Topic: Have any of you ever been stalked? (Read 3386 times)

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Okay, so here I am just browsing away as I do, when all of a sudden I get this phone call...
I think to myself "Hmmm, this is a little odd, who would be calling me at 11:30pm on a tuesday night?"
Nonetheless, I took the call and said Hello as one usually would...

There was no reply.

All of a sudden I start to hear some music in the background, the weird part about this is that it isn't a commercial song, but is in fact a piece of music I used in one of my games recently.
Pantomime: Rapunzel, a game I released for GW's 24-Hour Game Design Competition has a minigame called JAN KEN PON (direct rip from Alex Kidd's Jan Ken Pon or Rock Paper Scissors game), where the music plays before the results are shown.

Now the first thing hit me, I was shocked that someone was actually playing the game, it is pretty bad after all.
Secondly though, their number was set private so I have no idea who this was, all I know is that they have my game and have my phone number (what else could they have? :crazy: ), I ask the people I know but either half of them don't know what the hell my game is or they just plain don't know what I'm talking about.

Anyway, this has been like the first person in like 2 years to phone-stalk me but either way I'm not really fussed because they just get bored.
Just thought I'd share that, and while I'm here, speak of your stalking experiences:
Have you stalked anyone?
Have you been stalked?
What methods have been taken to stalk/get rid of someone?

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No seriously that is why.  But I'm just being e-followed, this guy isn't following me around in real life as far as I can tell.
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Will posting here reveal the identity of your stalker???

Actually, I was stalked for about 2 months by an ex.

Most people actually stop and laugh at this point, but it really is quite bothersome on a daily, and nightly basis. I'd go for days on lack of sleep because I'd open my eyes and see her peering at me from the bedroom window. Chick had somehow skinnied up a tree or some shit and would sit on the roof for hours just to "watch me sleep" as she said in court. It even came down to the point where she tried to "kill" my (then) fiance, and I say "kill" in quotations because, as much as it scared the hell outta us, I really don't think she would've done me any emotional or physical harm. It's wierd, but I think it was some last ploy for attention.

I had to get her phone numbers banned, as well as block collect calling (which was horrible idea at the time, with my mother not having a cell phone, she'd call collect from payphones if she got stuck or needed help), and issue a restraining order. With the restraining order in place, everytime she called, knocked, or showed up, all I had to do was call my lawyer, and She (my lawyer) would notify to police or judge or whoever. Eventually, after about two months, she gave up. Court, and jail were beginning to be something she couldn't deal with, even to be a "part of my life".

But see, I knew who I was dealing with. You, Jay, you have no idea who was on the other line. Most you can hope for:

If it's a continual problem, contact your local authorities, as well as your operator. You can attempt to block the last caller, but filing a police report is defiantely needed. You'll have official paperwork, which will help you prove that it's been a repeat, and bothersome occurance in your daily life.

Dont hide, or close yourself off. I became close to paranoid, trying to watch behind my back, look in cars next to us, or just lock myself up at home, in an attempt to "no deal with it." You'll have to deal with it, face first, and hope for the best.
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I was stalked for two years, i'm probably still being stalked now but who knows. It happened after one of my more stupider cousins came to visit suddenly things were being moved in odd places and i'd see the occasional green light in the bathroom completely disappear. Thing is though they never seemed to do anything, they just watched.

I didn't realise this until one day my dad was half drunk and angry yelling at me to go to the attic door, bang on it as hard as I could and scream at the top of my lungs that whoever was up there had 10 seconds to get the hell out (or else we'd beat the shit out of em'). So I did, and when I went downstairs to face him with a sarcastic grin I heard tons of sudden hurried crawling sounds from upstairs, and when we were checking out the house upstairs the front door slammed. Eventually the side door slammed and I heard running upstairs. Our windows were reversed so people could get in outside easily, our door locks (those chain ones) were busted off, and i've been coming across some key placed cameras. It helped when we got an alarm system and our sister stayed over, when she was alone once it went off and nobody was there. The same alarm was busted off with the rim around the door. I once saw a windows loading screen on my television, and I was not ever on drugs or drunk when any of this happened (I also didn't have anything hooked up to it).

Thing is though these guys were pros, whomever they were, and didn't act anything like your typical stalker. They could've killed me whenever they wanted, but they never did. One thing I figured out though is they get really angry when you thwart one of their atempts to bug the house, or don't answer the phone alot. They'll phone you and make sure your there sometimes, so be weary when you answer the phone cause if theres no answer then he/she/they are phoning you to make sure your there.
Last Edit: November 11, 2008, 10:58:06 pm by Boulvae
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Yes. All the ladies love to stalk the fat, unattractive security guard. My life is just... so hectic with all these stalkers!


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Boulve are you saying someone was living in your attic and you didn't do anything about it for two years? What the fuck?

