You're not going to like my response. :P

It KINDA sounds like you're jumping into a new relationship a bit too quickly, and looking to this new girl to help you get over your feelings for your ex, which is unfair to her.  Two months of single life is very short in comparison to a three year relationship, especially with leftover feelings.  In my opinion, your ex doesn't deserve another chance (her "I was just depressed" explanation kinda sounds like a load of crap IMO).  What you've deemed as sincerity as far as wanting you back doesn't necessarily mean she's going to be the girlfriend you need her to be.  She's very likely realized how good she had it with you, and wants that back.  That doesn't mean she's going to suddenly stop fooling around, start growing up, and treat you properly.  She needs to prove that she can function as a human being by herself, without using you as a crutch (Do you really want the drama of a girl who drinks, parties, and quits school as a way of avoiding problems?).  This new girl sounds better for you, but as I said, it's not fair to start a relationship with her while you still love your ex so much. 

Plain and simple... you're young, and it's very likely that neither of these girls is the one you'll end up with for the rest of your life, or even 5 years from now, so there's no real reason to rush a decision.  Like YH, I feel that if either of these girls was the right answer, you wouldn't be so conflicted right now...  It might be best to at least tell the new girl you need to step back for a bit, because you NEED to deal with your conflicting feelings before you can truly commit to anyone.  Honestly, you need to make sure you're happy with yourself before being happy with someone else.  I know that feeling you get after the end of a long-term relationship where you just want to jump into a new relationship because you miss the benefits and companionship, but that's really not the best way to deal with the situation. 

Anyway, good luck with whatever you decide.

I saw a couple suggestions for a threesome, thats funny. I had one with my ex and her best friend. I'm not lying, it does happen. I thought it was just a pornographic fantasy myself, but everygirl I know these days is bi.

Yeah, the old girl and I talked and she agreed that as much as shed want it to work, it just wouldn't be the same again. We both fucked up in a way, and we are able to be friends. Heck, I ran a table from my apartment to her parents, (for one it was theres, and two they needed it for thanksgiving.) She got me high as fuck, gave me a hug, and I left to go to my family's stoned off my gourd, and that makes the meal feel twice as amazing.

This new girl, she's not dumb. I think she just has bad habits at least when it comes to the spelling, like mostly it happens when she texts.

and theres too kinds of smart, schools not her thing. Wasn't much mine late in highschool either.

anyways thanks for the input, most of them were pretty intelligent. even for gw.

No, I know what your thinking, if she could share me she doesn't care that much. Really, she did. A lot. Sex to her, what she always told me, wasn't a big deal. She'd strive to be loyal to her love, but if she was single she held no punches so to speak. Her best friend was also a good friend of mine as well, and it was consentual and really fun, except afterwords my girlfriend got kind of jealous.

But the situation was that she just got cheated on by her boyfriend, and we were drunk, and my girlfriend was all like you should have sex with him, so you can have good sex for once. later that night were all making out with eachother, and even later than that we go to my room, I start to kiss my girlfriend, and her friend starts to take her pants off and nobody said anything, it just happened. I was passed back and forth like a piece pipe.

oh yeah, its everything youd think it would be.

If you got girl problems I feel bad for you son. Really though, there are forums that deal specifically with this kind of stuff. I have advice on the subject, but you probably wouldn't listen.

Dont stress. Coincidentally, I was in the same situation around 3 months ago. It's hard, because whoever you choose might end up being your life partner! What I suggest you do is, talk to someone who knows them both about it. But make sure it isn't someone who is ignorant, because they won't care and would just be like, oh yeah go with her and whatever. No don't do that, you dont want that lol. Maybe a brother, or someone who you reveal a lot to. In situations like this friends and family can help. Let them help you choose, because, no one in Gw is going to actually give you real and I mean REAL answers. What i did was screw both of them bitches and stay single. And still am (I hate engagements. Ugh.)

No way for you to get back with your ex and just sleep with the other on the side or the other way around... bringing up a threesome would be difficult wouldnt it?

If your only interested in just one of them then choose the second one, the first girl sounds a little uncontrollable. The uncontrollable girls are the type who end up sleeping with other guys when they decide to go out with their girlfriends.. never happened to me, honest.

ever had one girl suck your nuts while the other blows your your tip? it's nice.