This salt is more like nitro glycerin.
Vel is unhappy that you called Mkk an attention whore. (which is now obvious, since she stated so) the bento thing is now secondary. I argue that you were being overly aggressive about your dislike, golden ratio.
While I agree that there is more reason to annoyed at you for you rudeness rather than inflamed with rage, pointing out how mad she is walking a fine line from being neutral to spiteful or trollish dude. :/
I do agree also that you should probably just say 'sorry I was a dick, it was not my intention'.
I however, should point out there are some people that overreacted on both ends. One of them is MORE at fault (GR) but he is human and prone to social mistakes, like the rest of us.
I'd also argue, even if he does not say an 'authentic' sorry, holding a grudge against him for it would be just as childish. Rise above, be the better ma--- err... person.
Also I think his current apology is largely the equivalent of saying "I'm sorry if I made a mistake, I still don't know if I offended mkk though." Now that Mkk has explained how she feels, its safe to assume that gr now understands and is actually sorry anyway. The if-then has been completed.
EDIT:Ignore I posted this anyway after seeing 25 posts. twas a mistake.
more on topic:
I did not even know bento was Japanese. I had not heard of it before. I can see the appeal of separating food into healthy portions. I probably would not do it myself though.
I'm not a weeaboo but I don't hate weeaboos btw.