No, I don't really let stuff that happen here affect me in my real life. However, it's quite different to say the least. In real life my voice is heard and when I ask questions or say something I usually get some sort of feedback or response. People usually come to me seeking help, telling jokes, come to me with some serious conversations, etc. I like that, I'm involved and I feel some sort of connection... Perhaps it's a female thing.
I'm not involved in many internet communities aside from gamingw. Actually when I think about it, gamingw and two other places are the only internet communities (excluding facebook, msn, etc) I go to. I've been unregistered here for a long time and I only started posting here because I found myself spriting and story writing with my free time more often (most in which I don't post).
I don't post often but when I do post I usually like to hear some sort of reply. If I happen to read something or someone asks for an opinion, I will reply. I thought that was the purpose of forums. I actually just deleted my last post from G&D because I knew I was wasting my time - I wasn't angry or anything but people read but didn't post (just millions of guests).
I realised that the internet is much different then real life. I find it hard to personify text, it's hard to post my personality on gamingw if you know what I'm talking about. I guess I'm just having trouble finding my place here. No slit wrists, just me ranting

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I tried irc but there's a lot of idlers and few people actually chatting.