Topic: My boy is a slacker...My worst nightmare has come to life. (Read 1855 times)

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I enlisted with the Navy.  I spent a few years spinning my wheels in and out of college and I was at the point that I needed to make a decision about my career path, and I didn't know where to go.  I don't know what initially sparked the idea, but when I looked at the benefits, it was everything I needed.  Skills, discipline, paycheck, travel, and experience, all of which I sorely lacked.  I feel like now I'm realizing my potential, working harder than ever before.  Even if I end up pursuing a whole new line of work when I get out (something not electronic or power plant related), I'll have realized of what I'm truly capable.
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My life isn't going all that great, I work at pizza hut as a cook and bank about 500 a paycheque or so, been trying to save up to move out but hasn't been working out as good as I thought it would. I generally get along with my cooworkers but only really talk a lot to a handfull of them, and a lot of them are lazy as fuck and really piss me off to the point of bitching to the extreme at times.

My family life for all members has been going downhill slowly for some time now, basically only me and my sister get along, and we're the ones wanting to move out. There's a lot of personal shit going on with my mom, but I won't elaborate, basically shes a money-hungry drug addicted fiend. And that's something to say, on mothers day. No respect for the holiday at this point.

Me myself, have been doing way too many drugs, Cocaine especially, Oxys, any kind of pills really and I've taken drinking to a whole other level. I've been trying to improve myself and tell myself that it's the people I hang around with, but at the end of the night I'm usually the one calling up a bunch of number looking for that fix. I often drink alone these days after a casually day of work and more recently have been doing cocaine just by myself for that final high after a night of drinking.

I'm stressed, depressed, and trying to help myself. I believe I can, I just feel mentally weak at this point. Don't bother giving advice, this is pretty much my battle.

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i'm doing my masters thesis this year, hopefully i'll be done by august or so.
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right now i am super busy. i have a undergrad thesis on the normalization of extremist political groups like al-jamat al-islamiyya and i'm in student government as the external affairs VP so i have to coordinate a lot of stuff for the current SG pres. also i have a lot of classes and have a major final about international law due in like, a week.

but i still find the time to drink nearly every day which is incredibly unhealthy

That’s right, you have the young gaming with the old(er), white people gaming with black people, men and women, Asian countries gaming with the EU, North Americans gaming with South Americans. Much like world sporting events like the Wolrd Cup, or the Olympics will bring together different nations in friendly competition, (note the recent Asian Cup; Iraq vs. Saudi Arabia, no violence there) we come together. The differences being, we are not divided by our nationalities and we do it 24-7, and on a personal level.

We are a community without borders and without colours, the spirit and diversity of the gaming community is one that should be looked up to, a spirit and diversity other groups should strive toward.
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also, i was in a monty python production and i am making an adventure game for school credit. WOOOOOOOOOOO?

That’s right, you have the young gaming with the old(er), white people gaming with black people, men and women, Asian countries gaming with the EU, North Americans gaming with South Americans. Much like world sporting events like the Wolrd Cup, or the Olympics will bring together different nations in friendly competition, (note the recent Asian Cup; Iraq vs. Saudi Arabia, no violence there) we come together. The differences being, we are not divided by our nationalities and we do it 24-7, and on a personal level.

We are a community without borders and without colours, the spirit and diversity of the gaming community is one that should be looked up to, a spirit and diversity other groups should strive toward.
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i'm doing my masters thesis this year, hopefully i'll be done by august or so.
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it's a discourse analysis focusing on power relations in sperm donors talk
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I'm on a highly secret space ship mission to a distant star system where they found an earth-like planet. I've been on the ship for 5 years now and we just passed Mars last month. We are scheduled to arrive at the star SH8346G in 150 years.

cool.  I'll see you there.  I'm stationed there now.
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My life isn't going all that great, I work at pizza hut as a cook and bank about 500 a paycheque or so, been trying to save up to move out but hasn't been working out as good as I thought it would. I generally get along with my cooworkers but only really talk a lot to a handfull of them, and a lot of them are lazy as fuck and really piss me off to the point of bitching to the extreme at times.

My family life for all members has been going downhill slowly for some time now, basically only me and my sister get along, and we're the ones wanting to move out. There's a lot of personal shit going on with my mom, but I won't elaborate, basically shes a money-hungry drug addicted fiend. And that's something to say, on mothers day. No respect for the holiday at this point.

Me myself, have been doing way too many drugs, Cocaine especially, Oxys, any kind of pills really and I've taken drinking to a whole other level. I've been trying to improve myself and tell myself that it's the people I hang around with, but at the end of the night I'm usually the one calling up a bunch of number looking for that fix. I often drink alone these days after a casually day of work and more recently have been doing cocaine just by myself for that final high after a night of drinking.

I'm stressed, depressed, and trying to help myself. I believe I can, I just feel mentally weak at this point. Don't bother giving advice, this is pretty much my battle.


