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i'm not sure why logging them is creepier than remembering what was said - i'm talking about text logs not voice recordings. compiling them into biometric data is probably a bit creepier, especially if you feed it into AI programs so you can trial your next conversations in advance.
forum posting is different from a one-on-one conversation and posts on here are pretty much intended to be retained on a web server and broadcast to the community/public. i shouldn't have to point this out to you i think you're smart enough to know this
Keeping logs of conversations without some sort of prior understanding/arrangement to do so, text or voice, is just odd to me especially if it's just to sort of to archive and keep on someone's hard drive for no particular reason.
it's 2010 brah and we're on the inter'net'
I haven't really "chatted" with anyone for years now except for maybe amark or occasionally dipping into IRC, but even that was done through my browser on a java/flash thing so I wasn't even really aware that a lot of these programs logged conversations by default. Not that anything I say on the computer is particularly important, incriminating, or sensitive but as someone who's not really into chattin', the whole logging of everything unless both parties request the software not to just puts me at a greater distance from wanting to use these programs.

Frankly I don't think I could have a normal conversation with someone while knowing I was being recorded. Maybe it's some kind of weird neurosis on my end, idk.