No and I don't understand how any other guy could be stalked unless it was from a jealous ex girlfriend or something but if it ever happened to me I would probably be the last person you would want to stalk. I could see how weird phone calls could get pretty annoying though because there is pretty much nothing you could do except yell into the phone at someone who you would hope is even listening.
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Boulvae... oh man... haha

what are you even talking about man? aha

No, I've never been stalked and I don't think I've ever actually stalked anyone beyond like creeping a girl I liked's facebook waayy too much.
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I couldn't of done anything if I wanted too, my house was a maze (and the the person(s) was really fast) and there was five ways into the attic. Over 50 ways inside the house if your determined, hell you could walk in take the first thing you see and walk out and no one would be the wiser if they were in the next room if you were quiet enough. I hated that house, but my new mobile home has no attic, very small, and out in the country.
Last Edit: November 11, 2008, 05:21:23 pm by Boulvae
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Yes. All the ladies love to stalk the fat, unattractive security guard. My life is just... so hectic with all these stalkers!

I like how you look!

Also no I've been stalked once by some weird girl. But there's nothing else interesting to say about that.
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I don't know if this is stalking, or just a case of a guy being extremely annoying...

This guy I went to high school with decided he had been in love with me since we were in school, even after over a year without contact.  He claimed he'd been having trouble starting relationships with other girls, and finally realized the reason was because he was comparing all other girls to me.  He coincidentally(?) had a psychological breakdown and was discharged from the Air Force to come back home within a couple weeks of me breaking up with my boyfriend.  He knew full well I didn't return his feelings.  He asked me out pretty much immediately, and I told him that A: I still didn't feel the same way about him, and B: it was too soon after my last relationship to even consider a new one.  About a month later, we decided to hang out with mutual friends and he tried to kiss me, and even arranged for one of his friends to get me alone and question me as to why I didn't want to date him.

I told him the next day he'd made me extremely uncomfortable, and told him to leave me the hell alone.  He started calling several times a day, usually leaving messages, and also showed up at my door without notice.  I didn't realize what he was doing was grounds for a restraining order, and found him mostly harmless at first... I just thought he was annoying.  This went on for another month or two.

One night he showed up at around 9:30 pounding on the door.  He called my cell and home phones while standing outside for roughly 15 minutes, then left.  Half an hour later he came back and knocked for another 5 minutes.  He left one final message to tell me he was going to leave me alone, but had left something on my front doorstep.  I checked after about an hour, and it turned out to be a DVD set he knew I'd been wanting.  He called a couple times after that, then stopped completely.  

Since then, the only times I've heard from him were a message on my cell phone from some crazy chick calling me a bitch for not returning his feelings, and then later a message on MySpace to tell me he'd moved to Connecticut to live with said crazy chick, whom he'd met online.  He told me via MySpace that he was extremely depressed and suicidal after my rejection, and she flew down to see him.  They ended up dating, and he knocked her up and married her within a year.  I told him if he contacted me again, I'd tell her about it, then blocked his account from contacting me.
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Damn, I'd be fucking paranoid as hell if that happened to me Boulvae. I mean, shit, dude o.o

However, I don't get stalked in the EYES IN MY WINDOW sense however I do get followed around a bit at my school which is really more annoying than anything.
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ahaha Boulvae rules! if you skipped over his post go back and read it.

also idk I think a lot of people have been e-stalked at one point or another. when I was like 15-17 I posted my pic on a forum and this 14yo girl with life-size cardboard cutout of the Rock in her room went nuts over it, she got into a 2-page argument with some of the other members and ended up admitting she saved & edited it on her computer and some other shit like trying to find out where I'm from etc. despite being WEIRDED OUT I still kinda got a big head from this so I changed the picture to something else and took a screenshot for THE LULZ or w/e. I probably still have it somewhere, but idk if I'd post it with all the.....netsleuths....around here
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I like how you look!

Let's have sex.
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idk if I'd post it
the reason I'm serious about this because it was the worst time of my life, I had lyme disease and as a result severe chronic depression. going through the archive this was in was pretty difficult, I had actually blocked out or forgotten about a lot of stuff that happened back then. dunno why I care tho, you'd have to be really bad to netsleuth someone in a thread about stalking lmao

anyway im gonna post it because I really like the dudes that replied:
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a guy on ventrilo showed me a picture of his penis when i was 14 but that's just strange, not stalking behavior

seems pretty normal now so that's good

boulvae i can't believe that you could not do anything about that. get five or ten people to watch the entrances/exits and just bang on the door or something. how can someone live in your attic for years without you doing anything about it? i can't tell if that's a real story or not
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I followed my ex-girlfriend around at the JC Penny where she worked, ducking behind racks of clothes and jewelry displays whenever she happened to make any sudden movements.  When she got off I jumped out from behind the bench I had been hiding under and beat her mercilessly with a tire iron.

At least, that's what she would have you believe.
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i havent been stalked but some of these stories are fucked. i.e Boulvae
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There was a kid who was a closet gay in my school in year 9 and he used to come around to my house and play command and conquer on my PC and he took a dump on my toilet seat and missed the bit where you're supposed to poop so my mum said he couldn't come over again so after that he used to follow me home every day at a distance of about 20m and then stand outside my house. This got quite annoying so I ended up fighting him and he always used to try and cup my balls.

For some odd reason he dropped out of school and he and his family disappeared off the face of the earth.

The end.
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last year this weird freshman girl stalked me for a little while but it was pretty docile and i pretty much treated her like shit until she lost interest.
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For 3 years I stalked this hot chick, it started when..... wait, this is a thread for people who have been stalked not for the stalkers?

nvm then!
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