Hey - this all sounds like some rough stuff. I know about drinking alone, it is pretty miserable alot of the time! I won't give you any advice, but I hope you figure some things out. It sounds like you have alot of baggage.

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This may sound cheesy but I have enjoyed reading these. haven't been able to read through life stories anywhere else on the web. hopefully this will be interesting at the very least

i talked to alot of people who let themselves get pushed into things (by their parents or just by their own sense of 'that's what you do' or whatever), and it always sounded like such lame crap and you're got to work things out first. not worth getting in debt and digging yourself into things.
Same happened to this fellow; it's pretty much true. It's a stupid social pressure. "follow ur dreams but goto college frist!!"

After I graduated college I stayed in town for the summer and worked facilities/carpentry for the same school and ran into one of my old teachers, he quipped in his own deadpan and gross way "hey didn't you graduate" and it pretty much angered me so I replied in a way I shouldn't have, but that's all done and it felt good at the time. so like graduating high school and pushing you to the generally considered "next level" apparently you're supposed to have a job with a corner office just months after you get your college diploma (or go to graduate school etc.). In a related note, I was an English major so everybody, EVERYBODY, asks you if you're going to be a teacher. Hated it so much I didn't consider the possibility.

I am trying to build a steady-paying career as an actor. Stage, film, voiceover, it doesn't matter. I just like getting involved with productions, it's a very useful emotional release, and you meet people. Sure I will dress up as a celery or bottle of pepto and sing you a song. I take a lot of enjoyment from people laughing because of something I did, so it's a little natural to do get into performing. Only thing is I didn't consider it as a serious career until last year of college, so it all feels wasted in that sense.

Tried to open my own theatre up in south dakota because I was at odds with a community theatre there and their shows sucked (I let them know it too) but everyone loved them. Celebrations of mediocrity are the worst. Long story short the theater didn't work out. This was all while doing other shows, training, and working fulltime! It was a very busy summer. The temp job ended and bills started take over so I had to move to Houston and now I assistant manage a fitness center in the morning and audition in the afternoons/evening. Been in a couple of nonpaying indie films but haven't had any luck so far getting bigger roles anywhere.

Also took part in a couple of open-mic stand up comic sessions at random bars here and was kicked out first round of a stand up competition since I've been here. I guess if I wanted to win I would have been dirty or racy or whatever but I agree with groucho that "real comedians are clean and funny." It was a fun deal nonetheless.
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i'm in my third year of a maths degree. it's okay. as sad as it sounds i really like the problem-solving aspect and the way you can build up these whole insanely complex and elegant worlds from really simple concepts and axioms but that's just one part of the course and there's a lot of stuff that doesn't interest me enough to try and punch through it. all the courses start off with some rules and ideas and develop them from there but if the basic foundations are abstract and difficult or if the terminology isn't what you're used to or if the professor is bad or if you're just not feeling it then it becomes the most tedious and painful slog ever. maybe i'm just dumb??

idk what i'm doing after this except it won't be going back to college. i don't want to get any kind of creative job because the thought of having to rely on something so vague and unpredictable is horrifying. i want to keep making games though and actually make something good at some stage! it's kind of frustrating because working on computers annoys me even just in terms of SIT STILL AND PEER AT SCREEN but all my ideas (??) are for games at this point. i want to learn construct but i've been too lazy to really plough into it! i don't know what job i'll get. i don't really care but i probably will three weeks into one. also i want to get out of this country if i can, preferably as soon as possible. that's it! want want want
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i'm in my third year of a maths degree. it's okay. as sad as it sounds i really like the problem-solving aspect and the way you can build up these whole insanely complex and elegant worlds from really simple concepts and axioms but that's just one part of the course and there's a lot of stuff that doesn't interest me enough to try and punch through it. all the courses start off with some rules and ideas and develop them from there but if the basic foundations are abstract and difficult or if the terminology isn't what you're used to or if the professor is bad or if you're just not feeling it then it becomes the most tedious and painful slog ever. maybe i'm just dumb??

idk what i'm doing after this except it won't be going back to college. i don't want to get any kind of creative job because the thought of having to rely on something so vague and unpredictable is horrifying. i want to keep making games though and actually make something good at some stage! it's kind of frustrating because working on computers annoys me even just in terms of SIT STILL AND PEER AT SCREEN but all my ideas (??) are for games at this point. i want to learn construct but i've been too lazy to really plough into it! i don't know what job i'll get. i don't really care but i probably will three weeks into one. also i want to get out of this country if i can, preferably as soon as possible. that's it! want want want
man tbh I kind of wish I could handle a maths degree. what kind of maths are you focusing on?

