harry manback you really keep in contact with your cousins huh


i guess your black after all... on the inside..

He's over there another 2-3 years longer for school.

my advice:


keep hitting it.

Hmm, in this situation I think you both have the same amount of guilt. Think about it. In my opinion there are some several situations and the amount of guilt that goes with it. I didn't read all posts (only page 1), so keep that in mind please. But I believed you said this girl has a BF that is/was away for a long time. Naturaly she has some needs that can't be satisfied at the moment, because her BF is gone and yes, this makes here furnable (or whatever you spell that word).

Situation A: The girl has a BF she practicly sees every day and you know each other well:
A1: She fancy's you, which results in sex: Both the blame, but you should know better.
A2: You fancy her, which results in sex: Her blame, but you are a dick.
A3: You fancy each other, which results in sex: Both the blame, she should end her relation ship.

Situation B: Situation A, but there is alcohol in the game:
B1: You both are drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: You both have the same amount of guilt (she only has more explaining).
B2: She's drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: You have the guilt, taking advantage of the situation.
B3: You are drunk and she fancy's you, which results in sex: She has the guilt and should end her relationship.
B4: She's drunk and you fancy her, which results in sex: You have the blame here, using the advantage, you are a dick.
B5: You are drunk and you fancy her, which results in sex: Her blame and she should end the relationship.

Situation C: The girl has a BF who's gone for a long time, which gives and advantage.
C1: An occasion results in sex: You are always to blame, you take an advantage of her biological needs.
C2: An occasion results in sex, but you DO remind her of her relationship: Her blame all the way, but still....

I just want to know what kind of relationship has a couple seeing each other for only two weeks out of a 2/3 year span. The GF must've been incredibly optimistic or dumb. I Some people can't go two weeks without sex. I like being single because I can do what I want to whoever and I don't have to explain or justify shit. I let everyone I talk to know from the start my intentions, so I can avoid problems like this.

Sleeping with a girl already in a relationship is wrong, but sometimes...you gotta do what you gotta do. The girl could've stopped it once she realized where it was heading, but she didn't. I wouldn't feel bad. That "relationship" was doomed to fail from the start.

I think 'most' is too strong a word.

nah most people have probably cheated at least a little bit on someone during their lives i think, even as teens!  that is my experience anyway