Honestly, this is correct. But so is murder/killing/genocide jokes. Shouldn't you want to punch people who make genocide/murder jokes in the face as well? (I suppose this is outside of the issue of feminism entirely really)

With all due respect, I'm actually rather surprised you still don't get this after all the discussions you've been in.
Vellfire even partly explained it in the quote you're replying to. Genocide is awful too but it's not lopsided against women like rape is, nor is it used as a corrective tool to control women, and it's not something women live in constant fear in. It's something that specifically reminds women of rape culture, of the fact society considers them second-rate citizens, of the fact a lot of men don't really care about their rights or their private space or whether they say no.

Rape jokes are a celebration of all that by people who are completely ignorant of all of the above.

OK. Misandry isn't real. No women hate men.

It's about systematic oppression. Misogyny is deeply systematic, it's not just about individuals irrationally hating other individuals on the basis of biology, it's the framework that exists inside society that fosters misogyny that's the real problem. That's why misandry doesn't exist, because that framework exists only for the purpose of disenfranchising women, not men. Any exceptions that exist are minor and marginal.

EDIT: So basically, like Warped said, I don't disagree with your principles but I question with your method.

Whether you think it's a useful tactic or not, it's really up to women to make decisions on how they choose to fight their oppression. Sure, that doesn't mean men can't try to advise them in some way, but I'm very reluctant to do that because there's always a large discord between what I know and what they know. I'm not an expert. Maybe if you study the issue thoroughly, read a few books and get involved in the activist scene, you can do that, but otherwise I really don't see the point. With respect, not saying this as a way to sabotage your opinions, but you guys really don't know a thing about these issues. I don't know much about these issues either, and I have done a lot of reading.

It's also pretty typical, really. You'd be surprised at how easily men have something to say about feminism without really knowing much about it. Although I'm sure you have the best intentions, this is one culture biases. That's why, during the debates on women's healthcare issues in the US, something like 80% of the people talking about it on TV were men. They even held an all-male panel on the issue during a Senate hearing, even though none of those men will be affected by what they're discussing. Men are just sort of expected to know better, even if they're not experts. Sometimes we really just need to step back and let women sort out the things that affect them.

Sorry for ruining your facebook, Wayne. But it was a lot of fun.