Topic: Your Emo Years or: Awkwardly Talk About How Much Worse Strangeluv and Mkkmypet Had It Than You (Read 13564 times)

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I don't get why people are equating this with attention whoring.

Really, this is the type of stuff that you don't talk about with anyone, or maybe with just a few select people. And that can actually be quite a serious problem. Not being able to talk about something makes you eventually want to scream it out. The internet is a place where you have a higher degree of anonymity, allowing you to be more open. So how is it surprising, at all, that people would use the opportunity to come clean and get an outsider's take on it?

To some degree, yeah, it's just asking for attention. But that's really not always a bad thing. People need others to give attention to their problems before they can put it at rest. That's why we came up with things like school councilors: because being forced to keep your problems to yourself can be very detrimental to your mood, psychological well-being, and, eventually, your health.

The whole "NOBODY CARES ABOUT THIS" bit is a little harsh and, well, off-the-mark. If you really don't care, then that's fine, but it shouldn't be too hard to get that people just want to be heard every now.
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ALSO, I read both of your stories and they're really depressing. I've had a virtually perfect life except for getting bullied and beat up through primary and high school. Just in case anyone's collecting life reflections.
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MKK I am compelled to believe in your story since you wrote it after strangeluv and he is probably trolling again. I really sympathize for you and wonder if I had heard some story like that on 4chan once.

Anyways, I'm glad you're recovering quickly with a psychiatrist or whatever. I got over deep depression with pills and pills alone, so I've got a pansy story none of you want to hear.
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i really don't see how anyone can think he is trolling after describing the neighborhood he lives in in the other topic.
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btw if any of you get raped you can over-exagerate anything you like
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i really don't see how anyone can think he is trolling after describing the neighborhood he lives in in the other topic.

what other topic

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Well, seeing as I haven't even done this, and I feel bad not to, I just wanted to say that I hope everyone who had their sucky periods are a lot happier now, instead of just saying "MY LIFE IS AWESOME COMPARED TO YOU D:"
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dude you're bipolar  :woop:

but seriously, that's not soooo horrible. unless i'm missing something, you're either going through normal teenage moodshifts and can't recognize that, or you actually are bipolar, which isn't the worst thing in the world, after all Beethoven was bipolar. Worst comes to worst, you'll end up like him.

(Dead)

nah i'm kidding, you'll be fine, but if it does worry you (and it only should if you CAN'T CONTROL these moodchanges, then talk to someone. not on the internet though because people here don't know shit.

Well I'm two months shy of 22 so I'm quite sure (like, 98% here) that it's not 'normal teenage moodshifts'. I think I may have bipolar tendancies but yeah, I can stop myself most of the time from feeling like shit (by stopping and thinking about the situation etc.).

Also, yeah the internet is good to vent. I've told three real life people about this, my two housemates and my oldest and dearest friend. They helped but getting it out there into the world (but in an exceedingly annonymous fashion) is somewhat theuraputic (sp?).
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maybe if you dont like the topic and dont want to contribute you could follow your own advice and not post in it?
is that really the best reply you could scrape together

WELL IF YOU DONT LIKE IT GETOUT

do you even know what website you're on?  i guess i am just one of the three people who think it's attention whorish to write out all the bad parts of your life so people you don't know or care about can read it and go "man that sucks".


anyway yeah teenage girls overdramatize shit to a pretty ridiculous extent, and like steel said, unfortunately it does extend to even really awful things like rape/molestation.  i worked with a girl when i was 17 who just went around the entire building being like HEH YEAH I WAS RAPED MAN IT SUCKED and wouldn't fucking shut up about it, yet refused to call the police.  it was pretty transparent!  so clearly this isn't something that people are beyond.  reading her post it sort of comes off like it's being played up to be a tear-jerking story instead of just SEQUENCE OF EVENTS so i think it's actually pretty funny that a bunch of people are going HEH NOPE NO ONE WOULD EVER DO THAT WHY WOULD THEY?? when the reason is not only extremely obvious, but also conducive to the fact that you're already posting in a massive sympathy topic.
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yeah i actually knew a girl who was trying to sleep with me who lied about being raped. i honestly don't know why she did it or what she thought it would accomplish but she admitted to me a few months later that she was bullshitting about it.
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My freshman year in High school, I fabricated a story about a girl I met online to stop assholes from calling me gay.  The story ended up snowballing into her cheating on me when we first met, and my ex-girlfriend thinks it's true still.  Even though I told her "Everything I told you was a lie"

The funny thing about this, is I perpetuated this lie for 2 years(the last part was added on the last month or so, and was only added for sympathy purposes), and actually began to believe it myself, and ended up carving her name in my arm.  Good thing it didn't leave a scar, which leads to my other emo moment.

