statistically, as far as i know, your average white american is wealthier than your average black american, so really the idea of this scenario playing out in this way isn't really racist, but just scientific. if every wealthy family took in a underprivileged kid and then you just randomly drew from a hat to see which family you were going to make a movie about it would probably be a movie about a wealthier white family taking in a black kid. but even if there is some race issue here thats not what gets me about this movie, what gets me about this movie is the economic issue. i think this reinforces the idea that it is ok to do a half assed job, by which i mean, in this movie the woman not only gets a moral pass for her entire family's wasteful lifestyle, but is portrayed as some sort of saint. it makes it out as though having a conscious isn't something ordinary but something extraordinary, which continues the idea that its ok to be a sub par, selfish, asshole. but don't get me wrong it's still good to help people, and it is good that this is a true story, and that there are people that do stuff like this (even if i wish it was the standard), but it brings me to my next point. sandra bullock alone made what, tens, hundreds of thousands of dollars to play in this movie? and how many of those dollars are going to underprivilaged children (of any race?), and how many other already rich people made money off of this movie that are never going to give anything to anybody but their other rich friends? and who is going to pay at the movie theaters to see this movie, the disintegrating middle class who is scrambling to movies/drugs/anythingthatcangettheirmindsoffthemisserableworld, which will just drive them into further poverty.
now that i have yelled from atop my soapbox, i just want to say i dont have a problem with movies that try to sell you sex, drugs, rock and roll, violence, horror, gore, laughs, information, or anything else besides morality. to me most movies give you what you want (any of the listed above) but i feel like movies like this are trying to hook you, which is perverse. to sell someone something that they want at face value is fine, even if the content is twelve men shitting on a lady, and even to try to appeal to peoples emotions is fine because i think in general people like to feel emotions (despite their consequences) but to appeal to someones morality is practically the definition of amorality. i can very easily imagine a whole group of white women going out to lunch and talking about how great this movie looks and all of them secretly hating it, but not wanting to seem cold hearted, and then probably even all going to see it together and talking about how great it is and maybe one of them liked it or something. i dont think thats too hard to imagine. its overwhelmingly obvious that everyone, white/black man/woman loves sex/violence/bulllshit/etc, since thats what sells the most in america anyway, and that going to see a movie like this is just a way to have pretend morality, since if you actually cared about underprivileged people you would be out helping them instead of wasting ten dollars to see stupid ass fucking sandra bulllock.
edit: by the way i waste tons of money and am in no way some sort of saint, so...just dont think thats what im saying. im just saying why i hate this movie in paticular