Topic: Girl trouble, 2 girls in love with me (Read 2066 times)

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Alright, well at least I know that I am not the only one on this forum who posts their personall problems for answers.

so the predicament goes like this, I lived with my girlfriend of 3 and a half years that is until we split for the last year. We had a life together, a partnership, and a family pretty much just consisting on some pets together. However, we moved to another town a few months ago because she was going to go to school there. However a bout 2 months ago now, wow, what a long time, she broke up with me. However we continued to live together and fool around. Mistake 1.  Before we broke up, we pretty much partied and got drunk with my neighbor a few years older than me downstairs. I had to go to work in the morning so I often went to bed, and she would stay up and party with the friends. However, she started getting distant and in the midst of it, we got in a fight and she broke up with me, returned my engagement ring and everything.

I was looking to meet somebody else and I did, and started talking to this girl, coincidentally, my girlfriend at the same time was about to propose we get back together. I agreed, but hesitantly. Some things had happened since we split up that I wasn't happy with, but I tried to let it go because we weren't together. However, the whole time i was jealous, insecure, and bitter. This went on for a couple weeks. She went away to see some friends at school for halloween parties, I had to work so i didn't go. Then she told me that was going to move out, IOW, leave me. So I started to talk to this other girl again. A few days after she moved out, I started seeing this girl for real.

Meanwhile, my girlfriend was realizing what a mistake she made, and realised it wasn't me that was the problem, she had been depressed for a while throughout our relationship and she thought it was me that needed to change. That and combined with her bad reaction to alcahol where she can tend to get mean, she ended with me when she got mad, and did nothing but party for like a month, making it hard for her to sober up and realised the reality of what she did.

This girl I'm seeing now is great, but I'm 20 and shes 17. She likes the music I like, not a gamer but likes games, she used to play gamecube, she plays guitar like I do, likes to party, and she's really fun. She has some flaws and she triggers a few pet peves about me, like shes a bad speller, and not very good in school. I feel like sometimes I'm at a different intelligence level sometimes. But shes so nice to me, and shes good looking, and overall pretty cool.

And now I'm torn. I love my ex more than anything, and watching her destroy herself because she has nothing going for her, she dropped out of school, and that she's so sincerely wanting me back, breaks my heart. I just want to go back and pick up where we left off, and finish what we started, we were supposed to get married in just a few weeks from now, and now its all gone.  I know i didn't wait as long as I should've before I started dating again, and it feels like if I had just waited a few more days, everything would be back to normal.

Any thoughts, and not from the peanut gallery?
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Have a threesome.
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Just one small tip: Don't let age difference get you down too much. If you can mingle with each others' friends, then it'd be fine, I'm sure.
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WELL, not to shit-post, stay with your current girlfriend, imo. It's kind of common for ex's to have feelings for each other due to lack of proper closure and it's pretty much always skewed because when you get back together with them, it's not all that. It's like you left a messy desktop, a beautiful screen-saver came on, you're enticed by it so you come to use it again and then all of a sudden IT'S A MESSY DESKTOP again.

If your current girlfriend is very nice to you (which is a laudable quality that you don't miss until it's gone man, trust me) and you feel she's trustworthy, I don't see why you should leave her for this other girl, except out of pity, which is what you're feeling.

All in all, don't get back with your ex out of pity. And don't make any decisions until you can think clearly and rationally about the whole thing.

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Last Edit: November 28, 2008, 03:51:31 pm by Strangeluv
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man this is what always happens to me

I am all lonely for a while wishing that I had someone to spend time with and then anywhere from 2 to 4 girls all come on to me at the same time and its just like GOD WHERE WERE YOU 3 MONTHS AGO WHEN I WAS CHAINPORNING

and the last 2 times this has happened I've picked the wrong girl. oops
Last Edit: November 28, 2008, 04:38:02 pm by Wash Cycle
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tell one girl that the otherone is her from another dimension, and tell the other one the same.
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Yeah dude you can't go wrong with a threesome. 
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give one each a test drive, whoever has the sweetest nectar wins.
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Think hard on it for a couple of days. Then, make your decison.

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Dump the first girl. Its really a given seeing as how she kept pushing you aside like a toy she didn't want to play with anymore and then kept changing her mind when she got lonely.

dumb the shit out of her
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Move to Utah, where you can be happy with BOTH of them!
I'm a broken slot machine. But, the Sanchez Brothers and their friend are a very cheerful trio. They will make you happy.

Would you like to insert a buck?
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...Or make them both fight for you in a topless jello match. Winner takes all.
I'm a broken slot machine. But, the Sanchez Brothers and their friend are a very cheerful trio. They will make you happy.

Would you like to insert a buck?
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Yeah dude you can't go wrong with a threesome. 
Unless one of them...Was a clown!
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Dump the first girl. Its really a given seeing as how she kept pushing you aside like a toy she didn't want to play with anymore and then kept changing her mind when she got lonely.

dumb the shit out of her

This is what I was gonna say pretty much. If she's OUT OF THE BLUE just decided to dump you (probably because she's messing with other people, given your backstory!) then why give her a THIRD chance? I get the second chance thing, but if she's done it twice she's probably just gonna keep doing this over and over and over man.

Second girl...I can't really say anything bad about her from what you said.  3 years ago difference? So fucking what. Look at most people's parents that have been together for like 30+ years. Are they all the same age? I doubt it man. If your biggest concern about a girl is a 3 year age gap you've got a pretty good girlfriend! And if you're expecting a girl to have share EVERY SINGLE hobby you're gonna be single forever :( (indoctrinate her with some left4dead)
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throw out the old and get with the new.

your old girlfriend is just going to continue to treat you like shit if you let her back in your life.
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yeah bro, let the ex explode herself. it's best if you dropped her out of your life, fer cereal.
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if the answer isn't obvious, lose them both.
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