Man, that's fucked up.

my first actual relationship other than a two week awkward fling with my best friend was online and i always felt really awkward about it since i had to lie about it ALL THE TIME. i couldn't keep it a secret either because we chatted on the phone.

honestly though i thought i had it pretty bad (for most of high school and definitely before i was that kid NO ONE HANGS OUT WITH) even though senior year was okay now college is a looot better (i have lots of friends and a girlfriend and the only time i feel really awkward anymore is when i'm around nerdy kids and that's for different reasons).  most of you guys seem to have it a lot harder than me though. i feel bad because i knew kids like you in high school and always thought 'man those kids are really fucked up'

man if i had had, you know, FRIENDS then i feel like high school wouldn't have even been that bad.

i kind of get why you guys feel like spilling out your life stories to people, but it is really kind of weird that you are doing it in the format you are doing it in. HERE'S A TIMELINE OF ALL THE AWFUL STUFF YOU'VE HAD HAPPEN TO YOU etc. plus, I think you might be sharing details with people online who you might regret telling later. i wouldn't feel comfortable with telling ANYONE some of the stuff that's been told here!

also the worst thing that ever happened to me was two days after getting my driver's license, I went around a turn too fast (not speeding... maybe 25 MPH in a 40 zone, just way too fast for a 90 degree turn), hooked inwards and went a couple of inches into the other lane while i was trying to stabilize the car, and smashed into another car full of old ladies who i nearly killed and my head was cut really badly because i hit it off the crossbar and was only an inch from going straight through the windshield and i was traumatized for a month about being in vehicles because i would start shaking really badly if i was a passenger and feel like crying if i had to drive.

it's actually a really funny story if i tell it right, now that it's in the past. i am just describing it harshly now because that is what it was really like.

i have a lot of really funny stories about really horrible things that happened to me in the past. i should write a column like HOW STUPID IS TREG??REALLY STUPID.
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anyway yeah teenage girls overdramatize shit to a pretty ridiculous extent, and like steel said, unfortunately it does extend to even really awful things like rape/molestation. 
Is it really beyond you to give mkkmypet, a long time GW member and generally ok person, the benefit of the doubt?

Man the shit coming out of your mouth right now, get some fucking tact. "Oh she's probably over-dramatizing her rape!" I just don't even know what the fuck.
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I don't see what's wrong with this topic. There's a 20+ post topic all about STEEL, but no cares because it's an important thing. I think these testimonials are fine. But only on GW could a big deal be made about something like this. C'mon, they are just trying to get these things off their chests.
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I don't see what's wrong with this topic. There's a 20+ post topic all about STEEL, but no cares because it's an important thing. I think these testimonials are fine. But only on GW could a big deal be made about something like this. C'mon, they are just trying to get these things off their chests.

ok cool this has been stated like 30 times already. back to feeling sympathetic!

also i can't believe you're comparing someone having CANCER to people telling stories about what happened to them when they were in the sixth grade.

also if you want to GET THIS SHIT OFF YOUR CHEST go see a fucking therapist. sharing your deepest secrets with Bunsen.05 on GamingW forums isn't the ideal place to do it!
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Is it really beyond you to give mkkmypet, a long time GW member and generally ok person, the benefit of the doubt?

Man the shit coming out of your mouth right now, get some fucking tact. "Oh she's probably over-dramatizing her rape!" I just don't even know what the fuck.
a) she's a pretty big shithead, even for a kid!  idk if you don't read her posts or are just as dumb as she is but yeah i don't really know where this came from

b) if you're going to HAVE BEEF then yeah i'm going to go ahead and say read the goddamn topic and don't take things people say out of context like a huge douche.  but YEAH THATS IT green bomberman all everyone is saying is that she's being a little too melodramatic about rape (common its not THAT bad.........) congratulations for being so goddamn smart as to figure all that out.  i am fresh out of gold stars to award you so i guess i will just say thank you for gracing us with your supreme analytical and comprehension skills.
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Thanks headphonics, that was really mature of you and didn't make you look like a bigger asshole in any way whatsoever! And yeah, obviously I know how mkkmypet acts - I've been here long enough. She might say some stupid shit but she is a kid, dude. I'd have figured you as smart enough to take that into account once in a while.

