wow...no I've never done that. Is her fiancé your friend?

Sleeping with someone else doesn't automatically make her a slut. She really shouldn't be cheating, but cheating once with one person is different from being a slut. People get tempted and some people are worse at dealing with it than others. (this isn't meant to sound harsh, just trying to point it out)

Feelings of guilt are natural, and if I were a daytime TV show I'd say tell the truth about it.

But since it's not FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DON'T TELL HIM.

Is the Fiancee

a) a large, muscular guy who could rip you apart if he found out

b) a scrawny dude who would yell at you and throw a coffee cup at you if he found out



if you answered "b" you have nothing to worry about. continue on with your relationship-ruining ways

LOL

B)   except he is Asian so he might know kung-fu!

thats the thing with asian guys, sometimes they're so busy that they neglect their ladies and they become lonely. and of course you were there to satisfy her so.. you really cant blame yourself.  You were just at the right place at the right time. 

off topic question, is the girl asian?

My friend Drew has a thing for girls in relationships.  He slept with a co-worker who was engaged for several months before kicking her to the curb, made out with another friend in a relationship, and also had a huge crush on me develop when I was engaged to my ex, but we never acted on it because... why would I fool around with someone if I was planning to commit to someone else for life?  But yeah, evidently as soon as the girl Drew was sleeping with got married, she lost all appeal to him and he doesn't pick up the phone when she calls all lonely (Read: horny) while her husband is busy at work.

Anyway, not sure why you think what you did was awesome...  Think about how you'd feel if she was YOUR fiancee and she slept with another guy while you were out of town.  She must be feeling very confused right now as well.  Are they pretty recently engaged/close to the wedding date?  That's a very vulnerable time for a person who has made the decision to be with ONE person for the rest of their lives.  It doesn't make her a slut, but she really doesn't seem ready for such a huge commitment at this stage in her life. 

I hope for your sake she doesn't conceive a white baby or you've got some explaining to do...

PS I'm under the presumption that you're white since this is a very black thing to do and you're trying to be black...