idk about you but i want my child free of all social skills and relationships besides the one with his mother
I hope you're joking, because if you're not then you have to deal with the matter that's inevitable: your kid having absolutely zero social skills. That's basically akin to emotionally stunting your children if the only relationship they have is with their parents. How will they cope in the world if they have no idea how to conduct themselves amongst other people? I grew up in a very open-minded household, I traveled a ton in my later youth, got to know so many people and so many cultures. What you're talking about would basically be raising a child to be a shut-in. That's how people get agoraphobia for crying out loud.