Also, don't patronize me  - it makes you look petty.
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I don't get why people are equating this with attention whoring.

Really, this is the type of stuff that you don't talk about with anyone, or maybe with just a few select people. And that can actually be quite a serious problem. Not being able to talk about something makes you eventually want to scream it out. The internet is a place where you have a higher degree of anonymity, allowing you to be more open. So how is it surprising, at all, that people would use the opportunity to come clean and get an outsider's take on it?

To some degree, yeah, it's just asking for attention. But that's really not always a bad thing. People need others to give attention to their problems before they can put it at rest. That's why we came up with things like school councilors: because being forced to keep your problems to yourself can be very detrimental to your mood, psychological well-being, and, eventually, your health.

The whole "NOBODY CARES ABOUT THIS" bit is a little harsh and, well, off-the-mark. If you really don't care, then that's fine, but it shouldn't be too hard to get that people just want to be heard every now.

I have to reply to this and just say no.

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Really, this is the type of stuff that you don't talk about with anyone, or maybe with just a few select people. And that can actually be quite a serious problem.

no. this is the sort of thing you ABSOLUTELY keep private and with a few people. this is not like saying "yeah I had a drinking problem a few years ago" off hand during another conversation. this is deliberately informing a group of strangers about shit they had nothing to do with and quite frankly could not care about. and don't lie to me, you really don't actually care about this. it was shit that happened years ago. if she was saying NOW or if Strangeluv said his father beat him NOW, you would, but this is all after the fact. thus it is the definition of attention whoring; saying shit just for sympathy from others.

this bizarre concept everyone has that all private matters must become public and therefore magically tolerable is antithetical to the entire school of psychology. of course people should acknowledge their problems and horrible things that happened in their past. everyone here knows my father died when I was very young. but do you know how? do you know what type of cancer (yep, cancer) it was? no. it's because I deal with the details in private and you just know "hey, he had a hard time once". that's the NORMAL thing to do.

topics like this are attention whoring, sorry. psychologically and socially they are also poor choices to make, because believe it or not, some things really should just remain between you and those close to you.

I don't see what's wrong with this topic. There's a 20+ post topic all about STEEL, but no cares because it's an important thing. I think these testimonials are fine. But only on GW could a big deal be made about something like this. C'mon, they are just trying to get these things off their chests.

do you not see the difference? let's not say STEEL IS MORE IMPORTANT, that's not what I mean. that topic isn't about me, it's about something ongoing in my life that people are at least remotely interested in.

imagine the topic, though, was about how I HAD cancer. let's also imagine it's not interesting. that's a big part of this. I don't like to suggest people need to spice up their life stories but this topic is full of people urging essentially bullet lists of the bad shit in their life and substanceless "wh...whoa".

basically everyone is viewing this as unburdening but in reality it's nothing! we don't know you well enough for it to be a burden! that's kind of the big deal if your argument is how healthy it is.

telling strangers online really personal shit!=deep psychological cleansing.

also as far as how exaggerated mkkmypet is being, don't care. she shouldn't tell us this stuff anyways.
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kids are dumb, but honestly, i think once you hit about FOURTEEN you should probably be called dumb for holding reprehensible viewpoints.  i certainly was by OLDER BROTHERS etc and i'm thankful for it because if there was one thing that made me grow as a person it was FEELING ASHAMED of who i was and how i acted, and needing to escape that.  there is a difference between understanding why people are dumb and accepting/tolerating it.

also i'm really pretty okay with LOOKING LIKE AN ASSHOLE because i am being an asshole and that is kind of the point.  you come into a topic, read posts and somehow manage to completely miss the point of them, and then make some smug, preachy fucking post that shows you really have no idea what we're saying at all.  it's obnoxious and presumptuous in the extreme, and i'm going to tell you that in the most insulting way possible because i think people who come into topics and ridicule others for posts they don't even seem to attempt to comprehend probably deserve it more than most.

soooo basically don't come into topics getting all angry and not knowing what the fuck you're talking about and it won't even be an issue!  i know, amazing, right?
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