This may sound cheesy but I have enjoyed reading these. haven't been able to read through life stories anywhere else on the web. hopefully this will be interesting at the very least
i talked to alot of people who let themselves get pushed into things (by their parents or just by their own sense of 'that's what you do' or whatever), and it always sounded like such lame crap and you're got to work things out first. not worth getting in debt and digging yourself into things.
Same happened to this fellow; it's pretty much true. It's a stupid social pressure. "follow ur dreams but goto college frist!!"
After I graduated college I stayed in town for the summer and worked facilities/carpentry for the same school and ran into one of my old teachers, he quipped in his own deadpan and gross way "hey didn't you graduate" and it pretty much angered me so I replied in a way I shouldn't have, but that's all done and it felt good at the time. so like graduating high school and pushing you to the generally considered "next level" apparently you're supposed to have a job with a corner office just months after you get your college diploma (or go to graduate school etc.). In a related note, I was an English major so everybody, EVERYBODY, asks you if you're going to be a teacher. Hated it so much I didn't consider the possibility.
I am trying to build a steady-paying career as an actor. Stage, film, voiceover, it doesn't matter. I just like getting involved with productions, it's a very useful emotional release, and you meet people. Sure I will dress up as a celery or bottle of pepto and sing you a song. I take a lot of enjoyment from people laughing because of something I did, so it's a little natural to do get into performing. Only thing is I didn't consider it as a serious career until last year of college, so it all feels wasted in that sense.
Tried to open my own theatre up in south dakota because I was at odds with a community theatre there and their shows sucked (I let them know it too) but everyone loved them. Celebrations of mediocrity are the worst. Long story short the theater didn't work out. This was all while doing other shows, training, and working fulltime! It was a very busy summer. The temp job ended and bills started take over so I had to move to Houston and now I assistant manage a fitness center in the morning and audition in the afternoons/evening. Been in a couple of nonpaying indie films but haven't had any luck so far getting bigger roles anywhere.
Also took part in a couple of open-mic stand up comic sessions at random bars here and was kicked out first round of a stand up competition since I've been here. I guess if I wanted to win I would have been dirty or racy or whatever but I agree with groucho that "real comedians are clean and funny." It was a fun deal nonetheless.