacher', the homework is 'gay', as is the fact that it rains or snows.

I'm not being like an APOLOGIST or whatever, but the word has changed its meaning on that front. Kids don't actually mean "THIS IS HOMOSEXUAL", they mean that it's lame. It's become part of their vernacular, however much we detest it. So like the best idea is to not become annoyed with it - in a few years it'll drop out of usage like that, much in the style of "RAD" and "ACE".
Hey hey hey
  • Avatar of Vellfire
  • TV people want to leave
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Feb 13, 2004
  • Posts: 9602
Addressing an earlier post about gay being used as a derogatory term: You should hang around in schools over here hermano. The word 'gay' means 'lame', and kids use it every second sentence to describe something. If I give out a detention it is 'gay' and I'm 'such a gay teacher', the homework is 'gay', as is the fact that it rains or snows.

I'm not being like an APOLOGIST or whatever, but the word has changed its meaning on that front. Kids don't actually mean "THIS IS HOMOSEXUAL", they mean that it's lame. It's become part of their vernacular, however much we detest it. So like the best idea is to not become annoyed with it - in a few years it'll drop out of usage like that, much in the style of "RAD" and "ACE".

Man this is pretty much how I feel about this.  The kids aren't doing it to be HATEMONGERS and they don't even mean it in that sense at all.  Just like people who refer to GOING POSTAL aren't saying it because they hate postal workers.
I love this hobby - stealing your mother's diary
BRRING! BRRING!
Hello!  It's me, Vellfire!  FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER! ... Bye!  CLICK!  @gidgetnomates
  • Avatar of dada
  • VILLAIN
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Administrator
  • Joined: Dec 27, 2002
  • Posts: 5538
Addressing an earlier post about gay being used as a derogatory term: You should hang around in schools over here hermano. The word 'gay' means 'lame', and kids use it every second sentence to describe something. If I give out a detention it is 'gay' and I'm 'such a gay teacher', the homework is 'gay', as is the fact that it rains or snows.
All the more reason for it to be used to teach them that words can be very offensive even if they seem perfectly normal. I mean I totally agree that kids using it aren't immoral or vehemently anti-gay or anything like that, but on the other hand there's guys like Kami who are 24 and still say nigger because they think that if they don't mean to be racist, it's perfectly okay to use racist terms.
Last Edit: March 25, 2010, 04:34:24 pm by Dada
  • Avatar of Parker
  • more cowbell!
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Aug 28, 2002
  • Posts: 1189
All the more reason for it to be used to teach them that words can be very offensive even if they seem perfectly normal. I mean I totally agree that kids using it aren't immoral or vehemently anti-gay or anything like that, but on the other hand there's guys like Kami who are 24 and still say nigger because they think that if they don't mean to be racist, it's perfectly okay to use racist terms.
You can't compare using the word Nigger to using the word Gay.
http://www.fallingbot.com/
  • Avatar of The One
  • my freinds call me theo but u can call me god
  • PipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Jul 10, 2009
  • Posts: 486
I agree
  • salt world mechanic
  • PipPipPipPip
  • Group: Member
  • Joined: Feb 28, 2010
  • Posts: 553
Sure you can my niggers.
  • Avatar of crone_lover720
  • PEW PEW PEW
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Mar 25, 2002
  • Posts: 5554
not literally and it's kinda a cop out but in both cases it's using an offensive word out of its context just because it's an offensive word with negative connotations

I mean obviously gay is not necessarily an offensive or negative word at all, but the way it's being used it is. it's pretty absurd if you think about it, where it comes from and why it's used that way. it's a bad habit that isn't worth defending. using it doesn't make anyone a bad person or a homophobe, just someone who should probably readjust their language

I haven't been keeping up with this thread so idk if this has already been stated or is off point. on the subject of school kids I don't think it really matters, they love this stuff like shoelace licorice they'll never give it up!! kill barney what a fucking gay dinosaur I hate his pimpled butt. fart
  • Avatar of dada
  • VILLAIN
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Administrator
  • Joined: Dec 27, 2002
  • Posts: 5538
You can't compare using the word Nigger to using the word Gay.
No, you're right, and that's partly so because it's used in a completely different way than "gay" is. But the underlying principle is that a very default term can be offensive to others and that this usually doesn't change until there is a conscious demand to do so. The term "negro" was still very much the default during the Civil Rights days, and that didn't change until Malcolm X and MLK made their bid. And while it may be so that the word gay is different in nature, and might not be around for all that long, I still don't think it's a very bad lesson to teach about.
  • aye ess dee eff el cay jay ache
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Jun 24, 2005
  • Posts: 5149
hussy
I USE Q'S INSTEQD OF Q'S
  • Avatar of Barack Obama
  • PipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPipPip
  • Group: Premium Member
  • Joined: Jun 16, 2008
  • Posts: 5244
in a few years it'll drop out of usage like that, much in the style of "RAD" and "ACE".
Don't sleep on rad homie, its coming back and coming correct