So I know a few people don't like them. Think they demean women and all kinds of other shit. That makes sense to me and I'd agree with it but ladies gotta make a living and if I want to see titties and they're willing to do it then I'll damn sure support them.

I've had some pretty crazy times at em' before though. I remember a few months ago I went to one and some old black dude told me I was a prophet or some crazy ass shit.

I always try to go and strike conversation with the strippers though and see what they're thinking and what they're like. I know it sounds dumb but its pretty fun and interesting and it kind of draws them to you a lil bit if you're sincere enough.

Like tonight I went to a club and was chatting with some girl who said she was 22 had 3 kids and was going to college for business administration or some shit. I told her that I didn't like going to clubs because its kind of demeaning an pretty lame and she started laughing. I had a pretty fun time because my bud paid for me because I didn't really want to go and it was fairly cool but kind of depressing.

its always depressing but you've kind of got to get past that. It can be really fun though if you can get past that. The girl said she didn't like the work but she made good money, "gotta do what you gotta do" I said and she agreed.

fu ntimes

for my graduation my parents surprised me with a prostitute (prostitution is legal here in new zealand) which was just the weirdest thing to do ever. they were like "oh head into your room, there's a surprise waiting for you" and i thought it'd be something cool and before i opened the door mum says 'oh you'll need this' and hands me a condom.
turns out i knew the girl from highschool so we just talked (i wasn't going to have sex with her anyway) and caught up. she said it's usually not too but you get a lot of guys who treat you as an object like literally, like they barely acknowledge that you're another person and that's pretty weird but not too bad until they start getting rough/thrusting too deep.

EDIT: this was fake sorry i don't even know why

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holy shit dude. Thats a crazy thing for parents to do.

I dunno I just feel like saying some stupid shit like "HEY YER HOT WHATS UP ?" is incredibly shallow and lame. knowing that the conversation will go absolutely nowhere and I'll leave alone no matter what but I'll have fun with it and maybe learn a lil bit in the process is much healthier then hitting on a stripper that is paid to be a sex object and wasting both of our time. But I guess if you look rich enough they'll try to go home with you but I don't look rich and I don't want that either.

I've always thought strip clubs were incredibly corny. I can't take the whole experience seriously to begin with and to compound on that there's always a bunch of dudes twice my age in there who are REALLY into it so there's this whole silliness factor.

i dunno the whole experience of going to a club is so absurd that I can't ever bring myself to pay the cover charge to get in if I'm even remotely sober.

The only strip clubs I have been in were in Grand Theft Auto games.

i went in one when i got fogged on land when i was due to fly offshore. it was just for a funny time with fellow offshore workers and i had a "private dance" which cost like £10 and lasted 2 minutes. you couldnt touch and some old woman was sittting in the corner i guess in case i tried anything! i was really drunk and it was just kinda bad.

all in all pretty lame!

I went to one not long after I turned 18.  All of the girls at the club really loved their job, but most were still doing it as a temporary thing.  I had a pretty good time there talking with the girls and getting the occasional lap dance, but to be honest, it wasn't sexy at all.  The girls were very attractive, but even when they were shoving their tits into my face, I just couldn't get turned on by it. 

yeah its hard.

Everyone saying its sleazy and corny and you can't take it serious is exactly right. I also cannot go sober and that is kind of the point. I guess we got lucky or something because it was a weds night and there were only like 3 or 4 other customers in the entire place. Its one of those things that you can only do pretty rarely imo.

I've never been to one but the whole concept of them seems really abhorrent and demeaning and i just couldn't support that kind of thing. That and I'd just feel like the biggest loser in the entire world if i went to one.

End of the day the strippers are the worst part of a, chances are, already horrible place to be.

I went to a stripclub once, but there were no titties. And I don't see it demeaning to women (or men) if they enjoy working there.

Really? You don't see how a bunch of men throwing $1 bills at a naked woman on a stage is demeaning  sexual objectification?

Sure some of the girls themselves may have a good time and think its a great job because its easy and the pay is good, but if you just take a look at the institution and ask yourself "what's going on here?" its pretty clear that a strip club not a very empowering situation for women socially.

Its a whole different story for male strippers because the whole patriarchy thing isn't involved. But the tackiness of paying for what amounts to an emotionally detatched pseudo-sexual experience of having someone rub their genitals on you is still there.

yeah like I said its lame as fuck but its kind of like watching a car accident or going to a party in a really shitty neighborhood full of gangbangers or something like that its got its own kind of fucked up charm to it.

Thats why I like going to new orleans so much esp after Katrina

Went once but it was really shitty one, so I didn't have a real feel of the concept.
The demeaning thing is bullshit.
But I'm not interested, I'd only go if I'm pushed there by friends.

Me and a few mates were all pretty wasted one night and were in town so walking past the strip club one of my decides to walk in. Next thing I know were still their around closing time just talking to the girls. Pretty weird night, but I wouldn't intentionally go to a strip club sober or drunk/high.