Well I had the same dilemma years ago but the idea of somebody fucking me freaked me out. I have no doubts since then.

why not ideas about you fucking the other guy?
Sounds like you're a closet bitch to me.

professional jealousy?

who the fuck'd be jealous of you, bub?

heh just watch they're about to make out because strong men are so sexy.

HISS

edit: goddamn paladine

@Strangluv: Yes! Thats exactly what I was trying to say but just didnt know how to word it!

@Jmickle: But as you put it, it is very confusing. How do i know that getting over it is the right thing to do, maybe im not supposed to? 

Hey, maybe your not! Just wait and see what happens. Don't act on anything unless you REALLY think its right, coz it has the potential to be VERY embarrassing.

Eventually you will find out either way. Well, I assume so anyway. As I said before, I'm not an expert on this.

@Ryan: Does the fact I focus on the penis during porn count?

yer gay

it doesnt make you gay. I don't really understand the question but I think you should try looking at naked men. I don't think liking Boners will make you gay.

face it..your gay and your goin to heck

What's the difference anyway? do you feel the need to belong to a specific sexual orientation group?
First of all you're yourself, and that's the most important thing. Being gay/straight/bisex/etc is just a label we use. and the only way to find out is by yourself, with time. Nobody can know better than yourself what you are and how you feel about certain things.
I say don't rush and try to see in what group you are, with time you'll discover it yourself.
but if you want MY opinion, I think you're just confused, and nothing of the things you mentioned gives me the impression you're gay.
You could always try to watch gay porn, and see if you can even tolerate it without being grossed out, even if it isn't a definitive answer, at least it's a indicator.
EDIT: in my case, I figured out I was gay around 16-17. I knew I liked men much before, but never felt I was part of the "gay community" because I was told they were supposed to be effeminate and have a lisp, Which I didn't. I know it sounds stupid, but I don't think I was in denial, i never had any problems with it, but I just felt... weird, like I didn't fit with the rest of the boys my age, but couldn't get why. With timemy curiosity lef me to see gay porn and stuff, and I discovered I really enjoyed it, and because most porn pages had the label "gay" on them, I starting asking me if I could actually be part of "The gays".

can you watch straight porn without getting grossed out cray.

imo when he says AM I GAY he's really trying to figure out whether or not he likes men

gay men tolerate straight porn much better than straight men can tolerate gay porn (note, this is a generalization)

yea I'm just saying I don't think that's a very good test! I don't get grossed out by normal gay porn. you might say getting grossed out by it means you're HOMOPHOBE/CLOSET GAY but you could have other reasons for feeling uncomfortable too. if he'd LIKE IT then he'd have a pretty good answer but I don't think him getting grossed out by it would prove anything either way.

that why I sait it's just an indicator, if he happens to like it then there's a good change of him being gay/bi. if he doesn't it doesn't mean much, but at least one of the outcomes gives somewhat of an answer.

your avatar is hitler, I think we all know you sexuality

Day 1: Watch heterosexual porn. Ejaculate in a cup.

Day 2: Watch gay porn. Ejaculate in a cup.

Measure and compare semen volumes.

The study you just listed is much too biased.

If you want to assure the trials are truly independent of each other, you need to wait at least a week.

if you're actually FOCUSING ONT HE DICK in porn uhhhh idk man I'm not gay but I think you might be! like that is your FOCAL POINT sooo...

also after this topic is done or you have your response kill it as DADT means if one of your superiors figures this out you're gonna get dishonorably discharged I think!

you could be bi btw but I think DADT still applies.