Alright, so you go about your normal day and go to all the places you've planned or randomly decided to go to... Then suddenly you end up meeting and chatting up with a girl (or guy) you've talked to before or knew from somewhere else. Now, personally I really don't get that attached to any individual girl in general, I just keeps tabs on a whole bunch of them and categorize them as "Friend", Acquintance, closer friends, or "other" friends girls.

I don't know if it's by chance but the people I end up meeting again some how look a thousand times more attractive and are generally cool in terms of personality. What I noticed recently is that those people I bump heads with seem to have already found a boyfriend, and a lot of times I actually know who they are, which is messed up since I don't live in a small city or anything. For example, I bumped heads with a girl I've seen around and talked to a few times in general at a new work location I switch too. I have no clue how we got so close but we ended up looking like Girl + Boy = FOREVER LOVE which wasn't even my intention and I'm obviously guessing it wasn't hers either. The thing is I never really did too much with her since I happen to know her boyfriend even though we don't talk anymore... Anyways basically shit gets real intense in the sense that I think about this girl more then the other little girls running around the streets and I know I'm making her have doubts about her current relationship... It's like to the point that we're texting each other to go out and shit and she's dropping plans with her man even though she still has feelings for him and doesn't want to hurt him or anything. Like I said, I'm not really a lover boy but I like keeping in contact with a few good ones here and there if you know what I mean, we all turn old sometime lol.

I guess what my question is... Do you find some girls/guys MORE attractive if they are in a relationship, unavailable, interested but still not giving in? I guess I got some messed up interests or something or I'm finding quality girls that just happen to be unavailable.

I pretty much quit my job about a 2 weeks ago and I knew for a fact that I would cease all connections with this girl as well since we just talked to each other a lot because of work location and we went out AFTER work usually. I also find it a waste of time really that I even approached her the way I did without actually going through all the way with anything really aside from huge sparks between each other...

I'm not stupid, I know when a girl is interested and she litterally tries not to look at me directly sometimes and when I turn away she stares at me hard and as long as possible. Whenever we get really close too each other she just constantly adjusts herself and I know she tries to hold herself back which was kind of funny to me at times. A lot of times she goes with the flow when we make physical contact she would constantly try to innocently rub up on me and I just look at her and she'll look straight or away with the damn window wipers crap again. The funniest thing is that she talks a lot to her boyfriend on her cell phone but the minute I pick up my phone she wants to know who it is and wants me to end the call or something. That's the number one piss off move for me so I pretty much put her place when she tries to call me on that one.

She would even wait for me to finish working as well, sometimes 30-45 minutes when I do overtime and she takes a detour to travel longer with me via transit if I'm not driving her (I take my car sometimes). It's fucked up because these types of relationships are the worst, like what am I suppose to think? Is she really down? I also don't want to mess up my boys relationship even though it probablly is now... LOL. I left my job because I wanted to work different hours and I was getting sick of the job as well... She was also getting annoying too of course, I was going to really let her know what's up but I thought I'll just keep her phone #, email, etc and see where things go in the future which I always do with retard dramas like these.

Anyways, there's my rant for the month, I thought I would post it here since I probablly would never approach someone with this sob story in real life.

Again my question is...


Do you find some girls/guys MORE attractive and more alluring if they are in a relationship, unavailable, interested but still giving you the chase?

Yes

you should fuck her then chuck her.

no.. seriously do this. If she's running around her boyfriends back with you then she is defiantly not a keeper. Just use her, abuse her then refuse her man... it's the only way to win in that type of relationship.

then post pics about it here. hopefully nudes.

She would require too much effort to get that far which is why I'm not going to try since that seems like a lot of work in chatting her up. Wash Cycle, my thoughts exactly only she really wasn't pretending. She didn't even want me to talk to her boyfriend anymore and she has a track record of dating in the same circle of friends which is also retarded. The thing is, she's been with her current boyfriend for like 2-3 years now and I'm guessing she wants to move on or something. I hear the conversation she has with her boyfriend and they litterly sound like an old couple which is hilarious, and I even tell her that too (she doesn't say anything).

Anyways, posting this here already made me forget about it completely and I personally want nothing to do with this girl ever again. Even though she looks fit as hell and is 10 in the looks department, lol.

Yeah, I've had to go through this a lot. It sucks, especially here, cause all the perfect girls for me have bfs. But at the same time I think its a good thing because I know that I'm a terrible boyfriend and that they're probably happier with whoever they are then they would be with me. Lol some depressing shit man. But whenever there's something (or in this case, someone) you can't have, it (she) always looks much better and you desire it (her) a lot more than if you could get it (her).

It's kinda like drinking and the legal drinking age. A lot of people are heavy drinkers before they reach the age requirement, then they just find it silly. Same thing happens here. Know what I mean? Or do I just sound dumb lol.

Yes. After graduating and then getting together with some of them about half a year to a year later, it seems like they all have got hotter and I am like, "I want."

But of course, I can't have.