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well I'm not a doctor but it looks like you've got AIDS. spend the time you have left.

blood test?

nah it's okay you've been coughing a lot and had sex last week, even though that could be anything, it's cool, you got AIDS, lemme tell your mom in front of all these people.
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As much as it seems like a dick thing to do, I have to agree with Steel on this. You don't tell someone shit like that without being sure, especially in public. Health Care is one of those professions where you have to do your job right or your going to cause someone else emotional, mental, or physical damage. If she couldn't even realize the major issue with what she did, she should not be working at a hospital.
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As much as it seems like a dick thing to do, I have to agree with Steel on this. You don't tell someone shit like that without being sure, especially in public. Health Care is one of those professions where you have to do your job right or your going to cause someone else emotional, mental, or physical damage. If she couldn't even realize the major issue with what she did, she should not be working at a hospital.

yeah pretty much this

You don't say shit like that in a medical profession.
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i didnt read your post but this is.... just like old times
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yea...because you still aint reading posts LOL
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CONSTRUED AS TELLING ME.

dude she SAID I HAVE CANCER. she said "I'm afraid this does looks like cancer" and there was no follow up with COULD BE ANYTHING THOUGH and then told me I was going to die very soon. this isn't selective telling or whatever, fuck her. you don't tell someone it looks like they have cancer when you don't know how is this an ethical grey area???

the point of this is so she doesn't fucking do it to anyone else! first off it's incredibly just...gross, I guess, to tell someone they have cancer in a public emergency room (my mom fell over and was sobbing and this was all in the emergency room, not in a doctor's confidence), and then when you don't actually know and you're not a doctor, basically fuck you get a new job.

fuck her dependents and bills, this is my life she's talking about. a nurse has no right to tell me a diagnosis that she doesn't know about. the reason this is MAY instead of DO have cancer is because of an oncologist who said it could be any number of things and the biopsy would reveal more. the nurse told me I had cancer and was probably going to die. I have no problem getting her fired.
but yeah i wish you'd elaborated instead of just saying she told you to spend all the time you have left because thats really not nearly as bad as heh you gonna die browny.

still though i probably wouldn't PURSUE HER JOB because idk i am what some people might call a... "compassionate individual" and empathize with other human beings maybe you should try it steel???  you are still coming off as kind of vindictive and not level-minded about the whole thing tho!  i think it would be better to show the empathy and good conscience that she evidently lacked and GIVE HER A BREAK or w/e because she'd probably be more likely to understand what she did wrong than if she just got fired!  that part seems pretty unnecessary and idk i'm not crazy about FUCKING UP PEOPLES' LIVES, especially if it includes potential children they might have, just because they did something dumb to me that ultimately aside from WORRYING ME TO HELL didn't have much of an effect.  i'd feel pretty bad about it.  i don't really understand this desire to want her to pay, to be honest, and i've had people do pretty shitty things to me in the past (not tell me i'm going to die, but uh, pretty shitty nonetheless).
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Steel, yeah the woman is an insensitive bitch but getting her fired is an eye for an eye.
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Well, I guess it all depends on whether you want to mess up someone else's life for messing with yours. After all, it's pretty easy to say you're a dick when its not your mom in tears and you thinking that your lifespan was just cut into ribbons!

I'd talk to her first though, and figure out why she said those things. Cause I mean, I know you want revenge and all, but I really have to wonder how much better you'll feel by kicking someone down over what could just be an honest mistake.
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two wrongs dont make no right steel... they dont make no right


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Telling someone they have cancer and that they should "spend their time" is extremely dangerous. It is absolutely not something you should do if you're not a thousand percent sure (of course, you should also have the credentials to say such a thing). Who knows what the patient or his family might end up doing? The incident should be reported and she should be punished accordingly. Since hospitals can get sued over this, they will probably decide to terminate her contract. That's the way the market works, unfortunately for her.
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well the bitch would have ti coming
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it would be sad if you did have cancer and spent your days going to court to testify againts a nurse .-.
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Telling someone they have cancer and that they should "spend their time" is extremely dangerous. It is absolutely not something you should do if you're not a thousand percent sure (of course, you should also have the credentials to say such a thing). Who knows what the patient or his family might end up doing? The incident should be reported and she should be punished accordingly. Since hospitals can get sued over this, they will probably decide to terminate her contract. That's the way the market works, unfortunately for her.

yeah dudes this. why would I care about EYE FOR AN EYE? you realize that like...this is incredibly horrible to do, right? like someone less psychologically stable (LoL) would probably do something drastic. there's a reason you don't tell people awful diagnoses in public.

like...do you think people shouldn't be fired at all for anything or something here? this is like the WORST POSSIBLE THING TO DO, honestly, and most of you would be okay with someone being fired if they messed up an order for the fifth damn time or whatever. it's not like she meant to say something nicer and was like OH SHIT I MEAN IT JUST LOOKS LIKE IT IT'S HONESTLY PROBABLY SOMETHING ELSE, she meant to tell me you're gonna die.

this isn't vindictiveness; if she's right or wrong, I don't care. there are other people out there she's going to make this mistake on and I'd rather she get fired. fuck compassion, you're telling people they are going to die! there's no issue of compassion there, if anything the compassionate thing to do is to stop the person from doing it again!

seriously this isn't some little fuck up like "well we have to do the xray again", this is a woman who told me I was going to die when she had no idea if I even had cancer or am even REALLY SICK, just that I have a lump in my chest that can mean anything from tuberculosis to a childhood scar. that's really fucked up and obviously scared the shit out of me (I wouldn't make a topic saying I'M GONNA DIE I THINK if it didn't) and I do not care about her twenty kids, you don't tell people they are going to die when you don't actually know they are going to die, you don't tell them in a public emergency room without even so much of a warning, and you don't tell them when you aren't even qualified to tell them.

there's a reason it's called a profession, because there's some degree of professionalism involved and this was highly against that.

it would be sad if you did have cancer and spent your days going to court to testify againts a nurse .-.

...have you ever leveled a complaint against anyone before? you don't go to COURT what the fuck.
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it would be a little sad dude, if the last thing you did was ruin someone's life

i mean, if you don't have cancer, then eventually you'll get better, and yea you had a pretty bad week cause of her, but you're still alive right?
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holy fuck I cannot believe I am reading this stuff.

someone who does not know if I have cancer or not told me and my mother that I had cancer and was going to die while operating under an official capacity at a hospital, how is this somehow forgivable?

STEEL...DONT MAKE THE LAST THING IN YOUR LIFE REVENGE for fuck's sake are you kidding?
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*clicks tongue* this nigga can't even possibly die without causing controversy...
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How about just telling her about it so she won't do it again and tell her that she could be fired for it instead of having her fired for it
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Steel, yeah the woman is an insensitive bitch but getting her fired is an eye for an eye.
"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" - Gandhi

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Nah but really she has no right to say that shit, it's in her job NOT to say anything like that. She's not a doctor.
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How about just telling her about it so she won't do it again and tell her that she could be fired for it instead of having her fired for it

jesus christ I dont know who the fuck she is. this isn't Denny's, I'm not going to show up at her shift and give her friendly advice about not telling people they have cancer when she doesn't know it. if you're going to be that grossly incompetent and you're dealing with people's lives, I don't really see friendly advice from a magical negro as the solution.
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