thats the thing dude, they did it for MONEY. how do you view that as a positive step at all? you know if it was two men they would have been booed off stage. they did it because people are scum and want to see that shit, not because they were really advancing gay rights. that does a great deal of harm, because not only does it carry the covert suggestion that just like Tatu, most gays are faking and just want attention, but that the best way to approach gay rights is through oversexualizing women all over again.
this wasn't a step towards gay rights, it was a backslide and pretty embarassing at that. I'm done with this...
I can see where you are coming from now, but I never saw it that way. Maybe I am too optimistic towards them. I still feel as though more good came from it then bad... that is just me... let's leave it at that. I don't want to argue anymore.
...You're the one who mocked my manner of speaking, if you recall. I've got every right to be angry at you for conveniently forgetting arguments and so blatantly switching tactics from agressive to pitiful... ...However, the way you're acting here is annoying to say the least...
I did mock you, and I apologize, but I didn't start it. Your reply to me before was extremely condescending... first, you implied I knew nothing about tatu and went on to tell me i was embarrassing myself for trying to defend one of my favorite bands... You also called me 'Dear' which kind of sounded as though you were trying to make yourself seem superior to me. All I did was call you 'dear' back. You also annoyed me, so were even ;)
And you think I 'switched tactics' by trying to act pitiful? I really didn't mean it that way. I was hardly anywhere NEAR as aggressive as ANYONE ELSE was towards me... anyone can look back and see that. I did talk down to a few people, but it was only in return, and again, I'm sorry. I only stopped and apologized because I was trying to cool down the arguments. And I wasn't targeting you alone in my previous post, either. Don't tell me I deserved to be talked down to the way I was. I had a blatant slur thrown at me for Christ's sake... i didn't start anything.
I have already made my apology and I was accused of trying to act pitiful... if we could have a decent argument about tatu WITHOUT degradingg each other in the process that would be cool.