I actually spoke to her every day over a period of nearly three years. I always found her a person with a really good outlook on things, and a person that just needed a little support and understanding.
I'm a little perturbed that you're talking about her being ostrasized from the community (something I didn't know had happened - jeez, you guys turned into total pricks in my time away eh? And I don't mean that jovially - absolute pricks if it went down how I'm imagining it), and the quote below has gotten me a little irate:
the more i thought about it over the years, the more i felt like she was genuinely troubled and that maybe ostracizing her from the community wasn't the best thing to do, considering.
If it's taken you years to figure this out then you aren't the smartest tool in the box, eh?
So she was a little sexual and troubled and was apparently mocked out of this place?
I know EXACTLY what it is to quit this place due to mockery and idiocy, and coupled with the fact that I considered her a friend, this revelation has really fucking pissed me off.
I know I'm not exactly contributing to this "discussion", but fuck, where else am I going to say this shit?