p.s. isn't maths vague and unpredictable too? owowowowoooo it's me, the ghost of chaitin's number. i am putting holes in the real liiiine.
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honestly if you know abstract programming stuff then it probably dovetails with a lot of higher maths stuff! i just did my category theory exam which is like really really generalised set theory and most of the people in it were computer science guys. i like a lot of set/group/category shit and also harmonic analysis stuff but the abstraction that makes it fun also probably makes it useless for real life. i have a recurring nightmare of going to a job interview and having the interviewer jokingly ask me what i actually know while i stare wildly at him like a deer in headlights.
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I'm about to finish my second year of university (university of applied sciences would be the official term, it's a little bit different but i don't know if any other countries have the same system we have here in Finland) studying computing which includes everything from local networks and servers to coding to visual design/multimedia and pretty much anything computer related. I have mixed feelings about my university because a lot of the courses are ridiculously basic and easy and I'm afraid that after I graduate, I might not have the requisites to get a good job. It's a difficult situation because I'm still not completely sure what I want to major in or what I really want to do! And it's a problem for me because I'm pretty lazy and I don't get easily motivated if I don't find something I really want to do, which is really one of the reasons why I'm studying computing in university even though I could probably learn faster on my own. By going to university I'm forcing myself to try different things I would normally be too lazy to do and hopefully I'll find something I really enjoy doing. I actually worked as network administration for 8 months last year and that's one thing I definitely could see myself getting more into because depending on where you work it can be a pretty versatile and challenging job. But anyway, another thing which irks me about my university is that I have to take a lot of business courses as well and it's just not really my thing. The courses aren't too difficult for me but there's so much work and so many projects involved that the amount of work I have to do for something I don't really have interest in is pretty ridiculous.

I don't want to quit though because if I did, I wouldn't really know what I'd like to do instead and my current university isn't competely bad, I do enjoy being there. The challenging courses are a lot of fun and starting next fall, there won't be anymore mandatory business courses which is great because then I can focus on the courses I'm interested in. The downside is that I have failed like 10 business courses due to lack of motivation or being too busy so unfortunately I still need to retake those. I have been working full-time for this whole year as well as studying at the same time and it's been pretty tough, at one point I pretty much studied and worked from 8-9 am to 10-11 pm every weekday and I had to spend weekends on school projects and other unfinished homework and it was really tiresome. I kept that up for almost 3 months but it was just too much so I had to drop a few courses so I'm studying a bit less now while working full-time. I plan on keeping this job till the end of summer so I can focus on studying when the next semester starts in fall, of course I'll try to find some part-time job as well.

I also moved out to my own apartment 2½ months ago so I'm really happy that I have been working full-time because I needed a lot of cash for that. I also want to save up money for traveling as there are a lot of places I want to go to (Rome, New Zealand, somewhere in Asia, Greece, interrail in Eastern Europe, Argentina, America...) but unfortunately I'm pretty impulsive when it comes to money and I also drink and party more than I probably should so we'll see how that's going to work out.

Anyway, long story short, I'm really happy with how things right now and even though university isn't exactly everything I wanted it to be, I still think it was a good decision to go and the past two years of my life have been pretty much the best ones despite the last five months being really challenging and tiresome. I have to admit that I don't always take studying as seriously as I should and one of the reasons I don't quit university is because I have made some really great friends there (and again the fact I really don't know what I'd want to do if I wasn't studying) and I just want to enjoy my life right now without worrying too much about what's to come. I have always kinda lived in the moment without thinking much ahead so I'm not really too bothered that I'm more or less undecided what I want to do with my career despite being 23 years old already. I'll discover it sooner or later!
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just at the end of my first year of a-levels(also got some sense and became an agnostic atheist 6 months ago) and i'm pretty much gearing myself towards doing a degree in mathematics. i had originally planned on getting into medicine but i found that i had absolutely zero interest in biology at all, nor anything to do with the human body so i scrapped it. i'm pretty stable atm, developed an interest in philosophy(which lead to me apostating from islam) so i actually think before i think something and not just take on other's ideas and spout them out. though tbh i have zero idea what i'm going to do after university, i plan to do a masters so i have another year to specialise but idk what you can do with a maths degree(except finance, which is boring as fuck) so i'm pretty aimless when it comes to jobs and shit. though i guess since i'm 18 in october i can at least drink legally, so that's a plus, but yeah just going where life takes me i guess!
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I am currently looking at a double degree in environmental studies (policy (as opposed to science) side, with a specialization in international development) and political science. In high school i was terribly uninvolved in the direction of my life as most high schoolers are, just trying to find some weed and get laid, but in my second semester at University i pulled like a 3.8 gpa which is the best I have done since like the 6th grade! so that is cool. if i do not dramatically change course i will probably end up picking up some green job with the envs degree or going to law school.

i also work at red rocks amphitheater in the restaurant there! for those of you who do not know about this place it is one of my absolute favourite concert venues on earth. the restaraunt closes when the shows start and i get in fo FREE. sweeeet gig.

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