Now I expect the average response to be "Well if you like doing it, and you can afford to do it, why not do it?" Another individual I've met, a nursing student now off on her final year placement, mentioned once that "an addiction is medically classified a hobby that you begin to do instead of essentials, like sleep/eat/work/etc. So if you're doing everything you need for survival, and then spending every other waking moment on one activity, you're not an addict."
I like this parallel here. no one said anything about addiction. if you were addicted
you probably wouldn't be posting. there's a difference between addiction and just having an unhealthy habit and guess what both are bad for you.
Me: I've seen your list of things you call "life"
you talk like the world's worst alien.
HUMAN...WHAT IS THIS OBJECT YOU CALL 'LOVE'?
Him: Well what do you consider "life" then, I mean you don't seem to care about self-improvement and your only form of self-gratification is gained by retreating into games. You're a shut-in.
Me: The words we use code underlying meanings, like the fact that you believe I "retreat into games" rather than the more positively worded "Exploring games" or just "playing games".
there's no code. if you play videogames rather than do something else you are retreating into a safe area. way to act like a condescending dick to your friend though?
Me: What if i'm not hiding, I just have no interest in anything that goes on out there?
you're probably fucked up. I mean, if you really have zero interest in reality, you are really really bad off!
(from drama to sports to dorm-room style get-together activity house point bullshit to outdoorsey hobbies like fishing or rock climbing or hiking or whatever,)
the veritable gamut of social activity...
Me: But what's the point of having them in moderation if I've already explored other options and found them to be unenjoyable?
SO YOU DONT END UP WITH AN ASS THAT LOOKS LIKE COTTAGE CHEESE BECAUSE YOU'RE THIZZING OUT OVER WHEN THE WOW SERVERS WILL GET BACK ONLINE WHILE THE REST OF US GO FOR A FUCKING WALK.